Being able to talk to women properly is one thing but the real secret to confidence is inner game as so many before me have posted. Part of the inner game problems arhat plague is all at some point is confidence and drive. I think there’s one solution to most of the inner game problems we as men deal with and that is fitness. Yes it is possible to get a woman if you’re out of shape and yes it is possible to get a woman if you’re skinny but the fact is that women are attracted to a fit, muscular body because it makes them feel safe and at ease. That’s why I encourage you brothers to never give up on taking care of your health. I’m posting a link in this thread, it’s a series of workout videos, this is probably the most knowledgeable guy I know when it comes to things on fitness and dieting. Hopefully he can change your life like he changed mine personally. Here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKN0jNjXmYWP1sseU9AY-6g