Well basically I hooked up with a girl a few weeks ago and then she came down with a herp outbreak a few days later. She hadn't fucked anyone else so we're pretty sure I'm the one who gave it to her. I had no idea I had herpes and now I feel terrible about infecting her. She's stopped talking to me shortly after the outbreak and now I have no self-esteem anymore.

I want to provide value to girls but now I feel like I'm a liability. If I approach a girl, eventually I have to tell her I have a herp virus. Then she either has to break it off, or take a risk on my dick. Meaning that for 100% of girls I approach, I will either waste their time or seduce them into taking a risk.

How can I give value to the women I talk to when sex with me is such a huge risk?