I know its probably been asked more than enough times, but i still wonder. When going out is it better to drink or not to drink?

For me i feel like i need a few beers and i do reach a sweet spot at 3 but then it just goes bad beyond that. It really helps me with approaches and lose of fear, which is one of my biggest draw backs. But i do tend to get sloppy and cannot remember half of it the next day ( especially to analize what worked and what didn't)

To be honest going out sober in a way feels fake to me. I feel like a creppy dude that scares women. Maybe a feel this way also because i am a bit older (26)

I would love to know what are your thoughts and experiences?