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Do you get that upset when you don't get an answer after a job interview ? Do you get that upset when you ask your mom for McDonalds and she doesn't bother answering ? Do salespeople get that upset when a prospect doesn't reply ? People don't owe you closure or an explanation. No one owes you to "reject you properly". Stop taking it personally. If she didn't answer within 2 hours it's because she doesn't wanna talk with you, period. Stop thinking you're good or bad based on whether you can get a…
/r/seduction23/05/20 09:50 AM
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Send me a DM and I'll let you know my mail address
/r/seduction18/05/20 05:17 PM
1

Same same
/r/seduction18/05/20 05:17 PM
1

Woosshh
/r/seduction18/05/20 02:39 PM
0

That's not a rejection That's a "I tried to subtly tell you to go away so many times that I don't care anymore just leave me alone" lol
/r/seduction17/05/20 11:58 PM
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The most you'll get would be a girl to tell you to fuck off. It's not that bad.
/r/seduction17/05/20 11:22 PM
1

I threw up a little
/r/seduction16/05/20 02:09 AM
1

That moment when you use the word sexcapades seriously
/r/seduction16/05/20 02:08 AM
4

"hi I'm jaaayynn" ?
/r/seduction14/05/20 09:21 AM
3

"did someone kidnap u"
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:15 PM
2

This video has been made to help beginners understand why those fundamentals are so important. It's not targeted at someone who has 20 years of experience, I'll let you know when I upload more advanced videos :)
/r/seduction08/05/20 06:00 PM
2

What makes you feel it's low quality?
/r/seduction08/05/20 05:10 PM
3

Having a bad dad is not a mental issue lol
/r/seduction06/05/20 12:28 PM
3

Ayy lmao
/r/seduction04/05/20 08:45 AM
2

Send pics so we can help
/r/seduction03/05/20 09:25 PM
1

Nice
/r/seduction02/05/20 04:13 AM
1

How to get a 4some only girls and me pls
/r/seduction02/05/20 04:12 AM
3

More bro science pls
/r/seduction27/04/20 11:20 PM
1

"hey I think we've been crossing paths a few times here haha so I want to say hi" And talk like a normal person if possible
/r/seduction27/04/20 07:29 AM
1

No one should be chasing. You should be leading tho
/r/seduction27/04/20 07:28 AM
33

Subcommunication
/r/seduction25/04/20 07:57 PM
6

"bobs and vagene pls"
/r/seduction23/04/20 07:18 PM
5

Women aren't attracted by the same things as you so don't compare what you like and what they like We've been living in modern societies for 10 000yrs, while human race has been there for way longer so of course our psychology is primitively wired still. Who's talking about crushing minorities lol
/r/seduction23/04/20 05:56 PM
6

Thing is, as soon as you talk to her, she knows why you here so the whole question is a bit redundant. Balance it with takeaways and disqualifications.
/r/seduction23/04/20 05:53 PM
1

Keep doing the same as you already do minus anything small talk. How are you is small talk
/r/seduction20/04/20 11:43 AM
4

Wanting to have a gf is not natural Why would you want to lock yourself down and settle with a single girl. Even on a biological standpoint it doesn't make sense. (the answer is because society says so)
/r/seduction19/04/20 07:48 AM
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It isn't comfortable
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:42 AM
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Why do you even want to be mysterious. I think that your belief of what attracts women if off
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:41 AM
1

Dude I just got bad mouthed by some women on another sub for posting on seddit. The content of what I said wasn't even discussed. So I don't think they have a good opinion of it lol
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:40 AM
2

Pls go post your low quality content somewhere else
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:36 AM
1

Don't listen about seduction advice from people who aren't in the community & Figure out why girls never say yes when you ask them out
/r/seduction13/04/20 08:02 AM
16

If you live your life trying to be wanted you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/seduction13/04/20 07:58 AM
2

Man you're just making a fool of yourself :/ No I don't mean that
/r/seduction13/04/20 07:55 AM
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Usually the man does it. Now if you're good enough at holding tension you can have the girl push for the idea. But you're gonna be the one setting it up in the end anyways.
/r/seduction13/04/20 05:30 AM
2

Making as little as possible game or calibration mistakes
/r/seduction13/04/20 05:24 AM
2

Dude why do you sound like you're saying stuff that you don't practice or truly understand yourself and that actually comes from reading a lot of online. u/hunterpua commented, and he got it right. What you're saying is beginners advice that has been going around the internet for ever since RSD. it doesn't work past a certain level. Being advanced is nowhere near "being able to say what you are afraid to say"
/r/seduction13/04/20 05:17 AM
1

Nice
/r/seduction13/04/20 05:06 AM
4

Be a problem solver. Don't ever mention it. Have sex in the park instead. Once the virus is gone, obviously
/r/seduction13/04/20 05:02 AM
1

Nope
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:55 AM
2

Well, hotel is expensive huhh.
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:55 AM
1

😂😂😂 No seriously listen to this advice, that's the mom of the year advice.
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:54 AM
1

Yes. Use this arousal to fuel your determination in all other areas of your life :)
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:54 AM
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You know it by making a move. If she reacts well you keep going. If she doesn't react well, she doesn't like you. Easy peasy.
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:52 AM
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I don't think reddit advice can help you man. Go see a therapist, maybe take a bootcamp with a seduction coach if you're into improving with women. Bear in mind that your fucked up childhood will affect how hard it is for you to get to what you want. But don't forget that it's possible. One day you'll make it, and you will look back at your former self with pride. Good luck ma man
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:33 AM
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Shoot me a pm then
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:27 AM
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I won't. But an auto swipe won't either, that's my point. At least with gold you get to see every girl that like you. With an auto swipe you just see those who you swipe right on too
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:27 AM
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Post on seddit "today I said hi to my crush" Try to sound as needy and incel as possible, that's what gets the orange arrows.
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:04 PM
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Dude I've been coming in this sub and other dating related subs for the last two days. I'm starting fights with everyone in every thread. This place is now officially toxic, abandon ship
/r/seduction12/04/20 03:33 PM
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You don't get more matches by having an auto swipe either. Any girl that matches with you is shown with tinder gold. Which is supposed to be the point of an auto swipe.
/r/seduction12/04/20 02:04 PM
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Pay someone to kidnap them and deliver them to your house
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:52 PM
1

Tinder gold is like what, 8$ a month? Dude, save yourself the trouble and pay up..
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:50 PM
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It's alright. Your post is very hard to read because of the lack of paragraphs. Also it's common courtesy to include a part that summarizes what you said in case of a long personal post.
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:42 PM
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That Tyler guy didn't get sick in 10 years thanks to what he rigorously take so your comment is utter bullshit. The fact that you're bad mouthing a self made millionaire for being chubby triggers me. I'd rather be chubby like him and never have to worry about getting sick ever again. For once there is a good post asked on this sub, get back to your cave bro.
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:35 PM
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Punctuation, paragraphs, tldr
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:16 PM
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Why not both /thread
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:18 AM
1

Dude you've killed any good point you might have had by stating that you're a virgin earlier :/
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:17 AM
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Tinder+asking girls over to your place GG
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:16 AM
1

Oh no, you're being that guy
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:16 AM
1

Why do you care about what we think of the people you fuck
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:02 AM
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I never talked about having a quick fuck but whatever floats your boat lol
/r/seduction12/04/20 04:21 AM
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You're right and they are wrong. Those guys probably won't ever sleep with a 10. Persistence is key, over a certain period of time. I'd say having them invest is also very important.
/r/seduction12/04/20 03:09 AM
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Read my previous comment
/r/seduction12/04/20 01:03 AM
1

Step 1 don't send needy ass texts like that one example you gave
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:57 AM
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There's no need to make it clear until she asks When she does you just be honest about it
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:34 AM
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https://youtu.be/D2P2ENRDdl8 I made a video that answers that with examples and how-tos TLDW: ask tinder girls directly to your house
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:34 AM
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Meanwhile, you could just wait for the end of the lockdowns and meet a girl within 3 days of using tinder again, instead of spending two months facetiming everyday. Your scarcity and neediness is beyond me.
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:32 AM
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Be in the car Kiss her Proceed to have sex LOL, it's no that complicated. You're just scared to make a move.
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:29 AM
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You've plateaued at not meeting women? Lol
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:26 AM
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Because this subreddit is made up with a nice 99% of keyboard jockeys who like to discuss seduction but don't practice it themselves. Don't worry lol
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:21 AM
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Practice approaching hot women until you're desensitized
/r/seduction10/04/20 02:34 AM
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Nah man you're showing that if she keeps that up you're out.
/r/seduction06/04/20 12:05 PM
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Nice
/r/seduction06/04/20 02:53 AM
1

Nice
/r/seduction06/04/20 02:53 AM
0

This is the hardest keyboard-jockey thread I have ever seen on this sub :/ You guys should go out instead of thinking about whether or not you've watched well your 200 hours of free YouTube guru videos.
/r/seduction06/04/20 02:52 AM
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Oooh don't you dare talk bad of Master Todd
/r/seduction06/04/20 02:49 AM
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Any time, required on most girls above a 6. If she does anything that you dislike, will only work if she has some sort of investment in you beforehand. Every fucking time she is saying something that doesn't help you guys to get to know each others deeper and get to the sexy part. If she is talking about the weather for 15 minutes, that's your mistake. Be aloof, but on your path (that goes towards sex). Before you guys fuck, to give her a good reason why you like her and that there is a "deepest…
/r/seduction06/04/20 02:47 AM
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The thing is that you guys believe that a girl who stops answering hates you. Maybe, just M A Y B E something more important than you (crazy, right?) just came up. Or maybe your last text was needy. Doesn't mean she hates you. Means there was no point into texting back at this time. And yes girls like men to lead them without crumbling everytime they don't answer. You are allowed to ghost girls too (crazy, right?) if you're too busy. What matters is that you screen her properly and ask her out a…
/r/seduction06/04/20 02:40 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction05/04/20 09:56 PM
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She telling you she wants to fuck with you, you are alpha enough, relax Let her be happy and give her some validation, let her be your gift. Or don't and deny her until she acknowledges you're the gift, not her. But tbh it's pointless at this stage,she likes u already
/r/seduction05/04/20 09:55 PM
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Self improvement is actually my job Thinking about not looking beta sounds like your average online (bad) advice
/r/seduction05/04/20 09:50 PM
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Dude you read too much internet "advice"
/r/seduction05/04/20 09:46 PM
1

Talk to them Make a move
/r/seduction03/04/20 04:17 PM
1

Have girls come over to your place from tinder
/r/seduction29/03/20 08:21 AM
2

OK is one million dollar enough?
/r/seduction28/03/20 07:55 PM
1

Omg yes, how when and where?
/r/seduction28/03/20 08:49 AM
2

"my parents aren't home come to my house"
/r/seduction27/03/20 06:56 PM
0

Yolo
/r/seduction26/03/20 08:45 PM
2

Find ways to get her to your place or suck it up and wait for the situation to be over.
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:07 PM
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Did you just said no because you were butt hurt from her ghosting? What a mature reaction Geez. Why didn't you tell her "last time we were supposed to meet but you ghosted me so I get the feeling you're not to serious about going out"
/r/seduction26/03/20 08:40 AM
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Just saying, you don't have to be a top priority at all time for a woman in order to bang her later on. A no now might become a yes later. The only thing between you and that is your ego that you can't keep silent after the first no, so you go into damage control and try to eject. You can pursue without being needy, even after a no. Tbh that's the way you get very hot girls.
/r/seduction25/03/20 07:54 AM
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Dude, just saying, anyone over 35 won't be bothered by any of the things you wrote in your OP. Before that age for people who are experienced with social dynamics (ie those who have game). Insecure and inexperienced people will get bothered. I'm two steps away from saying that you're full of BS because what you just explained is just gonna make people hate you. Between being an assshole and the halo effect, praying on insecure people. That's what your overall post is about. Inspire people and ha…
/r/seduction25/03/20 07:44 AM
1

