19 year old guy here. Freshman in college. Have barely gotten laid, had some issues with my testosterone but that's fixed now(on trt)

My issue is that I just don't know how to get plates. I'm average height 5,10.5. I think I'm good looking in the face, have a decent body(with a shirt on. I lift but not cut yet) anyways I have been trying to focus on myself. Trying to get a 4.0, doin boxing, lifting and learning to code.

My thing is that just like every other normal person, I want some connection with a woman every now and then, I don't mean emotionally but like sex, touching, making out.

I hate going out to bars and clubs because I'm not good in that social arena and can't pick up girls that well but idk what else. I live in a dorm if that makes a difference. I also don't like drinking because I'm trying to get ripped.

Also I have been getting a little awkward and since I went on monk I pretty much have no social skills with women. I will talk and focus on what they say until I can say something witty or insulting back to neg, which I suck at so they always reply confused like what..? Or just don't respond at all and look at me as kinda awkward

Not sure what's the best course, I can keep doing monk mode but I use to be sexually active before college all through my high school nonstop. So going from that to completely dry is killing me