1 - Opener: Say what you want to do by approaching her (getting to know her) and why you want to do it (list the things that make you want to approach her like her style, her positive vive,...)

2 - Accidental touch to break the touch barrier (high five, handshake, a quick touch to emphasise your points...)

3 - Make her invest in the conversation by asking open-ended questions, (instead of close-ended questions) making statements, telling stories and being descriptive with how you feel about the experiences you live. Tell her that u hate something superficial about her, but that it’s ok because u like some other more important thing about her. Act like she is the one hitting on u and like u have her gender role during courtship for example: Are u hitting on me? Did u put something on my drink? Why do y look so suspicious? I bet u say that to every guy, don’t lie. You could be crazy. U just wanna take advantage of me and break my heart.

4 - Qualify her with the things that u noticed about her that make her cooler than the girls in ur opinion. Set the standards that u look for in a woman and reward her when she reaches them. Eg: I like ur (part of her physique smile, gaze, makeup) because it transmits u r (emotions: confident, positive, calmness, joy) and I like your (part of her behavior, personality or values such us: empathy, extroversion, honesty, ambition, courage, compassion, sense of humor, ability to listen) and that makes me feel very comfortable with you.

5 - Sexualise (show sexual intent after qualifying her, something like: “can u repeat that again, was too busy staring at ur lips”) Don’t sexualise if she has not qualified herself because them u’d be validating her without her earning it. U don’t want that. She has to earn ur sexual intent. Don’t say she is ur type or that you find her sexy if she does not prove to u that she is good enough for your standards. Sexualizing is essential to keep a man-to-woman premise, but she has to earned it (Step 4) or you’d give your power away.

6 - If she stays there after sexualising and giggles or gets red or nervous in a good way, narrate how she is reacting and accuse her playfully of trying to seduce u to keep the frame of being the prize: “I love how u are getting red after I told you that. It’s making me feel really masculine, You must be doing this on purpose so that I like you more. Don’t lie!”

7 - Change topics after you sexualise to avoid raising too much sexual tension too soon, and keep talking about something else for a while before you sexualise again. Meanwhile, do intentional touch like playing with her fingers, while you and the girl are talking.

8 - Qualify her again before you sexualise again, and go for the number or the kiss. The kiss should not be sexual, instead it should be used as a way to build more comfort and romance.

9 - To get her number, propose an specific plan you would want to do with her and tell her why you would want to do it with her specifically, instead of another girl. Don’t ask for the number directly. Tell her what you want to do, and be indirect about the asking her number, ask her for example: “How are we gonna keep in touch to make this plan a reality” She will say “u could take my number” which means she is taking the initiative. So u can say “all right, all right, if u insist” keeping the frame of being the prize.

10 - If she gives u her number, don’t just run away with it. Stay a couple of minutes more to consolidate the number, so it does not look like you just wanted her number. Also make sure to give her a silly nick name that is suitable for her personality. If she is very talkative call her a parrot, if she was giving you a lot of shit tests, call her a little tiger, if she is very friendly call her a rabbit... This can be an inside joke which helps her remind her how she felt when she met you.

11 - End the conversation and use the phone only to set up a date with her. The date has to be something light and non-threatening and preferably something you are gonna do anyways even if she does not join. eg: “I’m going to Ikea because i need some new awesome furniture, would love your opinion, join me and help me to figure it out” Don’t use the phone to game her behind a screen or to argue or to get angry if she does not reply. The phone is only for setting up dates. Don’t double text.

12 - Test the beds from Ikea, then go to some other place for some drinks, visit different places to make her feel like she has lived more experiences with you. Assume you are lovers, assume she wants to be kissed if you sexualised in the first interaction you had before the date and do it.

13 - Take her home, don’t make it sound threatening, say an excuse like “U can go up for a quick coffee” This prevents her from feeling like a slut for going to your place. Let her help u light up the candles and the music.

14 - If u are kissing but doesn’t let you go forward to sex (don’t be reactive <<aka mad, begging...>> because that’s repulsive) Just agree with her and say that u feel like this is going so fast, that u may be into her a bit too much and are scared of being used only for sex (this removes her objection)

Tip: If she says I have a boyfriend. You say: I get that you tell me u have a boyfriend because you’ve seen how attractive I am, & think I could be a threat to your relationship. But I'm not interested in being your boyfriend because i don’t like rushing things so much, so anyways u seem like you are doing x...”