It's funny when the thing standing between you and your answers is punctuation and paragraphs. And also a TLDR. Here is your first answer : if you want people to help you, make it easy for them.
/r/seduction25/03/20 07:36 AM
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What the fuck lol. Would you give money to a random stranger guy if he sent you funny videos? Don't do it.
/r/seduction25/03/20 07:31 AM
1

That's a good ass useful post. Take my orange arrow
/r/seduction24/03/20 11:01 PM
2

Maybe you just like girls who are on average considered hotter? Thus behaving more like hotter girls. Raise your value and better your game aka level up.
/r/seduction24/03/20 11:00 PM
1

If you're making plans and she says no, you probably made a mistake earlier. You'd usually not ask for plans unless she reacts positively to you seeding the idea. Alternatively, if she says no, it doesn't mean it's over. Go for the Instagram and build it from there. If she says no to an Instagram close, it means you really fucked up.
/r/seduction24/03/20 10:54 PM
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It's funny because someone who actually has game won't be bothered by any of the things you wrote. You're writing about what normies get frightened by. You are writing about the behavior or a dude with strong boundaries (aka "alpha"). I don't really get thee point of your post. Why would you want to win social interactions? If you put someone in their head they will dislike you and in the long run its not good for you. The only use would be to AMOG an annoying dude. But ignoring him would get th…
/r/seduction24/03/20 10:51 PM
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r/lostredditors
/r/seduction24/03/20 10:45 PM
2

Should get that on a T-shirt
/r/seduction24/03/20 10:45 PM
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Wrong sub bro
/r/seduction24/03/20 10:43 PM
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Yes, in fact that's what most of the male population does
/r/seduction24/03/20 12:46 PM
1

Nah man she was cute, there's no reason to get mad over her reaction, maybe she was in a bad mood that night. Turns out she actually couldn't handle a conversation, she kept qualifying herself, complaining and giving one word answer. Like bruh, why would engage someone in a conversation to then give them one word answers? Well she did because of me withdrawing at first imo. She felt forced to at least try to have a conversation. But then again she probably just was in a bad mood so I stopped ans…
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:39 AM
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Gosh man yea this is so powerful. I remember this chick who got so annoyed off my opener and almost screamed, so I just rolled my eyes and said OK and stayed there saying nothing watching the music band play instead. The pressure she felt for behaving like a stupid person and being put on the spot by me withdrawing immediately was too much and she then re opened me.
/r/seduction22/03/20 11:26 AM
2

Just do this : invest as much or less than her. If she's texting you pages, do the same. If she is answering one word answers, don't overdo it.
/r/seduction22/03/20 03:50 AM
1

... Invite her to your house
/r/seduction22/03/20 03:47 AM
1

Thing is, most other guys would have tried by now, so by comparison you kinda look like a wimp
/r/seduction21/03/20 09:19 AM
5

Because after his DHV story she thought he'd try to neg her before pulling
/r/seduction21/03/20 09:17 AM
1

No. Ask her to come to your house.
/r/seduction17/03/20 01:50 PM
2

My rule is any place where you have at least 80% chance to be alone for at least 15min Yeah I like to live dangerously
/r/seduction17/03/20 11:33 AM
1

Your house to Netflix & Quarantine
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:40 AM
2

Litteraly just be in a place where sex can happen with a girl who find you at least mildly attractive, and initiate it yourself
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:29 AM
2

Shaking my head my head
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:28 AM
3

I like that post
/r/seduction16/03/20 09:53 PM
3

Before this post gets removed : ask her on a date
/r/seduction16/03/20 08:03 PM
1

You don't even need to have something to do. Sit on a bench and get to know her.
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:31 PM
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Nope, this is the first step in becoming less needy. Congratulations. Now realize that you actually don't need to put that much effort and keep rolling.
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:29 PM
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"we'd go have coffee and talk, I heard that's what adults do lol" But srsly, not wanting to screw things up is the best way to screw things up
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:28 PM
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Drill this : Talk for 5-10 mins in front of a camera or a mirror everyday after waking up, not allowed to stop for more than 3 seconds. You will be a talking machine for the whole day. Ask people engaging questions about themselves. Ask yourself what is it that they might find of interest? The easiest is themselves. So ask about their day, their job, their hobbies and dreams, etc. When you don't know what to say next, jump on some detail of what they just said and build on it. If she said "I use…
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:20 PM
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Considering you cannot have sex, it's gonna be very hard for you to pickup girls. Most of them will think you just can't make a move if you don't put a sexual vibe and they won't stick around long enough for you to let them know that you're a Christian who wants to wait for sex. And if they do, you'll have been friend zoned long ago. How do religious platonic people even meet potential dates outside of a church and friends gatherings anyways? Also, don't ask out someone who goes to your gym who …
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:09 PM
1

Should have gone for the sex bruh. She was waiting for it
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:06 PM
1

Sounds like female wishful thinking to me but ok
/r/seduction16/03/20 04:25 PM
1

"We should hang out outside of school someday" If she says anything positive you ask for her number. If she asks why you say that's because you'd like to see her outside of class. If she asks why again you say that's because you're curious about her If she asks why again you say that's because you think she's cute. But she will probably stop at the first why. If she says anything short of a positive, it means she ain't interested in you bro.
/r/seduction16/03/20 04:15 PM
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A bench in the park. Your place.
/r/seduction16/03/20 02:36 PM
2

Aw, trouble in paradise. Get around higher quality men, those have the balls to approach
/r/seduction16/03/20 11:12 AM
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I can't believe wrong ass answers get up voted so much on the seduction subreddit. This place is supposed to be more woke than normie subs. Creepy = not taking into account the girls wants, feelings and needs and still going through your agenda.
/r/seduction16/03/20 09:55 AM
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To me he sounds needier than his friend.
/r/seduction15/03/20 06:48 PM
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His looks, or the fact that he's less needy than you. Cool field report tho
/r/seduction15/03/20 01:45 PM
1

I rly like how you give "things to do" while at the same time not getting any result yourself.
/r/seduction15/03/20 10:24 AM
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Care to elaborate what it is? Pretty sure it's just that one video where he said spike her emotions and change topic fast.
/r/seduction15/03/20 10:22 AM
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Another one of those feel good thread yay!
/r/seduction15/03/20 10:20 AM
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I doubt you looked at the best people then. Even the sidebar of this sub has a thread that explains how to create attraction. Body language + sexual tension + looksmoneystatus
/r/seduction15/03/20 10:19 AM
1

Kino harder until she backs off Wait 10mins and repeat. Why didn't you try to kiss her?
/r/seduction15/03/20 10:16 AM
1

Be happy, with all that money you should have no problem hiring the best dating coach in the world :)
/r/seduction15/03/20 07:45 AM
2

Be happy, with all that money you should have no problem hiring the best dating coach in the world :)
/r/seduction15/03/20 07:44 AM
1

It depends
/r/seduction14/03/20 11:01 PM
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Just saying that if you had approached a hundred girls you'd not have asked this. Or if you took time to read the sidebar as well. Don't leech value for no reason. Peace.
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:24 PM
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The answers are on the sidebar of this sub is where I'm getting at
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:14 PM
0

From what you wrote I estimate the women you've approached in nightclubs in your life to a total of less than 20. Do you think that's big enough of a sample to ask beginners questions?
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:05 PM
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95% of the people on this sub are reddit nerds who never did and never will cold approach and found this sub randomly. What do you expect. Just post something like "today I finally said hi to my crush" and you'll get approximately 400 orange arrows. Post something like "how do I hold tension in mixed set" and you'll be happy if 3 or 4 dudes happen to comment.
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:22 AM
2

Oh I see you're a man of metaphors as well
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:16 AM
0

Wrong sub
/r/seduction13/03/20 09:44 PM
0

I average to 5% the number of guys in the community that actually cold approach lol
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:31 AM
0

Good advice yo
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:30 AM
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Tinder girl crawling on my floor asking daddy to give her her lolipop ​ Also, how i think you posted in the wrong subreddit
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:25 AM
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​ I’ve never been the ‘predator’ type of guy; The guy that sees something he’s interested in and pursues it Your mindset is fucked up. Going for what you want is not being a predator, you're not exploiting anyone. If you use text to have conversations you're gonna have a bad time. Give value, and text without expecting the other to answer. Keep on going until you or they stop replying (ie having better stuff to do than to waste time on IG). 3. I feel like I need a life coach or something. Someon…
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:20 AM
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It's not even a technique lol. You went for what you want. It's like ordering a cheeseburger by saying that you want a cheeseburger and then posting on reddit that getting a cheeseburger is simple. bruh.
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:13 AM
5

Accurate
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:11 AM
5

If she comes out on a date she is attracted, or you didn't qualify your lead enough
/r/seduction12/03/20 12:10 PM
3

What do you expect us to say then champ?
/r/seduction12/03/20 10:23 AM
5

Improve your game?
/r/seduction12/03/20 10:20 AM
19

You trying to fill silences is the problem. Hold the tension and SHE will fill them.
/r/seduction12/03/20 10:15 AM
1

Tldr
/r/seduction12/03/20 03:54 AM
5

r/teenagers you're welcome
/r/seduction12/03/20 02:42 AM
4

Cool story bro
/r/seduction12/03/20 02:38 AM
2

You're not top priority is what it means. Don't try to get to know her thorough text that's bullshit. Get her on the phone or get her or, or next her for now.
/r/seduction11/03/20 11:51 PM
3

Give him food and show him that you care about him and his life
/r/seduction11/03/20 01:48 PM
1

It's not true and has been debunked by neuroscience, stop reading women magazines bruh
/r/seduction11/03/20 01:47 PM
1

How far am I from what actually happened? Also if you don't want to get trolled, give some context smh
/r/seduction11/03/20 01:44 PM
1

Op : "haha, It's never gonna work between us" Girl :"nope that's for sure" Op : why she reject my frame???
/r/seduction11/03/20 01:41 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction11/03/20 01:40 PM
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It works for me.
/r/seduction10/03/20 07:23 AM
2

No, sit down and do not approach girls that you find attractive.
/r/seduction10/03/20 07:16 AM
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Bruh. Dude. You're not special, it's hard the same for every guy. Some have it even harder. And we all have to go through it. So push yourself and go for it. We all did and all your ancestors did too. The first time in grinded on a girl in the club I thought I was gonna get arrested for doing something bad. Fear and limiting beliefs. It's no fucking big deal.
/r/seduction10/03/20 07:12 AM
1

Either way it doesn't matter. Giving a compliment doesn't give your power away if it's not needy. It's useful to qualify the girl.
/r/seduction10/03/20 07:07 AM
1

Stop watching porn Fill half your plate with vegetables Stop smoke/alcohol Exercise Eat more Drink 2L of water a day Hold deep eye contact and speak slowly Picture them in a sexual way when having a conversation with attractive girls
/r/seduction10/03/20 07:05 AM
2

Thank you, that was great advice, very helpful.
/r/seduction10/03/20 07:00 AM
1

You don't need to carry a convo, just to lead it
/r/seduction08/03/20 07:52 PM
16

They aren't needy. Gosh man even your post is sweating neediness.
/r/seduction08/03/20 10:43 AM
1

The thing is that you believe there is a technique that works. In reality you could do something stupid and if the girl likes you she will stick around. You could do the best technique but if she doesn't like you she isn't gonna hook. Approach girls bruh.
/r/seduction07/03/20 09:02 AM
1

The name of this thread is the whole problem about this sub.
/r/seduction07/03/20 08:53 AM
5

You can't see = she doesn't show I mean, do you need me to explain that crossing arms and leaning backwards is a sign she doesn't like? Cues are obvious enough if they are relevant.
/r/seduction06/03/20 11:05 AM
0

You overthinking bro, if she doesn't show she doesn't like, it means she's okay with it or that she's too drunk
/r/seduction06/03/20 08:52 AM
2

Start going to gym again bruh
/r/seduction05/03/20 06:25 AM
12

"is she required to answer this text?" If that's a no, you're good
/r/seduction04/03/20 11:16 AM
-1

