I've been in a LTR for about two years, and what I have come to realize, partially from lurking for a while now on TRP, is that what I was putting in to the LTR was a lot more than what I was getting out. Having to initiate all physical contact, and even have to ask for it at times after giving it (no reciprocation). The same was true emotionally. I felt like I was caring out the LTR and enjoying it, and she was not caring and not putting pretty much anything into it.

I told her I felt that she didn't care, and was using me as somewhat of a fair weather partner. Happy to be with me when it's convenient for her, but relatively uncaring and ungrateful for what I was offering. I believe that at this point she is undeserving of the fit, intelligent, and driven man that I have become. I pretty much told her that. I told her I didn't want her to talk to me unless she thought she could appreciate me more and bring more to the table as a partner. She was crying when the conversation ended. I have a feeling she'll come crawling back in a few days. Is she even worth taking back? Given that we have been in a LTR for two years is it possible to shift the terms of the relationship and take her back on as plate (given that she is attractive and actually not a slut)?

Part of me feels good for putting my foot down, but the other part of me really enjoyed the good times in the LTR.