Sexual priming (exposure to sexual cues, which activates the sexual system and induces sexual arousal) encourages deceptive self-presentation during encounters with potential partners, suggests a new study, as part of a process of endeavoring to become more attractive to a stranger.
I skim read this and I don't think it's very relevant or helpful. By "sexual cues" I thought they meant, the common PUA advice to get into a state of sexual arousal and then trying to transfer your state to a woman through triangular gazing etc.
But they seemed to be showing people porn pictures, then asking them to try to "pick up" a member of the opposite sex. The pickup target was really a study assistant who asked them how many sex partners they had. Apparently exposure to porn makes people tend to lie and exaggerate.
Kind of a Lol, but not very helpful except maybe to the virgins who frequently come to this reddit and ask if they should admit their lack of experience to women. Maybe porn would help them fake it? Not that I think it's a good strategy ... women "know".
This is true. A very good question to ask (later on) a date is: "When is the last time you had really amazing sex?" This will take her back to this moment in her mind which will arouse her.
Ofcourse you need to be careful with doing this too early. Make sure you got to know eachother a little bit and that theres enough attraction and comfort. Ideally after a couple hours of talking and you two bounced to a second bar/date location.
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I skim read this and I don't think it's very relevant or helpful. By "sexual cues" I thought they meant, the common PUA advice to get into a state of sexual arousal and then trying to transfer your state to a woman through triangular gazing etc.
But they seemed to be showing people porn pictures, then asking them to try to "pick up" a member of the opposite sex. The pickup target was really a study assistant who asked them how many sex partners they had. Apparently exposure to porn makes people tend to lie and exaggerate.
Kind of a Lol, but not very helpful except maybe to the virgins who frequently come to this reddit and ask if they should admit their lack of experience to women. Maybe porn would help them fake it? Not that I think it's a good strategy ... women "know".
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This is true. A very good question to ask (later on) a date is: "When is the last time you had really amazing sex?" This will take her back to this moment in her mind which will arouse her.
Ofcourse you need to be careful with doing this too early. Make sure you got to know eachother a little bit and that theres enough attraction and comfort. Ideally after a couple hours of talking and you two bounced to a second bar/date location.