BlowJobJoe?
/r/seduction04/03/20 11:15 AM
1

What you should learn from that is that rich people are perseverant as hell. Bad dating advice tho
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:25 AM
1

Well why do you ask if you disregard anything that doesn't go your way lol
/r/seduction03/03/20 03:06 PM
2

Stop chasing, let her time to invest, let her talk. It will save so much energy if you don't force yourself to fill in the blanks in the convo all the time. Learn to be quiet. Don't force yourself to fake energy if you don't have it, the lil bit that you have will disappear even faster. Don't be fooled, once you get a roster it's even more draining because now you have to meet them all and give them (hopefully good) sex. Don't drink/smoke. I stopped both when I noticed it was litteraly sucking m…
/r/seduction03/03/20 10:12 AM
1

Is she testing you or being dismissive ? If that's a shit test you pass it. If she's dismissive you break rapport. In any case, don't show that you're affected.
/r/seduction03/03/20 10:04 AM
1

Why u so cool
/r/seduction03/03/20 09:34 AM
1

As other guys said, banter a bit and have her invest. Why you trying to invite them to social events tho ? I'd personnaly do that only if I feel the attraction isn't quite there yet.
/r/seduction03/03/20 09:22 AM
1

[Insert those are rookie numbers meme] You gotta understand that girls are busy and demanded, especially the beautiful ones. They have less time to give than attention asked from them. Hence why they ghost anything that is not top priority. Now, drop your ego. Not being a top priority is okay. You can become a top prority if you understand that time=comfort. (Assuming that you're not needy and that you have value) If a girl ghosts you don't double text. Wait a few days and ask her if she got kid…
/r/seduction03/03/20 09:13 AM
1

Write field reports
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:43 AM
1

Now that's all good but here is the thing, a really hot girl won't be alone enough for her to glance at you every 15 sec. She'll have a guy on her all the time. Nice game though, you discovered the power of not chasing.
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:36 AM
1

Probably because your pictures suck or you're trying to do small talk.
/r/seduction03/03/20 06:57 AM
1

So here is your answer :)
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:21 AM
2

F r i e n d z o n e Ever heard of that?
/r/seduction02/03/20 08:43 AM
-1

guy sees something he doesn't understand "looks 🙄🙄"
/r/seduction01/03/20 07:49 PM
1

"did someone kidnap u"
/r/seduction01/03/20 07:15 PM
1

Honestly you're gonna dabble for a while if you're by yourself. Find a wing who's motivated to approach is step 1 and the biggest step. Because it's a lot of trial and error until you find what works when you're by yourself and confused by all the advice online. Or if your wallet is thick enough, get coached. I do online coaching if you believe that's something that can help you.
/r/seduction01/03/20 06:52 PM
1

Well you should
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:34 AM
1

Limiting belief. Open, she stays here and answer ? Ok next step. Assess her for relationship (basically get to know her, see if you like what she is about and whether she's available). It goes well ? Ok next step. Find out logistics (is she in a rush or available for instant date ?). Follow this, anything that makes it fail is either your lack of game or the fact that she isnt in the mood to meet a guy like you. Act on what you can control and get better game for the next girl.
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:16 AM
1

"give me your number :) "
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:07 AM
1

Fake it til you make it, then it all makes sense and becomes natural. But dont make it until you make it, that's not how it works. Dude Tyler said that for a long time now. You have to force yourself to change by forcing yourself to adopt new behavior, drill them, understand them, and then it becomes obvious and natural. All praise Tyler.
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:07 AM
1

Yea. But no one hits on big girls so they have to hit on guys themselves.
/r/seduction01/03/20 09:49 AM
1

You're alreadygiving her validation by being around talking to her. What he means is don't give her verbal validation.
/r/seduction01/03/20 09:47 AM
1

Ignore it. Leave her on read. She said there's nothing wrong anyways so she can't blame you.
/r/seduction01/03/20 09:46 AM
1

DM like real a man
/r/seduction01/03/20 09:44 AM
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Pls pls pls pls don't allow normie memes on this sub
/r/seduction01/03/20 09:30 AM
1

Hold eye contact, nod and say "hmhmm"
/r/seduction29/02/20 08:42 PM
2

Why would you do that. If thats gonna help you connect with her and have sex it's OK. If that's gonna have you be the friend gym buddy it's not ok
/r/seduction29/02/20 04:05 PM
1

Pretty sure a YouTube search can answer that
/r/seduction29/02/20 01:30 PM
1

"babe why don't we watch porn next time we have sex ? that sounds sexy lol"
/r/seduction28/02/20 09:08 AM
2

3-4 texts of banter, ask for meet up. She will say yes or ghost/give some bad excuse. Repeat until she comes out.
/r/seduction27/02/20 09:06 PM
2

Stop trying to have conversations over text
/r/seduction27/02/20 09:03 PM
1

Go out again and again until the pain and boredom of not taking action pushes you to do something
/r/seduction27/02/20 05:50 AM
3

Girls should know from the beginning that your interested. Make sure you tease them. It's important. Take risks for them to hate you and insult you. Lead towards sex. Have boundaries. Hold eye contact. Etc etc
/r/seduction27/02/20 05:49 AM
5

Approach and get rejected until there's a girl who like you. There's a best way, but it doesn't even really feel like a best way because you still get rejected way more than you get positive reactions. But that's OK, imagine if you got laid with every girl you talk to lol. You just need one girl a night.
/r/seduction27/02/20 05:46 AM
9

Why would you show her around? To make friends or to seduce her. If you tried to seduce her, you made exactly 0 move from beginning to end so you friend zoned yourself.
/r/seduction27/02/20 05:45 AM
5

Tell him "I have absolutely no physical boundary" lol Tbh, if he wanted to, he'd make a move. Now you can always help him if he's shy by letting him now that you like being physical.
/r/seduction27/02/20 05:40 AM
5

Dude you don't go around on internet forums trying to rewrite game theory. There is nightgame, and there is daygame. You get socially introduced or it's cold approach. Either way, everything works. If a girl thinks you're selling her something, you're doing something way wrong.
/r/seduction26/02/20 09:36 PM
7

Build yourself a plan. Have goals each night, not in term of results but in terms of action. For example, Open 5 girls that you find impressive next time you go out. Another example, force yourself to make longer pauses during your sentences the next night you go out. Etc etc. Once it's done, pat yourself on the back, you've done progress. Whether you get sex or not is irrelevant then - still try to go for it though! Or pm me and I can work on one action plan for you :)
/r/seduction26/02/20 08:12 PM
1

How many times u gonna post that. Ask her out, if she says yes you have a shot, anything short of a yes means no
/r/seduction26/02/20 02:27 PM
2

For sure. You do you champ. I see it's definitely working out :)
/r/seduction26/02/20 07:25 AM
0

Worst advice ever
/r/seduction26/02/20 06:51 AM
2

Any club that has a queue to go in will try to keep a nice ratio, shitty clubs don't care. Try malls also
/r/seduction26/02/20 06:49 AM
4

Abundance
/r/seduction26/02/20 06:48 AM
2

You're wrong and it has been proven countless times. Up your game.
/r/seduction26/02/20 05:26 AM
2

It's a bit nerve racking sometimes, but definitely the correct behavior to have.
/r/seduction26/02/20 05:25 AM
7

You dont
/r/seduction26/02/20 05:23 AM
1

You can't force people to do what they don't wanna do. If he's too insecure to lead, well be it Find a better bf or settle down for that
/r/seduction25/02/20 09:00 AM
1

No motivation? Imagine her naked riding on you, there is your motivation. Now if you're just tired, that's something else. Go home and get sleep.
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:35 AM
1

There's no middle ground.
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:34 AM
2

Punctuation, paragraphs, geez
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:26 AM
1

Well if it's not romantic it's friendly, what else is there?
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:25 AM
2

You became needy and pressured her, she lost attraction, started seeing Chad and moved on. . Move on brother and improve your game
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:24 AM
1

You're feeding a relationship that you don't want so I don't really get your point
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:23 AM
4

Nah man go back to playing Xbox and masturbating to the girls I'm having sex with
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:21 AM
5

It's not rude to say hello to strangers lol. Which world do we live in. If you're a needy leech then yes you're an annoyance. If you're being carefree and calibrated then it's a pleasure. Fix your mindset.
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:49 AM
1

Well she thinks u cute, nothing more so far
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:45 AM
2

You look like a ninja
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:07 AM
2

If she's in a rush and running away you can save it by taking the number quickly. If she's running away bcz she doesn't like you, well she doesn't like you
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:39 PM
2

Woooo
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:36 PM
2

Drop statements about her and give her time to answer
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:27 PM
1

Wrong sub bro
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:26 PM
4

Never ever E V E R cancel plans for a girl. It should actually be the other way around, you cancel the girl for your plans.
/r/seduction23/02/20 04:02 PM
1

Goooood to see man
/r/seduction23/02/20 04:01 PM
1

That, or your verbal game is bad and your delivery is off.
/r/seduction23/02/20 08:54 AM
2

Thinking that you need her to give you something to work with is a mistake
/r/seduction22/02/20 11:16 AM
1

Anything that includes a question that is not a practical problem (= engage her)
/r/seduction22/02/20 10:19 AM
1

Haha I'm late to the party, do you have any good material for me? Say what you think and if the conversation isn't going in your direction directly address it. If she comes on a date and asks you to help her with her homework, you tell her that you didn't come to do tutoring. And watch in amazement how she reacts. Random example.
/r/seduction21/02/20 02:12 PM
2

Really ? Small talk them with engaging questions, don't be needy and break rapport. Then watch them chase for your validation.
/r/seduction21/02/20 06:23 AM
2

girls like bad boys Dude discovered the power of breaking rapport and is amazed, February 2020 I don;t think calling a girl ugly or a bitch in a funny way is being a bad boy though, it's just ... having fun ?
/r/seduction21/02/20 06:18 AM
1

Most people who get into game and seriously learn about seduction are there because they are horny mofos and/or because they need the validation. Tbh once you can get laid easily, you start going out less and aim for better, rarer girls. I feel sad for that guy who got married only after having 2 gfs before though, pretty sure he didn't allow himself to experience life in a certain way.
/r/seduction21/02/20 06:15 AM
2

Yes it's normal if she doesn't feel comfortable around you. Build some comfort. Law of state transference, whatever you feel she feels so be relaxed. Be genuine and true to yourself, don't try to impress her. Give her time to feel more comfortable with your presence,m she might be shy. I'm sending you a PM for more.
/r/seduction21/02/20 06:13 AM
0

There is abundance everywhere. It's virtually impossible for you to not being able to find a way of putting yourself in a situation of abundance. You roughly need 3-4 girls regular to be in a situation of abundance. In any city, even 40 000 souls cities it's possible to build that rotation if you put yourself in the right place. I'm sending you a PM man.
/r/seduction21/02/20 06:09 AM
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You're gonna go far with that mindset. You can learn how to have them wanting to chase you and invest.
/r/seduction20/02/20 06:57 PM
3

Girls flake when they aren't invested. Have them invest
/r/seduction20/02/20 06:21 PM
2

Get the natural if you are a hard case and want to become somewhat normal Get with Todd if you want to actually learn seduction and get somewhere.
/r/seduction20/02/20 09:43 AM
1

I started to think that everyone else is wrong and I'm right, selective blind spots help lol.
/r/seduction20/02/20 09:42 AM
2

Sitting next to her at a coffee shop
/r/seduction20/02/20 09:25 AM
2

Engage her emotions Build a narrative together Be good at sex Care about her feelings So many ways man
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:21 AM
1

Dude you don't go into deep cold reading off the open. It fails because you learned pick up material before learning how to have a regular conversation. If a girl cold approaches you on the street to tell you that "you look strong but sometimes not too confident" you're gonna tell her that she's a creep after a few seconds of confusion. How to have a normal conversation : say hi have her understand why you're here statement of empathy if she's freaking out engage her on SOME SURFACE LEVEL SHIT F…
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:18 AM
4

Cold approaching is for champions and its meant for everywhere. I'm sorry OP got his small legs exhausted and his huge ego hurt. I'm getting rejected all the time and still getting laid all the time from cold approach. Logic?
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:09 AM
1

