So I've found many self help/PUA/dating coaches/fuckboys have said this similar thing when it comes to dating, and that's that chasing women is a waste of time and that you should "set up your life so they have to chase you or come to you". I heard Dan Bilzerian say it, I've heard AMS say it, I even heard it on an episode of the elite man podcast. Yet no one ever goes into detail on this. How do you set up your life so the women are chasing you or having to come to you? Do they just mean throwing parties or some shit?

Does anyone have some clarification on this type of advice please?