Why do you choose women that are broken, hurt and need help changing? Do you not know how to meet women? Can you help or change a woman? Why do you get into relationships with women that admit to lying and cheating on past boyfriends? Do you know anything about dating women?

  1. Distracts from own insecurities- When you focus all of your attention on another person and what is wrong with them, it helps to distract you from what the problem really is. YOU! If you were to get with a woman that has a high sense of self-worth then by comparison you would recognize and have to confront your own insecurities.

  2. You accept the love you think you deserve- Maybe your first experiences with love, intimacy and romance were negative. It is possible that you only go toward what you know which is turmoil and negativity. You rather go toward what is comfortable then what is good for you.

  3. Ego Entitlement- You think from your own sense of self importance that you can be the one to change her and make her better. Maybe you see glimpses of the person she could be and you grasp onto the hope that the person will change for the better. The fact is that you are no different and people do not change unless THEY want to.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWVZGYBNaLY