Got her number, she is reading but replying, help! I really like her.

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-08-05T13:12:03+00:00

Doesnt matter how much you like her the ball is in her court. She already knows how much you like her(mistake on your part) so she'll contact you when she feels like it.

In the meantime hang out with other girls. Doesnt matter what culture you're in, women generally find the same thing attractive, be a guys act like a guy and you're be fine.

I'm assuming you're caucasian? Japan is easy mode for you if that's the case.

2019-08-05T14:48:28+00:00

You are valuing this girl too much. Maybe she said something that you value as important in a long term relationship so you are starting thinking ahead instead of being present to the moment.

The fact that you value more long term relationships instead of one night stands just mean that you have abandonment issues. But don't worry, I had the same problem too. So you value the girl so much because she would be so perfect as a "babysitter" for you, to heal your pain and take care of you.

I'll give you a simple visualization exercise to (partially) solve the issue.

Just trying to imagine right know your perfect girl. You can take the girl you talked about for the exercise. See her in front of you. Try to imagine every little datail. Her smile. Her lips. Her eyes. Her hairs. Everything. What she's wearing.

Now imagine that she says to you: "I'm your perfect girl. And you lost me. You lost me forever. And it doesn't matter what you'll do to try and get me back. I'll forever reject you. Every single day of your life. You'll be alone. You'll have sex with every girl thinking of me. Thinking that she won't be as good as me. Thinking that they are not enough. That they don't deserve your love. You'll be so empty inside. Because they will love you. They will fall for you.. but you'll just want.. me. And you'll die. Without ever been happy. Not a single day. Because you have lost.. me".

Just try to picture this imagine in your mind. Find the pain points and the reasons why it's such a pain for you. And asks you "why?". Multiple times. Until you find the root cause of why you just value so much a "perfect girl". And why you are so afraid to loose her.

Once you'll be able to fix that, your conversation will be much more natural, direct, authentic and you'll sparkle a lot more attraction with no effort at all.

iverygoodboy · 2019-08-05T13:12:16+00:00

Forget her, she's not replying. We all want what we can't have. It can drive us crazy. Talk to other girls and don't put pressure on finding a relationship. You'll get attached and come off as low value and needy. Focus on having fun, talk like old friends and escalate step by step from there. A relationship will form naturally with the right girl. This girl you met is not the right girl.

Title	Got her number, she is reading but replying, help! I really like her.
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Date	August 5, 2019 12:52 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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