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[–]CLQUDLESS 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If you’re talking about overthinking, just tell yourself screw it.
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This. Don’t let your thoughts get to you.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It is not that easy, i told myself a lot of times but it just makes me think more.
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Whenever I find myself over thinking, especially with women, I immediately force myself into overdrive and purposefully start talking about something else. I look around me or talk about whatever is on my mind. This helps ease the awkwardness I may face.
The tip is to just start talking. It doesn’t matter what you say. Just talk. It’s better to get a reaction from someone after saying something than a reaction for saying nothing at all.
Also P.S. I’ve struggled with social anxiety. Talking helps me get over the barrier.
The more you talk, the better it gets. You’ll feel way better! Trust me.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't have problems with social anxeity anymore and even not with girls sometimes i am just overthinking things and i can't stop.
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]random_menace 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This isn't going to help much, but i'm still going to say it.
the only way to quiet your inner thoughts, is by actually knowing, that you're an awesome human fucking being.
This might sound impossible for someone asking the question you did, but think about it. What makes you question your thoughts and therefore raise doubt in you? What is the meassure of your worth?
Usually Humans are influenced by outside influences for various reasons. Recognizing the truth, that only you can determine your own worth will quiet your doubts.
A good way discovering this as the truth, is for example meditating.
Thanks, so meditate
[–]random_menace 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I can just speak for myself, but it made me a more chill person.
in the end, you have to find your own way to be comfortable with the man you are.
I personaly think, that nowadays we give too much of a fuck of what we believe random people expect or think of us.
meditating for me, was a way to understand, it's all bullshit.
Oh boy that is all i wanted to
NOT GIVE A FUCK about other people s opinions.
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