Okay asktrp

I recently swallowed the pill, and it has made me so much happier in 3 months than a LTR for 3 years did. I've focused working on my game, my appearance and my attitude towards people. I've had more sexual success in 3 months than in my entire life.. Albeit, I am only 19. Now to the issue at hand.

Girl a year older than me. Met her through a friend, spoke to her on facebook, got her number. Asked to meet up for coffee, she bailed the night before, and then offered to meet again and pay for the coffee. So I gave her another shot , this time it panned out and we ended up at the night clubs later on that day (Saturday the 4th).I didn't make a move or anything. She ended up coming to my house and I cooked her food, we talked. I didn't make a move at all.

We arranged to go surfing later on that week (Friday 10th). Surfing turned into dinner at her house, which turned into movies and cuddles, which turned into making out which turned into staying overnight. She basically behaved exactly as I expected. Even ran through that she found me attractive because I was confident but not arrogant. I didn't push the issue of sex, because it was pretty obvious it wasn't happening.

Saw her yesterday at the nightclubs, instantly picked up that something was wrong, didn't push the issue, wasn't sure if she was just tired or what. Basically got a lift home from her and left it. Took her a coffee at work today just to test the water again. Didn't tell her I was coming or anything. Just dropped by. Now heres where I realize its slipping. I send her a text later on asking if she is having second thoughts.

Loh and behold she is. I suspected the reason already and just had her confirm it for me. Long story short, she is moving in 4 months. I briefly touched on it Friday night, and she admitted it bothered her.

I didn't bother trying to convince her of anything over the phone, just kept it short and sweet. Told her I was coming over tomorrow and that I needed to know what time.

I have a general plan. Im going to hold frame strongly, not chase her if she tries to make me, and just ask her what she wants basically. I am prepared to walk if it comes to it, but I don't want to. What are some things I can do to assist me here, and what are the big pitfalls I'm going to have to avoid? I understand this is most likely going to be a combination of comfort tests and if I manage to push it far enough LMR.

Any advice/help you can offer would be great.