As a flawed person, I hate when something points my flaws out.
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:01 AM
2

I've wasted 30s of my life, give them back!
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:56 AM
3

Keep being complacent then man, what do you want us to do.
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:23 PM
2

Alright champ
/r/seduction18/02/20 02:38 PM
1

Escalate, get physical, bring her to a place where sex can happen
/r/seduction18/02/20 02:36 PM
13

You wrote a 546 paragraphs text and yet there you go : Do you even approach girls?
/r/seduction18/02/20 02:34 PM
2

Looks aren't what matters most, but every inch of work in the right direction helps don't you think so
/r/seduction18/02/20 02:32 PM
3

Gym + general grooming. It's not that hard to become at least a 7
/r/seduction18/02/20 02:29 PM
10

As with anything in life, you create the opportunity
/r/seduction18/02/20 12:57 PM
2

It's all in your head bruh Fix your insecurities
/r/seduction18/02/20 07:57 AM
2

I really doubt they actually get heartbroken after 5mins of conversation bruh
/r/seduction18/02/20 07:55 AM
1

imagine you’ve got a girlfriend and someone’s chatting her up as if you were non-existent Guys will hit on my girl whether she's single or not, whether they know it or not, especially if she's hot. She will in the end decides by herself who she goes to. Open your eyes to the real world sooner than later bro
/r/seduction17/02/20 06:35 PM
3

Lmao Don't go to China now, use some common sense. Other countries are fine, even if a majority of people will be wearing masks during the day.
/r/seduction17/02/20 07:29 AM
2

Sacrifice the potential lay for the sake of practice. Be extremely physically pushy, see what works and what doesn't. Do it for the next 3 dates you get, reflect on it and you will know how to escalate properly afterwards.
/r/seduction17/02/20 07:28 AM
2

Calibrate after each sentence if you're not sure how to process. "Hi, whatever fluff" if she can't hear you, you get closer. If she still can't hear you and there's no point talking, take her hand and invite her to dance. If she refuses, drop her hand, smile and stand in front, say something else, see if she invests, etc.
/r/seduction17/02/20 07:21 AM
2

If your profile is in the top 10% of what she sees, you are in and you'll get lots of success. It's not that hard to get a nice IG like that set up. If you're in the 80% you'll be like every other male, sex starved. Girls link their IG on tinder because it's free followers.
/r/seduction17/02/20 07:16 AM
1

Excuses + cmon man you could wake up at 3pm even on a nightshift job get yourself together
/r/seduction17/02/20 07:08 AM
1

"by the waym do you have a boyfriend ?' Getting to the point is not being "too direct". And tbh you shouldn't even care about her having a BF.
/r/seduction17/02/20 07:06 AM
1

For example, I feel like if a guy asks a girl out for a date, then he should be covering the cost of the date. It's essentially an exchange of her time to show you are a suitable partner. How about exchanging your time for her time instead of buying it ? You looking for a prostitute bruh ?
/r/seduction17/02/20 07:05 AM
6

If you're unhappy about not having sex already , why don't you try to make it happen ? Tbh you're not probably just one of the guys, you actually are one of the other guys. So stop caring, there is always at least another one trying with her. I don't get why it's a problem though. There is no such thing as rushing for sex if you make her want it fast enough.
/r/seduction17/02/20 07:04 AM
3

Tinder Expensive bars Street And tbh if you approach a women that's 20yrs older than you it's written all over your face that you're here for the shag
/r/seduction17/02/20 07:01 AM
12

Step 1 hit the gym Step 19 stop being a virgin Step 83 bang lots of staceys Also, is it relevant that your friend is an orthodox Christian?
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:48 AM
1

I can hear feminists scream "toxic masculinity" when reading your comment lol Relax man, it's ok to express how you feel. If she loses interest in you it's not because you tell her that you're looking for an exclusive relationship. Most girls want that.
/r/seduction12/02/20 05:02 AM
1

It's okay :) It gets better with practice, don't you think so ?
/r/seduction12/02/20 05:00 AM
1

Pull as soon as she's compliant in doing so. Have a good reason to pull ("let's grab tea in my house" "I have to drop my bag upstairs" etc). Seed the pull ("I have a cat and it's SO cute you GOTTA see it") a while before going back. Make it flow naturally, it shouldn't feel like "so, we have done the talking now it's time to do the fucking", just make it be the next silly thing you guys do together.
/r/seduction12/02/20 04:57 AM
1

Switzerland isn't that conservative LOL try cold approaching in china or south korea
/r/seduction12/02/20 04:52 AM
2

You're being nice and trying for rapport with a guy that's breaking rapport. When people break rapport, you break rapport and self-amuse. If he's only breaking rapport, you're dealing with an ass and you'd better just ignore him flat out. Do not ever register the sound of his voice. Now if you wanna steal his girl, just come in and engage the girl harder than him and ignore him. He's gonna get mad and make a mistake. Or if he has game he'll try to re engage the girl more than you. And then it's …
/r/seduction09/02/20 07:40 AM
1

Bro do you even cold approach
/r/seduction08/02/20 05:10 PM
1

Anywhere man Bars and clubs are designed to meet though. Online dating works aswell
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:19 PM
1

If you don't know where she stands regarding cheating on her bf I'd advise to not make her think about him ever.
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:18 PM
2

This is friend making 101 bro Find commonalities then invite people out to that common activity and boom you got a new friend
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:26 PM
2

Yes, man up If you spent that much energy learning how to get better with girls you wouldn't even need to write such a post. Edit for clarity : state crash happens, and you fix it by taking more action without judging yourself
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:21 PM
3

It's probably dead. Improve for the next girl.
/r/seduction08/02/20 10:34 AM
1

it felt like a fucking nice guy incel piece of shit thing to do Because it indeed was. She felt bad a bit, but that's her problem. Then she felt even worse because you started feeling bad instead of owning your reality, which killed it. Being honest is a filter. There once was this chinese girl who almost started crying after an amazing date when I told her I was seeing 2 other girls. People have expectations sometimes. Now, would you want to be with someone who despise your way of life ?
/r/seduction08/02/20 09:22 AM
3

Going to fast, jumping on the bait, being needy, etc
/r/seduction08/02/20 06:22 AM
1

You guys are really trying way too hard haha
/r/seduction08/02/20 05:23 AM
2

Dude what. What if a random girl comes to you and asks you "hi. Do you want to commit a whole night of your life to a stranger that might be cute and confident but is also quite possibly a serial killer? No? OK thanks bye." That's how she felt about your interaction.
/r/seduction08/02/20 05:21 AM
3

Only time I'd give my insts is when I'm confident my IG will pull her in and I had no time to build any kind of comfort. Always do the phone number. Snapchat is just for girls lf attention tbh
/r/seduction08/02/20 05:19 AM
1

Being sarcastic is bad. It's condescending and breaks rapport. So if you do it often you just keep showing disinterest and might come off as rude or inconsiderate
/r/seduction08/02/20 05:17 AM
4

Usually I say "dad pls that's enough"
/r/seduction08/02/20 05:16 AM
5

You didn't lead, you didn't make her forget her bf, you didn't spike her emotions, you didn't break rapport, you didn't build rapport. Basically she gave you a compliment and you followed her around.
/r/seduction08/02/20 04:31 AM
1

Girls don't care about that. Go, champ
/r/seduction07/02/20 11:05 AM
7

Dude this stuff only works in movies. In real life it's called the friend zone. Let it be the origin story of your super-vilain heart-breaker career
/r/seduction07/02/20 10:59 AM
3

Well if I tell you that oranges are better than apples, you might say no. Then you will tell me that oranges suck and make my teeth yellow. I will answer that oranges are the best fruit ever, that they make you beautiful and rich and that I don't understand what happened between you and the orange seller when you were a kid. Even though oranges do make my teeth go yellow and I know it. Shit test, exageration, reframe. And I didn't say you couldn't be influenced. It's just that you're a rock, not…
/r/seduction07/02/20 10:53 AM
0

Because if you're confident others reality cannot influence yours
/r/seduction07/02/20 09:42 AM
1

Tbh you're probably trying to push in a lame weak way such as "I like you but I'm not sure if we can get along" Which is try hard, doesn't hold any tension and shows you're still afraid to lose her. Basically tells her "I'm gaming u", which is a pull. Yes that's all that the word cheeky evokes to my mind. An actual push would rather be "we are so never getting along" AND LATER WHEN SHE INVESTS you reward her with a nice pull along the lines of "oh you like Pokémon go that's so cool I thought you…
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:35 AM
2

So you're asking if it's good to look at a girl in the eyes? Yea it is
/r/seduction07/02/20 07:50 AM
1

You're being needy and you're asking if that's OK to be even needier. The answer is no
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:41 AM
3

If she isn't interested, looking at her harder isn't gonna change anythinf
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:38 AM
1

You're not gonna get help with that kind of answer bruh
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:27 AM
1

Do you know how to small talk people? Step 1
/r/seduction07/02/20 04:28 AM
3

Life is about choices. Being honest is the way. If they can't handle the truth then they aren't meant to stay in your life. You can't be honest and keep all your options open bro
/r/seduction07/02/20 04:26 AM
2

It happens but I'd rather take action myself
/r/seduction07/02/20 03:05 AM
1

Not you obviously
/r/seduction07/02/20 02:30 AM
1

Then you came to realize why most people like to live in big cities
/r/seduction06/02/20 05:43 PM
2

If you learn about motivation and how the brain works you will see its like a muscle. Exercise and practice doing what you don't want to do and you will do greater things. A good starting exercise is to take cold shower for a month
/r/seduction06/02/20 05:42 PM
1

You keep posting about that, ignored my pm about offering coaching, don't want to join activities, don't want to go to bars and clubs, don't want to approach girls during the day... Geez man, what do you expect.
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:18 PM
1

Malls
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:06 PM
2

Good luck lol. If you catch that unicorn, keep it safe and tell us, we'd like to learn how you did that.
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:05 PM
1

Thanks for blogging about that
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:04 PM
3

Ever considered daygame?
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:03 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction06/02/20 01:18 PM
1

It's not a technique, it's the natural behavior of someone who wants to kiss you. It communicates sexual interest.
/r/seduction06/02/20 08:07 AM
1

You don't have to push and pull within the same sentence. It's more powerful if you don't tbh.
/r/seduction06/02/20 08:06 AM
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Gosh this sub sometimes. Yes there is a point in cold approaching. It's not hopeless. If you practice and get better, it's not hard. If you're a complacent whiny beginner who won't ever get outside of the comfort zone, yes it's hard and hopeless. There is so much to be changed with you mindset bro.
/r/seduction06/02/20 08:04 AM
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Who needs two weeks to decide if you're interested in someone or not? She wasn't interested and you pushed her for an answer by triple texting. People do not owe you an explanation as to why they won't date you, same way you don't explain to the salesperson why you don't buy their stuff and leave the shop.
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:56 AM
1

Talk to them about their opinion About their day About what they look like About what they are doing Etc
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:53 AM
2

If she says a negative you break rapport. If she says a positive you reward her. If the convo is boring you break rapport and lead it to something interesting. If you find it funny to do so, you break rapport. She won't chase after you breaking rapport too much if she doesn't like you to begin with. She will like you more if you have her invest in the conversation.
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:50 AM
2

Not enough detail to answer sell Maybe you didn't lead enough, etc
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:45 AM
1

Have a plan for the day Practice one or two things at a time and focus on it
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:44 AM
1

"can't touch this"
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:42 AM
2

Well, easy, i meet women
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:41 AM
1

were not intimate...but we've been on a few dates Doesn't that sound wrong to you? Why didn't you make a move already?
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:34 AM
1

Tbh if you're asking the question, you're not at the level to correctly apply the answer. Here's your answer. Talk with her about whatever. Look into the sub communication. Stay around. Look into the sub communication. If she stays around, lead her somewhere for some activity. Look into the sub communication. Gauge her compliance. Escalate. Gauge her compliance. Lead her to your house, or not, depending on compliance. Whatever you say is highly irrelevant. You won't get her by cornering her with…
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:29 AM
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Engage them, ask them question about what they are doing, focus on the girl you like. If it's in a loud environment it's OK to focus on the girl you like even more. But don't dismiss the friends.
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:23 AM
2

