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[–]burningsmurf 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Just ask for their snap or number.
[–]kaczor451 6 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link
I am not sure if asking a girl for a number on the second day is a good idea. And snap is not popular in my country.
[–]burningsmurf 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
You’re right it’s better to get it on the first day. The faster you move the convo off the app the better.
[–]kaczor451 6 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
My usual pattern is 3 days of talk, number/facebook on 4rth asking out on 7-8 day
[–]renfsu 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How well does that work for you?
[–]kaczor451 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Pretty ok but id does not work for every girl. But I won't spend more than 2 weeks talking without any progress
[–]renfsu 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's a long time to progress with someone unless you live in a very traditional country
[–]kaczor4511 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yes, Poland is a little traditional tbh. At least the girls I meet are.
[–]Dopeless_HopeAddict 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I would avoid FB at all costs. Girls that are seeing other guys - AKA all women on dating apps - are not going to want to share that kind of access to their life.
Well a lot of women added me on facebook very fast. On the other hand you just move the conversation to messenger. You don't need to add each other ;)
[–]burningsmurf 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don’t follow patterns just go with the flow of the conversation. If you guys are having a great conversation and vibing really well she will give you her contact info.
Of course it's different for every girl but this is mostly how i expect it to be
[–]Altwolf89 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I just don't end the conversation with an out. Just don't respond with what is going on until the next day, then carry on the conversation.
[–]kaczor451 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes that would work. But most of the girls I talk to just tell me goodnight to be polite. Then starting the next day with "hey, what's up" is almost like a new try to approach her. And girls don't like that, as we all know.
[–]Dopeless_HopeAddict 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I'm tired, someone kept me up bumping their gums all night. I'll have to make sure to never do that again (tonight, actually. I'd like to do it again tonight)"
[–]ntipz0112 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Tinder game explained, take notes
4steps :
text her to see if she's into talking to you
remind her that you're here for a romantic relationship/hookup
push the idea of a date
get her contact
All of that in under ten texts if possible. GG you saved tons of time while increasing your lay rate.
[–]justbecool74 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You could wait til the end of the day the next day and ask hey how’s your day? Or how’s your day going? I’ve liked when guys messaged that to me
This time it was her, who asked me how was my day ☺️
[–]justbecool74 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Awesome!
That's a cool idea! Thanks
[–]LorePassingBy 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just text a meme that made you laugh :) something random, but linked to your interests. I love it when people do that. Way more interesting than 'hello, how are you today?'. She might getting enough of those texts by other people already.
Nice idea! Thank you
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