Tried talking to a girl but I was so nervous and my voice cracking hands shaking and I feel so embarrassed. Now I’m terrified to try again. What should I do?

boodie_1961 · 2019-10-18T22:24:11+00:00

It's like a cold shower straight out of bed in the morning. It sucks. After a short while you don't mind it any more. A friend of mine was a total nerd, zero social skills, minimal experience with women. It took him three (3, not 30 or 300) dates to find a girlfriend that became his wife.

Girls are mostly passive in the game of seduction, all they do is send signals and hope that the guy would approach ... and if nobody approaches, they get very, very anxious: they need the boys to approach, but they must be also willing, otherwise it's harassment (never do that).

Learn to read the body language: a slightly longer look, feet pointing in your direction, showing the neck or shaking the hair are invitations to approach. You also have to recognize the negative signals (very important). Plenty of videos on YouTube.

A lesson that I wish I learned when I was young is: DON'T waste ANY time and self-esteem approaching or courting women (girls) that don't give you the "green light" signals.

boodie_1961 · 2019-10-19T08:22:39+00:00

I wish I was. Now I'm old and all these things are far behind. Some men know the game by instinct, others learn it by experience, others never understand women and claim that they are a 'mistery'.

Title	Tried talking to a girl but I was so nervous and my voice cracking hands shaking and I feel so embarrassed. Now I’m terrified to try again. What should I do?
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Date	October 18, 2019 9:47 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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