I find it weird to enter bars alone. It's not. Now gooo
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:17 AM
1

Yea man it's too long. Some other guy who's not that indecisive will come and take her.
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:15 AM
2

If you don't wanna do something, do it instead
/r/seduction06/02/20 04:43 AM
2

Pause 3 seconds between each of your sentences
/r/seduction05/02/20 06:54 AM
1

"hi, look like your exercising hard today" "what muscles do you work on" "cool, you come here often I guess" "whoa, you're a student, must be hard to carry those buffed legs to class after workout" Etc, etc
/r/seduction05/02/20 05:12 AM
5

Act through your fear
/r/seduction05/02/20 04:45 AM
25

Good good good.
/r/seduction03/02/20 12:17 PM
1

That's ego and shame. Practice breaking your ego and putting yourself in shame inducing situations
/r/seduction03/02/20 10:19 AM
1

Then sell better cars up to the point you know that they are what the customer needs. (improve yourself)
/r/seduction03/02/20 09:41 AM
2

If you sell cars and everytime a customer refuses to buy it, do you cry?
/r/seduction03/02/20 09:21 AM
22

That's not a shit test. Convo is boring or she is busy or she is not interested. Talk to her again later.
/r/seduction03/02/20 05:25 AM
7

This is the real endgame. Most guys don't see it because they can't get with a single girl to begin with. I don't think you will get an answer here. I'm saving this post, this is one the best question asked here for a while My 2 cents : Give value and then people will want to be around you. Go out, find commonalities, build friendships and generally give people what they want.
/r/seduction03/02/20 04:50 AM
1

It goes away the more you do it. No one can help you. You have to force yourself.
/r/seduction03/02/20 04:22 AM
1

I've got an how to I wrote on how to DM girls on insta
/r/seduction03/02/20 04:21 AM
1

Upbringing conditions that molded him into having the behavior women find attractive. Growing up a natural just means you were born and raised in favorable conditions. Because most people aren't, most people have to practice and learn game.
/r/seduction02/02/20 07:21 AM
2

Dude if a girl accepts to watch Netflix with you she EXPECTS you to try to have sex with her. So, do it. (unless you guys are 15)
/r/seduction02/02/20 06:32 AM
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Stop thinking about how you come off to other people, be polite and focus on what you really want. Care more about what you think of them than what they think of you
/r/seduction02/02/20 06:09 AM
1

Why didn't you take her number instead
/r/seduction02/02/20 05:59 AM
1

You're not special, as opposed to what your mom always said, you're just like everyone else. So if others can get jacked/rich/fuck models, why can't you? There are dudes with fake metal legs winning competitions. There are dudes in wheelchairs dating models. There are people who started homeless and became millionaires.
/r/seduction02/02/20 05:58 AM
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Practice, less anxiety frees up your mind
/r/seduction02/02/20 05:56 AM
1

If you wanna have sex with her why don't you just try and do it
/r/seduction02/02/20 05:55 AM
2

For real, cold approaching is so easy. "hi" "do you speak English" "cool, I like your style I wanted to say hello" "you seem in a rush are you a student?" "oh, I knew you were a student you look like a nice girl" Have a plan and don't judge yourself based on whether or not you get positive outcome. Just follow the steps. Your ego is holding you down. Ever thought of that?
/r/seduction02/02/20 05:48 AM
2

Interest, fear or trying to figure which (aka curiosity).
/r/seduction02/02/20 05:42 AM
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Have a cool life, do what you like. Talk about what you feel is cool. You don't need DHVs, it's 2020 wake up. Engage the girl and don't be needy, you'll get access to 80% of girls. For the last 20% it's about who knows you. So be sociable. Ironically, once you get sociable, you will get those DHVs stories, but you won't need them anymore. Now of course if your life revolves around going to school and coming home to play call of duty, you're gonna have a hard time.
/r/seduction01/02/20 05:51 PM
1

Does that matter? You don't need high energy, you need high intensity
/r/seduction01/02/20 05:48 PM
1

No one cares man. And even if, why do you care what other people think? It's hard enough to find the courage to go talk to a stranger. If I see a guy cold approaching im gonna stare at him and smile. Hard. Because it doesn't matter what I think. We're all human beings trying to get through
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:58 AM
1

Find cute girl Find out if she wants to get to know me more Arouse girl while having a good time If positives, lead to sex
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:55 AM
1

It's not necessary, but it is incredibly helpful to have someone give you feedback don't you think so?
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:52 AM
2

Why are you so sure that she wants you to pay for the drinks. Why don't you just say no if you don't want to pay for her drinks?
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:52 AM
1

I can count a million flaws but it'd take forever to write them all down Take five minutes and write them all down. I'll give you a way to fix each and every one of your issues. Life is what you make it. You can complain, or take action and move forward.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:48 AM
1

What do I do? You make a choice.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:46 AM
1

She m i g h t think you're creepy. Unless you come out as a totally different, healed and better guy, it's dead.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:43 AM
1

This is b e a u t i f u l
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:41 AM
1

Not enough comfort
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:32 AM
1

If you're intimidated by hot girls only when they wear makeup maybe you should watch less porn lol
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:31 AM
1

This is 100% gonna be "I'm sorry I have a boyfriend" Talk to her and get to know her first and foremost.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:30 AM
2

You went out so that's a success. Next time push a bit harder. Go step by step.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:29 AM
3

You don't have an obsessive personality, you just didn't meet other girls. So go out and talk to chicks.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:28 AM
2

No. Pay for everything for girls who will maybe only have sex with you after weeks of courting. That is if you can speak perfect Chinese and are accepted by her parents and friends, which won't happen most of the time just because you're white. I'm talking about high society Chinese women specifically by the way. Your average cute Chinese girl will love you even if your game is bad because she'll assume youre rich and successful. Chinese girls live in a bubble, foreigners are horny/dangerous and…
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:11 AM
2

Indirect or direct, in a less needy way. In your example there are 4 moments where you could pause and let her invest/re calibrate.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:09 AM
1

Pickup lines are unnecessary and irrelevant.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:07 AM
2

Guy wanna smash new girl at work who has a long time boyfriend. Oh boi. You either go for it, or you don't. But it seems like you're waiting for her to make a clear move and that ain't gonna happen.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:07 AM
0

Confidence crushing rejection. Whoa. If people insult you, you let them know how you feel about it. "God damn you really are a bad person" But tbh, you should have a plan and ideally ignore anything that doesn't help fulfilling it. Saying "OK" and walking away works well.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:05 AM
0

Outright wrong to kinda right, depending on how traditional the girl is. The more traditional, the more she cares about having a man being able to provide to the family. Will still get aroused by "alpha" qualities and cheat on hubby.
/r/seduction01/02/20 09:59 AM
1

Lay low
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:41 PM
2

"did someone kidnap u" Tbh, 8 times out of 10, dead tinder convos stay dead
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:41 PM
5

Believing that girls would invest if I could just stfu
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:40 PM
0

Every dating program ad ever Seriously man, think about training yourself to get you to talk to strangers, in two weeks you can totally kill approach anxiety. You don't need no motivational video
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:05 PM
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Glad to be helpful. Work on the reasons that put you in the friend zone in the first place and you'll be better off next time you've got a crush
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:00 PM
2

Probably not. Approach other girls.
/r/seduction31/01/20 02:57 PM
1

Come on. You're deep into the friend zone. Your case isn't special and it has all the causes and symptoms of the friend zone.
/r/seduction31/01/20 02:55 PM
1

Too successful to bother counting success rates. Seriously, smh. " There is this potential buyer but he didn't let me know he wants my product so I should not try to sell him "
/r/seduction31/01/20 02:51 PM
1

Break rapport and clarify things Move on
/r/seduction31/01/20 02:49 PM
1

What's a site link
/r/seduction31/01/20 02:49 PM
2

F r i e n d z o n e
/r/seduction31/01/20 02:48 PM
1

Depends where you are in the relationship and why you do so
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:05 AM
2

Do you just try to get laid or are you friendly, chatty, etc? Your post is way to vague can you be more specific
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:02 AM
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Yeah of course, nothing works if the girl isn't into you to begin with. You don't use texts to have a girl be into you
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:00 AM
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If she comes to your house and is surprised by the idea of you guys having sex it means you did something wrong So, having only the bed to sit on isn't a problem in itself. Source : been there, done that
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:21 AM
1

Smaller cities, less girls. What do you think?
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:19 AM
1

I take girls on coffee/beer dates and that's it for the first time. If it's a pain for you to go out and spend 8$ on public transportation + coffee then maybe you should get a job that pays
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:18 AM
1

Practice small talk, if you're bad at it well then you're not gonna make a crazy good impression. First practice, then reap the reward. School game is not complicated, talk to everyone and make them talk about themselves.
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:16 AM
1

Wat
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:14 AM
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It means you should move on pal
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:14 AM
1

"hey what's up?" And then try to talk about anything that comes to mind
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:13 AM
1

Point wasn't to show off lmao
/r/seduction30/01/20 02:57 PM
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By having a plan I mean having steps and a general direction where you going, not an exact script Letting her know that you like her Getting to know her Finding out whether she likes you Etc Do you feel confident enough for that or is it too messy in your head when approaching girls?
/r/seduction30/01/20 08:46 AM
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How is it questionable shit to cold approach? Dude, once you do it for a whole and see how much the girls you date out of cold approach like you, you will never have this thought ever again. Understand that we are men and women and we are meant to meet, however we achieve it doesn't matter in the slightest. Now I have to ask, do you even have a plan when approaching girls or do you just randomly walk up to them?
/r/seduction30/01/20 05:29 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction30/01/20 05:27 AM
1

Ask her out for a coffee and try to kiss her at the end.
/r/seduction30/01/20 05:27 AM
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Everytime, I don't do second dates if nothing happened on the first anymore.
/r/seduction30/01/20 05:23 AM
1

Abundance
/r/seduction30/01/20 05:22 AM
1

Some girls are stupid, same way some guys are stupid. If a girl disrespects you in a club tell her this one thing "OK bye" and go have fun somewhere else.
/r/seduction30/01/20 05:22 AM
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Normal girls want the same thing, they are just younger. Soo, you want younger girls. Ask yourself where do younger girls hang out, and go there
/r/seduction30/01/20 05:21 AM
1

I'd avoid saying "sex" within the first minutes of any daygame interaction, lol, strong word. You guys should talk about you, or better, about her. Not about a random show.
/r/seduction29/01/20 03:13 PM
1

Hit them with some fun fact about their shopping cart lol
/r/seduction29/01/20 03:07 PM
1

How good is your profile? Your profile should be doing the heavy lifting so that you would get away by sending something like "hello there" If you're trying to entertain or hook in your first message you're already losing. The mainstream advice is to say something funny and friendly that she will answer to, well that's crap advice. You can, if you feel like it, but you shouldn't have to.
/r/seduction29/01/20 03:05 PM
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As long as you don't verbalize how sexual you feel to total strangers that's OK. It should be seen through your body language, the way you look at her, how relaxed your voice is, etc.
/r/seduction29/01/20 03:03 PM
1

It's a meme character, quite fun, check it out
/r/seduction29/01/20 09:02 AM
1

It's not that hard with the right guidance
/r/seduction29/01/20 02:46 AM
1

If this sub gets 1000 viewers, 900 will be forever alone. But that's specific to this place.
/r/seduction29/01/20 02:27 AM
1

Not more than playing tennis or any music instrument. If you practice, you get good.
/r/seduction29/01/20 02:26 AM
2

Social circle game is the best way to meet hot quality women. I mean it. Is your mind blown already? If there's a cutie on the street, I'll still go and say hi.
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:58 AM
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Force yourself to do what you don't want to do. It's hard the same for everyone,you're not special. Others did it, you can do it too.
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:55 AM
1

