A month ago a french girl moved into my best friends house, she’s only here in England for 4 months. I go over to my friends house often so I’ve been hanging out with this french girl a lot and have started to like her. I’ve showed her round a couple of the clubs in the city and usually when I’m hanging out with her and my friend my friend goes up to bed and me and her stay up for an hour smoking and talking. The problem is I am unsure if she is interested, when hanging out together there has never been that moment of sexual tension where I can make a move and go for the kiss. In the club she responds neutrally to kino, I’ll hold out my hand and lead her through the club, and she also grabs my hand whenever she was walking in front of me.

She doesn’t want a boyfriend and is only here for 4 months so there is no point trying to get with this girl romantically, but do I try and sleep with her, or is that a bad idea as she is a friends housemate, and what are the chances I’ve been friend zoned for taking too long to make a move?

Any advice would be great!