So I went to the college party. A lot of people there. I was with my friends, doing stupid shit, dancing like crazy. My friends got a bit drunk. I just had 1 beer at 8 pm and it had already been metabolised. I had not eaten anything for dinner so was not feeling my best. I kind of went from happy to feeling no energy and a bit down. I was very nervous to approach women in the college venue for some reason. It was a small venue where everybody could see everybody and I did not want to fuck up my chances. I was feeling down, not really having the most fun and so I left for the city.

I knew I had to build social momentum. So I start approaching women. It is Friday and the streets are full of girls drinking and whatnot. I approach 1 woman, she is talking on the phone and does not want to talk so I approach another one, standing in front of a club as a bouncer, which also goes nowhere as she has to attend people and let people in. I start asking weird questions to a gorup of 5 girls like, "Are you girls part of this club or that club? where can I find good bars with disco?" I knew the answer, but just wanted to build momentum.

So I see this hot girl sitting with her friends. She looks at me for 2 seconds and starts talking to her friend again. I approach her in the street and start the conversation by, "Hi, this is random, but you look like you are from highschool. Please tell me you are not."

She: No I just started working. I am taking a break from school. I am 19.

Me: *smiling a lot and having positive vibes* Wow, so what is your name?

She:*her name* and you?

Me:*my name* Could you stand up for 2 seconds *still smiling* I just want to see how tall you are.

She:*stands up*

Me: wow, you are tall. I just wanted to see if you are tall because women from this country are tall as fuck so it becomes difficult to flirt with them.

She: haha, so are you going somehere with this then? I think I am as tall as you.

Me: Yeah, I like to think it is working.

She: So where do you live?

Me: I live really far. But it is not like you will leave your friends and come with me to Mc donalds. that is not going to happen. I mean you are totally not going to DITCH YOUR FRIENDS AND COME WITH ME.

She: I know what is happening here.*her hair comes in front of her mouth*

ME *strokes it back behind her ear*

She: I like it ahead more. *Brings it front again*

Me: *STROKES IT BACK BEHIND HER EAR* I think I like it here. But hey, that is my opinion.

She: *laughs* *her friends leave her* I need to go to my friends. But give me your facebook. Her friends leave and I say "Hi, she will be with you in 2 minutes"

I give it. I say thank you, bring her hand close to my lips, but I kiss my hand instead. She laughs and says"you know here, when we meet and if we like each other, we kiss the hand".

Me:*similing again* In my country if we REALLLY like each other, we *goes in for the kiss*, but she pulls back, laughs and says "You are sweet but I just met you."

Me: You are lovely you know. Go back to your friends now since they are calling you. Let us talk later.

She: ok bye bye.

Next I approach another girl with a lot of smiling but she just says no. So I decide to go to another club. There I see a lot of ladies flashing their cleavage and boobs. I am having fun now. I just start dancing on my own with no care in the world. But I stop approaching and kill the momentum. I try to talk to 3 or 4 more girls, but I am not smiling enough and the momentum has been killed. I exit from the set because they start giving me shit, by saying stuff like, "I am not 30, I am 23." and start talking with each other. The other girl laughs because she is enjoying attention from me. I do not feel good and leave.

I go to another club and start approaching there. I go up to one girl and say, "listen there has been an emergency, the world is going to end and I need your help..."

She starts laughing and I say, "I was JK, I thought you were cute so just had to say Hi."

She: No I am sorry, not interested.

Me: ok, bye then, *sees another girl pass in front of us*. "Oh you HI, listen there is an emergency....."

The friend of the girl who just said no starts laughing and says" you are funny"

I leave and approach another girl. She says "sorry I have a boyfriend. He is right here."

Me: I just want to dance and I do not care.

She: oh, but I cannot I am sorry.

So I leave the club. It was a fun night.

bad things I did: Did not approach more and killed the momentum way too soon before it was getting good. Also, ejecting prematurely from the set and not staying there long enough.

good things I did: I calmed myself down by taking long deep breaths. Pulled myself out of bad mood and state and just had fun. I played it casual and was able to escalate with the 19 year old girl and develop some sexual tension. I think I can do this and get better at this.