Flirting isn't cheating. Try to go through with it and come back with actual evidence bruh
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:53 AM
2

Yes And if they don't want it they will tell you. Depending on how you react to that they can start wanting it.
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:51 AM
2

Have you just been attention whoring on tinder ? Don't ask a girl out if you know you don't want to do anything geez.
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:49 AM
2

I've been living in SE for years and doing that ever since. I'm part of groups of other people who are also successfully doing it. But damn dude you got triggered. The fact you don't see it or cannot understand it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Peace ✌️
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:44 AM
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Yeah man because your life experience sure means a lot about what's going on in the rest of the world
/r/seduction28/01/20 09:10 AM
7

So cold approach then
/r/seduction28/01/20 08:57 AM
3

A line doesn't matter, the sub communication matters. By saying this line, you sub communication is that you might want something more than a friendly relationship with her. So keep doing things that are more flirty than friendly with her.
/r/seduction28/01/20 06:02 AM
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Normal people find their significant other through friends and work relations, I don't say it, science says it. But that's kinda lame to wait for someone to introduce you isn't it? Cold approach is the way.
/r/seduction28/01/20 06:01 AM
5

There is no specific place to start. You do and see what works and what doesn't. Then you change what didn't work. It requires thinking.
/r/seduction28/01/20 05:59 AM
3

Practice, trying new things and WRITING FIELD REPORTS
/r/seduction28/01/20 05:56 AM
2

Dude this is not 1990 anymore, everyone knows that women like a guy going his way but who knows how to be nice, and not bad guys.
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:29 PM
10

hey you seem like a cool person, I was just wondering if you wanted to hang out sometime ?" (Her friends are going to be around I guess) That is 100% gonna be a" haha thanks, but I have a boyfriend"
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:26 PM
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There probably is something that you're missing and that you don't tell us bcz it makes no sense for a normal human to do that. Edit, on second read, you made half assed plans, she said maybe which means no and you got happy with that so she moved on with her life. You probably were too friendly or didn't see that maybe she was tooling you bcz she was bored "who is this" most likely was just her genuinely forgetting about you, not a test
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:21 PM
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Needs more details. To be sure. But usually, if you're not sure whether she likes you, she doesn't
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:19 PM
1

Then online can only further whatever happened when you met her
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:35 AM
0

Consensus is that it sucks bcz you probably don't have game and your profile is average AF. If you have game and you profile looks cool, it's a viable way to do
/r/seduction27/01/20 05:40 AM
2

How tf is she supposed to mix the sugar if they forgot to give her a spoon? Geez
/r/seduction27/01/20 05:38 AM
1

Thanks for blogging about how you feel bro
/r/seduction27/01/20 05:37 AM
2

Step 1 : be a chad
/r/seduction27/01/20 05:36 AM
2

Another day, another shitpost
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:58 PM
1

Look at her, smile, see how she reacts. Do I really have to write it?
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:57 PM
1

Learn how to small talk ppl and how to never break eye contact first
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:56 PM
3

I tried to read it once, great pictures but the storyline sucks and he dies at the end
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:54 PM
1

Do you guys look at each others in the eyes when eiffel towering the girl ?
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:53 PM
1

Wth does that even mean
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:52 PM
1

You don't want to listen to constructive criticism man. Approach more and practice more. Here is your advice. Bars, clubs, daygame, wherever, they all are good ways to meet girls. Get better game.
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:41 AM
1

Say hi and any normal person will take out their earphone and look at you just to make sure you aren't threatening their life.
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:35 AM
1

Todd is my guy
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:33 AM
1

Damn how do you make such big words, I feel it'd be useful a lot on this sub
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:33 AM
17

"Going out" by Real Life
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:30 AM
1

Practice small talking people
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:29 AM
3

Ask her out for drinks
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:29 AM
3

"Duh I approached 6 girls in three years and don't have a girlfriend yet why"
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:28 AM
0

Can you even small talk strangers
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:27 AM
1

Sounds like a super villain origin story
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:26 AM
2

I mean positive via text
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:24 PM
1

I'm having sex within 30mins of my first date sometimes, but I guess we don't live in the same dimension
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:24 PM
1

Oh, okay then. Consider buying wigs then, good hair seems to be the new chick magnet
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:23 PM
2

Man, don't expect me to hold your hand. You're at a party, what do you think people want? You're at a business meeting, what do you think people want? Etc
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:40 AM
2

Just find a girl who likes you and talk to her until it's time to go home
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:21 AM
0

Look at them Tap their arm and start talking Get in front of them and grab their hand
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:21 AM
1

Point out an innocent flaw about her and exaggerate it
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:20 AM
7

Idk, looks kinda gay to me.jpg
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:19 AM
1

Because people wrongly assume that looks are everything. Reality is, if you have really bad game and inner issues you won't get laid, ever.
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:03 AM
1

8-9 dates without making a move, geez
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:02 AM
1

It's okay to let her know you like her. Ask yourself where it's coming from. Do you expect her to return the love when you tell her or do you say it bcz you feel it? Also, tease her from time to time, just for the sake of upsetting her a bit because it's fun.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:59 AM
2

Yes. That's because of ego. Shut your ego.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:57 AM
2

You dont ask a girl out before she gives you a positive. If that's the way you're over thinking, sorry bro, but you're not even doing it right. Your text was also very needy. Let it sit and engage a normal conversation in two days.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:56 AM
3

Mysterious often means "I have no idea what I am doing but I still want to look cool. Not gonna approach girls tho" So I'd go with the other.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:54 AM
1

Yo bro pass the joint
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:53 AM
1

Ask questions about themselves and give them time to answer
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:53 AM
2

Same here. Sex drive goes lower in winter and periods of stress/huge life changes. I think that's normal. Once stress goes away, sex drives comes back. Had some fights with my girls because I wouldn't want sex at all at some point and they thought I wanted to ditch them, now they are fully happy again lol.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:51 AM
1

It depends on the context. Ask yourself what do people want in that specific context. Read How to win friends and influence people.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:50 AM
3

Yeah man you're right on everything you say. Thanks for speaking it.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:45 AM
2

There is a sidebar on this very subreddit that regroups all of the basic stuff smh People here are really lazy
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:40 AM
1

Not sure what you mean. It's not about being oblivious, it's about being decisive in a way that gets others what they want.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:36 AM
1

I have very bad dependent confidence,as in I can only be good at talking if the person Im trying to game is being receptive or nice. Too bad for you, hot girls won't give you free attention even if they like you. If she stays around you, it's enough indication of her interest.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:34 AM
2

Open girls with anything you find fun until there is one that smiles at you and talks back. Stay around her until it's time to go home. When it's time to go home, invite her to your house to hangout more together.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:33 AM
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Lmao at everyone giving you shitty advice. Dude, question, do you know how to handle a conversation? Are you able to speak freely with someone you don't know for an indefinite amount of time? That's step 1. Steo 2, are you able to honestly, quickly and clearly let a girl know you're into her? If you can't do any of that, go out and practice talking to people.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:31 AM
11

Is it a haircut that actually changed everything or is it the newly found placebo effect confidence that's making a difference?
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:29 AM
4

Entertaining is not leading. You get their attention, not their interest. What do people want? Give it to them and they'll follow.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:28 AM
6

It's semantics, it doesn't matter. Thing you have to do : be firm and do not ask her opinion. Asking her if she's free is not asking her opinion, it's just being overall calibrated. "do you have free time this week?" "cool I'm free in the evening too. Let's go have tea on Tuesday after work" No need to overthink it.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:26 AM
2

Open everyone and be nice
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:23 AM
2

26 approaches is what I do in a week. [insert those are rookie numbers meme] Do you think it's easy or come fast? No lol. Is it worth going through? Yes.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:21 AM
1

"Hey doll" What matters is how she reacts. If you try to be engaging on a first text you lose. Your value is in your profile, that she already matched with.
/r/seduction21/01/20 12:55 PM
1

Girls don't answer to boring conversation questions over text. Find ways to physically date her or move on and let her be. Other ppl said it. And you're acting needy a bit too.
/r/seduction21/01/20 12:52 PM
1

Dude she wants to be friend lol Or at least make sure her bf is never ever gonna hear of that
/r/seduction21/01/20 12:47 PM
0

Keyboard jockeys who read about pick up tactics and never talked to girls VS people actually going out and discussing online with like minded individuals. You pick your side and move to a better place. This sub is dead. There is more to it. Game is a balance. You will go in circles, from one extreme to another, until you find the right balance that works with the women you like. You do that with every aspect of seduction and poof now you're good with girls. Now there's a consensus because most g…
/r/seduction21/01/20 10:49 AM
2

Well, you don't have to believe me lol Yes
/r/seduction21/01/20 04:22 AM
2

Yes
/r/seduction21/01/20 04:13 AM
6

That's needy and creepy "did someone kidnap u" Is way better
/r/seduction21/01/20 02:45 AM
-1

Or... She is just busy?
/r/seduction21/01/20 02:43 AM
2

No, that's what makes her like you lol
/r/seduction21/01/20 02:41 AM
2

I don't know why you make such a big deal of having to invite a girl out 4 times. All efforts combined, it is literally gonna take you 5 minutes of your lifetime writing those texts. You don't have to write paragraphs to get a girl out, you just have to ask at the right time. So yes, the only issue is that it hurts your ego.
/r/seduction21/01/20 01:39 AM
1

No, that's bullshit. Learn to hold the tension. Hold eye contact, pause 3sec after your sentences and don't giggle like a schoolgirl.
/r/seduction21/01/20 01:36 AM
2

Improve and get more confident. Drop your ego.
/r/seduction20/01/20 04:58 PM
5

I was being sarcastic, we agree
/r/seduction20/01/20 04:53 PM
-5

It doesn't take that much effort. Often it takes even less texting than to go out with your regular girl lol. She just will not answer every time. Now the effort comes from silencing your ego. You're the kind of person I'm describing in my post btw.
/r/seduction20/01/20 04:39 PM
1

I don't get OP, if a girl stops responding it means she isn't that interested. So, do you only go with girls that you're the top priority of?
/r/seduction20/01/20 04:12 PM
-1

How do you know they don't want you?
/r/seduction20/01/20 03:56 PM
-1

Consider those few things : She's a legit 10. Better, she is YOUR legit 10. But you're kind of a Chad yourself and are actually seeing a few cuties right now. Still, she's your ideal 10. How often do you come across such a girl? She's extra hot. She wakes up to 40 notifications from guys every day. Some are cute. She considers you to be one of those cute. But she's drown in male attention. She might like you. But maybe you're not a top priority. You want to be top priority only? That sounds quit…
/r/seduction20/01/20 03:56 PM
1

"I like yellow it reminds me of bananas. Anyways, I was wondering if you got IG?"
/r/seduction20/01/20 10:24 AM
10

Learn to handle the pressure instead, it's good to be sexual.
/r/seduction20/01/20 10:23 AM
2

If you like her, yes If you're needy and creepy, no
/r/seduction20/01/20 10:21 AM
5

Only low quality and low self esteem girls can't stand being disqualified. Push pull doesn't work on LSE girls for a reason, they can't hold sexual tension because of their insecurities. For me now, it's a way to screen low quality girls. If she can't hold the flirt, she's not for me anyways.
/r/seduction20/01/20 08:13 AM
2

Humans have feelings and dreams also.
/r/seduction19/01/20 11:12 AM
0

I strongly disagree and anyone successful with women does too but sure man
/r/seduction19/01/20 11:08 AM
1

It's okay man, the way for you now is to actually go and try to risk rejection. That's the way and the only way. Also, I have a service about tinder so if you're interested by that you can send me a PM.
/r/seduction19/01/20 11:07 AM
2

Yes but there's a difference between hi and do you wanna come in my candy van
/r/seduction18/01/20 01:24 PM
0

Again, expecting respect from total strangers is selfish. Respect is earned, not due.
/r/seduction18/01/20 12:00 PM
3

You make people comfortable by having commonalities, being honest and vulnerable, being relatable to them and by spending time with them
/r/seduction18/01/20 11:59 AM
1

