How to escalate?

smoothmax · 2019-08-24T17:24:30+00:00

Rapid Escalation by Liam Mcrae, good read

recyclablebanthas · 2019-08-25T03:09:08+00:00

I never know when to go in for the kiss or how to make the situation right for a kiss.

There's no ready-made set of steps that will tell you an exact time.

The only way to know when, is by paying close attention to her responses as you physically escalate.

And of course, in order to approach escalation in a calibrated way, you should be starting off slowly and carefully.

The bottom level of escalation includes quite platonic and safe sorts of touches. I'm talking about a level of platonic touch that you could engage in with a homophobic dude without being accused of coming onto him. I'm talking handshakes, high fives, arm jabs, etc.

This might mean that you need to start paying closer attention to her physical reactions much earlier than you realized. Actually, from the moment you meet her. She'll react when you edge into her space bubble, too.

Those guys who are able to escalate real fast? They're only able to do that because they're tuned in from the get-go.

SpinPlates · 2019-08-24T18:12:24+00:00

If you get her back to your apartment, sex is already on the table. It's different for every girl. Some you might want to kiss and then walk away, keep the tension going and others you want to kiss and keep escalating until she stops you or you fuck her.

There isn't anything you can read that will blanket all ASD and LMR interactions. You have to just experience it, fail and learn to read a women's body language and try again.

I started really pulling back to my apartment when I was 21, and I wasn't super comfortable with escalating and closing till I was 25. Now I'm 29 and fucking 80% of girls I get into my apartment, even on the first date. Just like anything else in life, you have to practice in the real world, reading theory on here only goes so far.

2019-08-24T20:59:03+00:00

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Title	How to escalate?
Author	Sladeshot5
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Date	August 24, 2019 4:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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