As title says, I'll be leaving my job in about 2 weeks and wondering whether I should try and swap numbers with the secretary. She's really good at her job, so it's hard to know what her feelings towards me are, but my spidey sense tells me that she'd be down to hang.

I'm a strong silent type character at work, not a real clique or friend group, and typically just do my own thing. We flirt occasionally and sometimes she'll message me on slack after our terrible boss says something mean about me/my work. She's definitely got some daddy issues going on because she's been working as a personal assistant for this tyrannical millionaire for years and lives with her mom still (she's 28?).

The only potential issue is that I had a 3 month office affair with another girl, whom she's pretty friendly with (they hang out occasionally). I don't think she spilled the beans, but you never know.

Anyway, I'm quite tempted to slack her on the day I leave and try to get her number or give her mine. What do you all think?

Thanks!