That's what you're profile is for
/r/seduction18/01/20 11:57 AM
9

Lmao
/r/seduction18/01/20 10:08 AM
3

You are extremely right, yet so controversial on this sub, lol. I'd love to read more about your thoughts and techniques on the topic. ToddV does a good job at explaining persistence as well for those interested.
/r/seduction18/01/20 10:03 AM
1

Move to a big city, there's no solution. Go where the pretty girls are
/r/seduction18/01/20 10:00 AM
1

im literally doing everything in my power to try to be a winner And yet I'm pretty sure you don't cold approach women.
/r/seduction18/01/20 09:59 AM
1

Ego Also, you waited 4 hours to make a move on a girl who came to your house while you guys agreed having sex, hmmmm
/r/seduction18/01/20 09:57 AM
3

Whenever I bring a girl home I'm telling her "welcome to my castle" Dude, it makes no fucking difference
/r/seduction18/01/20 09:56 AM
1

Start talking to women maybe?
/r/seduction18/01/20 09:55 AM
1

Whatever you say doesn't matter. Adapt to her reaction. Calibrate after. Some girls will directly ask my name after I open them with a simple "hi". Some will freak out when I just say "hi" Is it bad to say hi? No, so, calibrate based on her reactions.
/r/seduction18/01/20 09:50 AM
3

I had confidence had everything and wasn’t enough Oooo If you had everything you'd be getting laid. Drop your ego and view female as human beings for a start. Sexual consent is based on attraction + comfort. You might wanna look into what creates those two things. Quick tip, it's not looks.
/r/seduction18/01/20 09:48 AM
0

It's wrong because it hurts people's feelings and girls get insulted for doing it. Just for that reason alone it justifies that no girl ever is going to tell you why she ghosts you, because there is always that one guy who's gonna get butthurt. Go have a look on r/niceguys Other people are not here to tell you how to grow. And its wrongly entitled from you to expect them to do it. Her ghosting should be enough for you to understand she's not interested. Why do you need someone to explicitly tell…
/r/seduction18/01/20 06:54 AM
2

Pls send bobs and vagene
/r/seduction17/01/20 01:35 PM
0

"hey you guys look fun what are you up to?" Or anything better that comes to your mind Then keep engaging them while having them do most of the talking. Throw some jokes, boom they think you're awesome. Do that with other groups. Now the whole bar thinks you're awesome and girls start approaching you.
/r/seduction17/01/20 01:34 PM
5

What's up. I live there, I'm sending you a pm
/r/seduction17/01/20 01:29 PM
1

"yeah, anyways, [change topic]"
/r/seduction17/01/20 01:28 PM
-1

That's my point. She doesn't owe you an explanation. Yea it sucks to get ghosted. But anyone complaining about getting ghosted is acting entitled to something they aren't.
/r/seduction17/01/20 07:22 AM
2

Why would a hot girl with 50 guys messaging her have the "decency" to explain to you why you're being creepy and she's ghosting you? She doesn't even have time to. You're the one being selfish expecting other people who don't know you to go out of their way to rub your feelings in the right direction. Because you've been trying to get laid with her doesn't mean she owes you anything.
/r/seduction17/01/20 06:38 AM
-6

Yes, it's their fault, not yours, never. Bruh. Start taking responsibility
/r/seduction17/01/20 06:34 AM
-2

Sorry to break it down to you but, this is the standard if you have bad game
/r/seduction17/01/20 06:33 AM
2

Think about why she'd say that. Maybe she wasn't feeling comfortable / excited / etc. Change her mood not her mind
/r/seduction17/01/20 06:33 AM
1

Girls are looking for action anywhere anytime. The thing is that not every girl is looking for action anywhere anytime. Guess what to do to find out.
/r/seduction17/01/20 06:31 AM
19

I was getting judged for sleeping around when I was 22 soo... If people judge you, ignore them, if they are rude, tell them to fuck off. And generally, don't hang out nor engage with such people. You don't have to listen/answer to things and people you don't like
/r/seduction17/01/20 06:28 AM
3

Text the day before to see if she still warm Text the morning to tease the date Text 30mins before to check whether she will flake or not
/r/seduction17/01/20 06:27 AM
2

Because you're trying to have a convo Point from the beginning should be to find out whether she wants to go out.
/r/seduction17/01/20 06:26 AM
0

Whoa great advice. Is this what this sub has come to? Why isn't this post removed for being obviously and blatantly newbie stuff while better posts are. Bruh.
/r/seduction16/01/20 04:35 PM
1

Better if you can do the crying/angry emoji face when laughing
/r/seduction15/01/20 01:23 PM
2

I didn't succeed and it's not enough to make conclusions (since most of the time spent was on inaction Dude I didn't even read the rest because it's irrelevant. As long as you're not able to approach 10 girls every time you go out, being able to do it should be your main goal. You don't need theory, you need experience. Understand that you can't instantly be good at something and go out and fail.
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:55 AM
1

Things you probably do wrong : You don't lead enough You don't escalate enough You don't make her talk about herself You talk more than her You don't hold the tension You don't hold EC Here are your fundamentals. Get them all right and you'll get laid on first dates.
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:14 AM
1

Politely decline. Emphasize one the polite part.
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:13 AM
1

LOL Laughing Out Loud Science also says that big and honest laugh makes you seem smarter
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:11 AM
-3

"did someone kidnap u"
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:10 AM
1

Did you even read the post. It's not a specific situation advice for a specific person.
/r/seduction14/01/20 01:17 AM
1

Lmao at the line and the girls reaction.
/r/seduction14/01/20 01:15 AM
1

Forgot to mention, this is tinder, first few texts. Anyways, I pretty much got my answer. She just wanted to vent and get guys attention
/r/seduction13/01/20 01:26 PM
2

Anything works, direct works better. Be having fun and be giving her fun. She wants that more than your D. Unless she's crazy horny, but that's not the case for most girls. Being assertive works better than asking for a dance. Now if you wanna pull to HER place, you better be having great game, comfort and attraction. She won't bring any guy from the club home unless she trusts him and she's horny.
/r/seduction13/01/20 02:09 AM
1

Practice
/r/seduction13/01/20 02:05 AM
1

Kinda the same to me. Why do you care about semantics
/r/seduction13/01/20 02:02 AM
1

Yo man go and get demn bitches
/r/seduction13/01/20 02:01 AM
2

Social blueprint 2.0
/r/seduction12/01/20 08:33 AM
3

Do and see how she reacts. Then be empathetic if they aren't comfortable with it. You might very well be able to convince them to do it. Still, ask before coming on her face if it's the first time you meet lol.
/r/seduction11/01/20 12:30 PM
6

Women are passive and want a man who takes the initiative. It's a filter. You want beautiful women, she wants proactive men.
/r/seduction11/01/20 12:28 PM
1

You asked her to give you a tour. OK. That's friendly. Now I'm telling you to look at how she reacts when you tell her you're nearby. And if she reacts well you should invite her on an actual date. If she doesn't react well it's not the time to ask her for a date. Now for logistics, make it close to your hotel. But you don't need me to tell you that, do you.
/r/seduction11/01/20 12:26 PM
3

If you live in a big city you don't rly need a car. There's always taxi.
/r/seduction11/01/20 12:22 PM
1

Tell her you'll be in town and see how she reacts. I'd she reacts well ask her if she'd like to get coffee
/r/seduction11/01/20 12:12 PM
1

"hi I think you have a nice style so I wanted to say hello"
/r/seduction11/01/20 12:10 PM
2

It depends why she accepts you or rejects you. If she rejects or accepts you within 20 seconds, it's probably not because of what you did. I like to take responsibility for what I do. If I get rejected it's my responsibility to get better game, unless it happened within 20 seconds and I couldn't show that I have game. Of course I could also be creepy within those first 20 seconds. I like to think I'm over it but it's always good to keep yourself in check, don't take responsibility away all the t…
/r/seduction11/01/20 12:07 PM
2

Good post, keep it coming. Most of what's in it is very good already. It has been said already but in my opinion the most important is How to meet people that are high value and who are interesting to you & how to be cherry picking into their social circles to build your own Anither important one could be : how to become the leader of your own social circle. Luke's program has mind blowing ideas on the topic.
/r/seduction11/01/20 12:05 PM
0

What a shitty advice
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:59 AM
6

Weed date = fuck date Sit next to her. Be physical once you guys finished the first joint. Look at her deep in the eyes. Kiss her and take off her clothes. Really, weed dates are so easy man.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:58 AM
1

When she leaves or tells you to fuck off. I personally leave after being rejected twice if the girl is not that hot. Especially during the day when they are afraid to be mean.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:57 AM
1

Get social momentum. After the sixth approach you'll feel better.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:56 AM
1

Go with whatever you feel. If your feeling hurt other people's feelings, those people are not for you to be around. Cool people respect other people's feelings.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:56 AM
2

From experience : Not enough sexual tension, she followed you home because you were entertaining enough and not menacing. (enough comfort. Not enough attraction.) Not enough comfort and she's afraid you're gonna judge her or hurt her feelings. Logically tell her it's alright and wait, do step by step. Show empathy and help her understand that no one's judging. Go a bit slower, but still be going. She might also be tired of sleeping around and she was in a horny mood but now her logical side took…
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:54 AM
2

My gf brings me around on her scooter all the time. It's fun lol. She still calls me daddy.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:50 AM
2

Stop masturbating and you'll find motivation lol
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:49 AM
4

They do it first because you don't. You won't get hotter and better women unless you learn to do it first. It's not disrespectful to touch women. Learn the limit the hard way. If you're afraid to creep some girls, you'll never learn.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:47 AM
2

If you wonder whether she'd go on a date with you, you're probably friend zoned.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:46 AM
1

Talk and make friends to everyone.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:45 AM
1

We'd need more details bro. It's not about what you are, the problem is what you do.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:45 AM
1

Non needy guys. Read that book called Models
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:44 AM
1

Don't do hookers man. Just put in the work and break your ego. Open 50 girls direct during the day, after that amount you'll feel better and more at ease. It's all about practicing and going against your ego. You need to drill it for a while.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:43 AM
1

Don't expect girls to give you attention when they don't know you. Go up and say whatever, it doesn't matter. Look at how she reacts. It's better to be more physical in club's.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:42 AM
4

Younger often means less experienced and needier. Also it implies less status, money and charisma. Basically the only things you have going for you when you're young are looks, time and game. Which are definitely workable btw.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:40 AM
2

If he were actually a pickup artist she wouldn't say he looked like one, but whatever
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:39 AM
6

I think that stopping to talk to a girl is the worst way to push. She's probably gonna think you're actually not interested and you leave space for other guys to try a shot. Unless she's being a real bitch, don't do it.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:38 AM
5

Ignore it and do as usual
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:36 AM
1

Go to your nearest mall and cold approach girls. Cost = 2$ subway and 10$ coffee. Book a flight to meet some random chick abroad. Cost = 1000$ plane tickets, taxi, headaches and heartbreak.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:35 AM
1

Why would you focus on a girl that's so far away? Of course she's giving you mixed signals, she actually understands that long distance flirt is pointless. Send flirty texts. Push/pull.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:33 AM
0

If you were that great at first dates you'd get laid on first dates. You're probably entertaining and lacking sexual tension, which is what a friend does.
/r/seduction10/01/20 02:12 PM
10

Being direct is the way to go in loud parties. Try that during the day and watch how many girls you creep out. I once picked up and had sex with a girl with D cup breast in 2 hours I lol'd because you're judging the quality of a girl by the size of her tits, which is actually a very interesting concept lmao
/r/seduction04/01/20 03:49 AM
1

So... I'm guessing you are really in touch with your emotions, you follow them a lot Depending on the moment of the interaction, that's gonna be too much. That's also too vague and too personal I'd say that kinda stuff not before having sex with a girl tbh. Why do you care about that kinda stuff coming from a stranger? Your cold reads should be more like "whoa your Tshirt is pink, you sure are a very girly person".
/r/seduction04/01/20 03:35 AM
45

