Field Report
I was going to the movies when I run into this girl from EE who was outside my building. She told me she is in Florida for 1 year and is working nearby as a waitress at the beach.
She was surprised that I could tell she was not from Florida. I told her I am a Couchsurfing host and I have met tons of girls from different countries abroad. I pulled my phone and showed her pics of me with other girls(Value Spike+Comfort builder). She got excited and started telling me about visiting a museum in Florida.
I thought about doing an instant date, so I said was going to the movies to see the latest Spiderman and she should come by. She said, "Let's do it." '
Squattincassanova has taught me that you should do two locations with a girl, my plan was go to the movies, then get a drink back at my place or a bar nearby. The movie theatre is at 10m walking distance from my place, btw.
She kept telling me about Eastern Europe, meanwhile, I told her that people in Florida exercise a lot, "You look like a strong girl." I used this to get physical and touch her arms and legs, she was receptive to it.
We bought our tickets but the movie was in two hours time. So she said, she needed to go change since she had been in the sand the whole day. She went home(apparently close by) and came back 30m later looking very elegant.
Since we had 1hr 30 left we went to grab ice cream and cigarettes nearby(She's into smoking, I'm not). I told her about my online job of teaching English. She told me she wants to improve her English and would be interested in in-person lessons(Here's when I thought I won this, she'll probably want to meet up and I'll close her at my place.
We got to the theatre to see Spiderman. Throughout the movie, I did soft escalations, touching her legs and body. I realized that when the characters are doing physical stuff(touching and hugging..etc) it was easier to escalate
When Spiderman and MJ were kissing.I was going to go for a kiss but was unsure how to proceed, if to hold eye contact intently or touch her face. And then lean closer? I looked into her eyes like I saw John do in the video but was unsure how to pull it off. Moreover, her lip was cut(maybe due to the smoking). Overall, at that moment I thought, I'll just do it next time, since we are going to meet for the lessons any way.
After we left the theatre we kept talking. I told her, " I might go drinking..etc. Maybe you can come by?" I probably didn't phrase this correctly. I moved to another topic, "This is a happy day." I did this since I just finished a class..etc. She told, "I'm glad, I met you." Once we reacher the street close to her house, she said she had to work tommorow(thursday), of course there is a way to reframe this but my rationale was, "Should I try to bang this girl? Or wait until my day 2 where I'll teach her English. Maybe, I'm going too fast."
Any way, I tried to kiss her here(I know its too much pressure on her but I finally overcame the fact she had a cut on her lip) but she moved head and let me kiss her on the cheek. I said, "Let's meet tommorow down my building" and she said, "Yes, after my job in the afternoon, just text me." I know one should try bang the chick as fast as possible(??) At the same time, I didn't want to be needy in that I know that lives close by and she is interested in taking lessons, we could just meet the following week(dissonace!). We texted afterwards.
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