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[–]WIA20XX 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't chase someone who rejected you. There are more than a billion eligible girls out there.
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[–]Not-Nationals 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No girl is perfect. You’ve a case of oneitis
[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Chicks say all kinds of things.
Just like PUAs say, it's not what you say it's how you say it, it's not what women say buy but how they act around you. Especially if they come or stay physically close to you. Do they seek you out IRL, online or in text. Even if they don't chase you, do they physically recoil when you approach them, or do they stay and listen patiently.
If you still like her but things went kind of cold, put her on the list of girls that are not hot prospects, but that you low-key game through texts or social media. Meaning, once every one or two months you communicate something fairly interesting about yourself that is not about her or asking her directly for a date, but reminds her of your existence and makes her think of you. Every so often it can be a low key invitation like, "bunch of us going for a drink tomorrow drop by X after Y if you want" i.e. that is NOT a date. Pro tip: if she bites, guess what your other friends bailed and it IS a date.
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[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It never hurts to ask someone out directly. 5 times a day on this sub, guys ask similar questions to yours and the.most common and upvoted answer is, "Just ask her out bro".
The PUA answer is to consider that your first fuckup or roadblock with her should be allowed to fade a bit and you should game other girls actively for a while and just remind this girl of your presence once in a while, and the initial attraction she felt for you might begin to kick in again. Especially as over time she gets over the ex and puts his good traits and faults n perspective.
If you insist on poking the bear again, you might as well acknowledge the awkwardness of the ex-bf thing by being cool and funny about it, yet understanding and supportive. YOU have to come up with something personal, but here is an idea to text her.
"Hey sorry you weren't happy that I remind you of your ex but admit it ..."
Wait for a full minute while she looks at her phone thinking WTF ...
"I'm a cooler upgrade of him" (smiley or devil or hear-no-evil monkey)
Wait until she responds. No matter what she texts you, type this as if you didn't even see her response:
"Not that good looks and being a tiger between the sheets matter lol. Drinks ..Thursday how bout"
And the drinks are offered on your patio ... whether or not you have one ... or at a bar like 1/2 block from your place.
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