why do i keep getting flaked by girls after getting their number ?

quinnmcd · 2019-10-02T15:26:46+00:00

How long are your interactions with the girls you cold approach? With longer interactions women have more time to feel you out and remember you when you do text them. The sweet spot for me is about 5 to 10 minutes. My next question is how long are you waiting to ask them on date? In my opinion it’s better to text girls for a few days to gauge their interest and build comfort.

Are girls earning a date? If you don’t make her qualify herself she may see you as desperate or disingenuous. Don’t be over eager to take them on date. Make sure she’s telling you interesting about herself and you’re finding things you both have in common. Remember you are the prize. When you know your value and have an abundance mindset it makes it easier to know if she’s even worth the time and effort.

If you’re not interested in her and she’s no reasons be interested in you, or comfortable enough to be alone with you, then asking them on a date is pointless. Make sure you building comfort, showing value and gaining interest.

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-10-02T15:04:41+00:00

Could be they did it so youd leave them alone or you come off thristy in the text to set something up.

Likely the latter. It seems like you did enough to get a number but you arent doing something right to "make the sell"

Only suggestion I have is when you plan the date you keep it brief and move along if shes unsure. Dont try to convince her to go on the date, put it out there, she says yes or no and keep it moving.

Uts a numbers game for us at the end of the day

putcoolusernamehere · 2019-10-02T15:30:19+00:00

Happens all the time to anyone who tries cold approach. Could be dozens of different things.

WIA20XX · 2019-10-02T15:59:56+00:00

They don't like you.

Some girls give out numbers because it's easy to reject the guy when he can't flip out in front of them.

So stop going for numbers and start going for instadates.

Boggob15 · 2019-10-02T16:58:19+00:00

You most likely did the number close wrong.

Any random joe can get a girls number. But to actually invoke her interests enough for her to open up her planner for you takes more than just the rudimentary - “Hi, I’m so & so, can I have your number?”

A number close is only effective when it is a used a tool to remedy the very presence you’ve taken from her.

She has to enjoy your company. Envision seeing you as more than the stranger standing before her.

You have to lure her into your world, your dominion, where you rule supreme. Her very existence is nothing more than a plaything, that gets no action until you so choose to play with. This is the world she wants to live in, to be consumed by her infatuation with you, and to live within your dominion as whatever you’d want her to be.

luckyladylucy · 2019-10-04T23:31:05+00:00

Cuz you’re creepy, and the numbers are probably fake. Just a guess though.

Title	why do i keep getting flaked by girls after getting their number ?
Author	yeaeff
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	October 2, 2019 2:55 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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