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[–]ilikepie145 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
It’s the best place to do it homie. Just talk to a girl u like walking out after class. Or if u just walk around campus just stop and talk to any girl u want
[–]trex1098 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
What do we say
[–]Ganjafanja 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I’m for sure with you on this one. Go to college like you, and I find it incredibly hard to walk up to a girl randomly out of class or dining hall etc. Parties I am a lot better with approach, but I struggle with going to the next step. Curious what others have to say about this
[–]ilikepie145 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just approach and say hi! Just be very friendly and you don’t even need to express love or attraction. Just act like you wanna be friends and have a conversation. She is just human
[–]Ganjafanja 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Honestly I’ve been thinking about “she is just human” a lot recently and you’re right! I just need to get the image out of my head that she is some higher entity that I can’t approach.
[–]ilikepie145 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly! Yeah she is probably beautiful but at the end of the day she isn’t the only good looking girl out there. It’s completely normal to be intimidated by their beauty
[–]ilikepie145 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Introduce yourself and they should back, then just ask how their day is going and just have casual conversation. If you have balls you can say you think they are cute and that’s why you came to talk to them
[–]trex1098 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Big IF lol
[–]ilikepie145 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey I’ve done it before! You will most likely put a smile on their face, unless they have heard it a million times
[–]Sledgehammered0 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
It's still relatively new in the school year so you're still meeting new people! If you see someone on campus or leaving class, ask how they're liking classes/the class you both just came out of. Ask where they're originally from. Ask if they played sports in high school. Ask if they're doing any intramurals or other on-campus activities. If you've seen an amazing movie recently, ask if they saw it. This can lead into casual convo from there. "Oh, you're from XYZ? I've heard of it but never been. What's in like there?" "Oh, you played XYZ sport in HS? So did I! What position did you play" "Oh, you saw that movie too? What did you think about it?" You can always find common ground somewhere. If it goes along well, ask when she usually has lunch/dinner in the dining hall and tell her you'll say HI the next time you see her there (and make it a point to go during that time frame). If she doesn't go to the dining hall, ask if/which frat parties she's gone to and try and casually bump into her. If she goes to the gym, go to the gym and casually bump into her! If there's a connection, ask to meet up for lunch one day or go over class material together one day. You can't force the connection but if it's there, make a plan to get together. You got this.
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