Guys need advice, I'm 21 and never went to a bar ever and this chick is 24 and shes pretty hot but she pushed for us to meet at a bar for some drinks before I set up date.

Odz86 · 2019-11-28T22:14:54+00:00

Anyways what do I do after drinks?
You don't have to go anywhere. Just stay there and chat with her.

Do I do another activity and then kiss her at end?
It's not that simple. Kiss her if you feel like you can kiss her.

2019-11-28T23:36:47+00:00

Based on your post, I’d guess the biggest mistake you could make is over drinking due to social anxiety. Go light on the drinks, relax, have fun! I made the mistake of over drinking on dates so many times in my 20s- it’s a bad idea and will lower your chances of sex. Just a few to take the edge off- know your limits.

Don’t over analyze what to do after. Be playful and genuinely interested in her. Older girls (25-30 ish) have openly told me they were very turned on simply because they felt I really listened to them. Good luck man

Machiaveilly · 2019-11-29T00:56:03+00:00

Just be yourself, be vulnerable, admit you've never been to a bar and you're a bit nervous, just ask thoughtful question like if she could live the rest of her life In a foreign country where would it be and why?

Like the individual above stated take it light on the drinks maybe one or two.

Listen to what she says, respond thoughtfully. You got it dude

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