Average girls have issues that prevent them from having normal interactions, hence a lot of wtf when interacting with them. Hence why people say game works better on hot girls. Hot girls game is the only thing you should learn BTW.
/r/seduction04/01/20 03:32 AM
2

Can you make animal shaped balloons and do you have a red nose?
/r/seduction04/01/20 03:30 AM
1

Idk, quiting and giving up seems kinda lame to me. But you do you.
/r/seduction04/01/20 03:29 AM
1

How about learning how to seduce hot girls instead
/r/seduction04/01/20 03:17 AM
3

Be engaging and outcome free
/r/seduction03/01/20 06:07 AM
4

BRB I'm gonna throw up
/r/seduction03/01/20 06:06 AM
1

Haters gonna hate
/r/seduction03/01/20 04:56 AM
1

Put one foot in front of the other until you're in talking distance. Then you say hi, how is it going. Point is, it's hard the same for everyone and you have to force yourself.
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:20 AM
1

Depends of the vibe. If you're having fun and giving value in the picture it's OK. If it's you showing off it's not ok
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:18 AM
1

It might help to get more experience with women in general
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:17 AM
3

Considering doesn't mean she's dtf. She might be looking for a LTR and still enjoy sex on first dates.
/r/seduction03/01/20 02:37 AM
3

Relationships start with sex so, you might as well be actively trying to hook up.
/r/seduction02/01/20 07:12 PM
47

If she goes out with you she's considering having sex with you (unless she's oblivious but that's overall quite rare). Ask yourself why they lose interest after going on a date. Are you entertaining through texts and needy once you meet them? Do you give them the opportunity to invest in the interaction or are you talking 80% of the time? TLDR : No it's not a waste of time, my friends and I get laid on first date from OD at least 70% of the time so find out what you do wrong.
/r/seduction02/01/20 06:36 PM
1

You've got your advice, now go apply it.
/r/seduction02/01/20 06:20 PM
1

How do you think one gets less nervous and more confident?
/r/seduction02/01/20 06:19 PM
4

Go and talk to every girl you find cute and stay there even if it's uncomfortable. Talk with no outcome in mind, your goal should be to have them talk to you at least for 50% of the conversation. That, and you make them talk about themselves. Source : I wish somebody gave me this advice when I was 17 bcz I was the high-school biggest nerd and now I'm slaying with women.
/r/seduction02/01/20 06:17 PM
1

Fighting for what relationship exactly? Man, just go down the street and cold approach girls, you'll find a better one that will call you daddy within a week.
/r/seduction02/01/20 06:15 PM
1

Yeah man. Here, join the circle and pass the joint. 🌿 It's all gonna be OK dw.
/r/seduction02/01/20 06:14 PM
3

You might want to stop caring too much about what they say and just understand that they say that because they care about you. And then you do what you want and just be grateful that you have friends that get you laid.
/r/seduction02/01/20 06:11 PM
1

If she's hot she already put you in the creep zone to be nice with, because you were hesitating. If she's a regular girl, you might as well give it a shot and snap her.
/r/seduction02/01/20 05:34 PM
3

Lmao fun sized. I'll keep that one.
/r/seduction02/01/20 05:27 PM
5

If she got mad for that it's either because she's a weirdo (higher probability with tinder girls) or because you were generally annoying before that point.
/r/seduction02/01/20 05:27 PM
4

Pick Max's if you have crippling insecurities. Pick Todd's if you're in the right place to actually get results from textbook coaching.
/r/seduction02/01/20 05:26 PM
7

You can be chill and start with a drink, then a hookup, then two, then you see where it goes. Geez, you think about serious relationships so early man. Maybe those girls are just looking for a quick fling too.
/r/seduction02/01/20 05:24 PM
2

All signs point to that yes
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:17 PM
2

You're gonna get somewhere even if you practice bad stuff. The way brain works, if you keep doing something that doesn't work, your brain will adapt and push you to try different things until it works. Always better to write field reports but yeah. So go out man.
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:16 PM
2

Have her do 50% of the talking, stop trying to make her laugh and look at her in the eyes and you'll multiply your monthly lay rate by 4
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:14 PM
1

Experience knows. But do your thing man
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:12 PM
1

I realize this may sound surface level - but it is the truth, I think a lot of men feel this way! Aka a lot of people are lame so I guess it's OK to be lame as well. You do realize that caring about that comes from your insecurities right? I'd date a pornstar everyday if I got the chance to, be it only because she's good at sex.
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:09 PM
1

Get more girls
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:07 PM
2

"me this girl from Facebook" "spent 7 hours talking, next time she came with booze" Man, she wanted a hookup and that's what she got. She didn't want more from you.
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:03 PM
1

Yeah well, that's being passionate about something.
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:02 PM
1

Yes it's a lot about right person at the right time. It's also about being able to turn the wrong person/wrong time thing around. Or to play around it. Of course to someone who's going blindly into dating, it's all about luck. But as you go on in life you will understand that the concept of luck can be controlled to some extent. Edit : top comment said it better.
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:56 PM
1

What the fuck lol
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:53 PM
3

1- non needy guy 2- needy guy /thread
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:04 AM
1

Not since I was 7 😳
/r/seduction31/12/19 09:40 AM
2

Wouldn’t that be when the conversation is over? It's not because you have to leave that you're leaving right now. 5-15 minutes. What if she doesn’t want to leave with me then. At what point is it too long to continue talking to the her after realizing I’m not getting anywhere? Only girls who will sleep with you in a such short amount of time are horny girls and low self esteem girls. I'm talking about the kind that's gonna pee leaving the door open after you guys have sex. If she doesn't wanna l…
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:58 PM
1

Too bad, because that's what you aren't doing and that you should be doing
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:54 PM
3

It's not too alpha. It's too what she wasn't looking for. If someone give you free strawberry ice cream but you like chocolate ice cream, you still eat it. You don't buy more.
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:53 PM
0

What you see is not all there is. How about tension, how about a girl's investment, how about EC, how about affirmative tonality, how about physically leading, how about engaging convo, how about reading her pattern, etc. All those beat physical attraction. If your handsome friends doesn't have em and you do, you win. If you both have it, he wins. And time for you to hit the gym more.
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:50 PM
1

It can work, it's also extremely low value. But some girls are just horny so, yeah
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:43 AM
1

You don't wait until the convo is over to go for the number. It's bad and shows your agenda to the girl, as well as showing you can't handle a normal conversation. You should only take the number when either one of you has to leave BTW. If you can stay around the girl now, why do you want to get her number to set up another day date while she's here right now? Lol. If the conversation dies you have a few things to do : engage her, tease her or lead her somewhere else.
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:41 AM
2

Do it again, and again, until it's natural to you. Force yourself, if that's what you want you go for it.
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:38 AM
1

Don't talk about yourself unless someone asks you first. Then you say the bare strict minimum to answer their question or to banter on it.
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:33 AM
2

That's not confidence that you have, it's ego. Get rejected 100 times and come back with actual confidence and no ego :)
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:31 AM
1

Become less shy Tslk about whatever you want Touch her
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:29 AM
2

Just check his Instagram lol. Some angry sjw edited wikipedia
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:29 AM
6

Happens all the time. You gave a ONS vibe, she went with it and saw you as such, nothing more.
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:27 AM
1

I'll just lay it there : If you don't understand why looks don't matter, it's probably because you don't have game. I'm not trying to prove a point. I'd love to have you understand and improve but you don't have the right mindset for it now.
/r/seduction30/12/19 06:27 AM
2

Reinforcing bad behavior that feels good but doesn't work isn't help. Someone has to say it. I'll enjoy the donwvotes 😏
/r/seduction30/12/19 06:13 AM
0

the funny friend works harder for less consistent and adequate results. Most of the time, being the funny guy is everything but the right thing to do to seduce girls. So why don’t looks matter? Is it after certain conditions are met that looks don’t matter? Looks don't matter if you have game. Looks get you 30seconds more off the approach. That is if you approach quality girls. Farm girls won't care about game because they have too much issues to handle a guy with game, and no one here wants to …
/r/seduction29/12/19 10:41 PM
1

You can practice social situations. Kinda pointless to tell a girl that you like her if you dont
/r/seduction29/12/19 10:25 PM
3

Bro are you high m8
/r/seduction29/12/19 10:24 PM
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Some people will say you did great. I'm gonna drop it there, writing on a piece of paper to a girl that you like her is cool when you're 7, not 21.
/r/seduction29/12/19 10:23 PM
1

Pick your choice and tell us who was right. :d
/r/seduction29/12/19 10:20 PM
1

Don't spend more than a full day without texting. If she's shy she's gonna think you forgot her. Don't have to be a huge convo. If you're busy, send her a meme and maybe 2-3 follow up texts.
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:53 PM
1

Give me your number so we can go have a coffee together next time
/r/seduction29/12/19 03:39 PM
1

I let myself get attached and I'm fine with having to leave everything behind at any point, because i know I can build a life and relationships that I like at any point. That's the jedi way. Julien used to talk about that. Your life is a huge river and sometimes smaller streams of water join it, sometimes they leave, point is the river is still there going its way. Also, you're gonna die alone in the end anyways so, let go and enjoy while it lasts.
/r/seduction29/12/19 11:49 AM
1

Every guy I met who doesn't like clubs is lying and just doesn't feel comfortable picking up girls there because they don't know how to work the venue. Same for every venue.
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:28 AM
4

Reality is true for a girl as long as she stays in the same emotional state. A girl who loves you will say that she loves you forever, until her emotional state changes and she doesn't love you forever anymore. She meant it when she said it. Her reality was shaped by her emotional state.
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:25 AM
2

High quality girls are less phased by looks, they only date hot guys anyways. Improve your status, social circle, etc. Now about outer game, don't do direct stuff, open them and engage them, tease them and be subtle. You have to learn how to get them to invest and chase a bit.
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:24 AM
2

Social momentum
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:21 AM
1

Because of this, my strategy in the past would be mostly just to avoid people who insult me and not really fight back — because usually, I don’t care. Avoidance strategy, coping by being nice, afraid to be mean and conflict, sensitive ego, low self-respect, overall weakness. Wrap your head however you want around it, but a man who respects himself takes shit from no-one and will hold the pressure, call them out on being a bad person and play the sparring words game. Loose it sometimes and get to…
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:18 AM
1

Approach girls until girl smile back at you. Talk to her and touch her until sex happens. This is the craziest night of the year, sex in club's toilet has a 237% increased chance to happen on that night
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:04 AM
3

And vagene
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:03 AM
1

You don't overcome it.take action and momentum makes you forget about it. It resets when you get home.
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:02 AM
1

Take risks without caring about the outcome. Mindset is trying to get a positive answer as in "haha, I knew you liked me", not as in "so if you like me let's fuck"
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:01 AM
1

This is the way
/r/seduction29/12/19 07:57 AM
2

By the way you asked the number I get the feeling that even though you tried to get rejected, you still did it while trying to protect your ego from being rejected while showing interest in someone. So. I think you even failed at being rejected man.
/r/seduction29/12/19 07:56 AM
1

There are different degrees of "being interested". Also, some people value other things over potential relationships. Some people don't like texting also. So why do you care, if they wanna see you, just meet them.
/r/seduction29/12/19 07:54 AM
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This is definitely due to your lack of experience. Be pushy for a while, you have to experience the other end of the spectrum to calibrate better. Now, if you don't like to take the risk to be rejected, well, you'll never get better with girls.
/r/seduction29/12/19 07:53 AM
2

This guy is a fraud with no game. Have you ever met anyone with game? They look nothing like him. To get laid you don't get numbers at night. You approach girls and build social circle on the go, then find a girl who likes you, then stick with her until it's time to go home. Wth with this concept of you go out and take one million numbers, do you sleep with the numbers in your phone at the end of the night?
/r/seduction29/12/19 07:19 AM
4

You don't say anything smh You wait for her to go to the toilet, quickly take off your clothes and prepare the naked man™ pose
/r/seduction28/12/19 03:03 PM
2

Lmao
/r/seduction28/12/19 03:02 PM
0

So many people here talking about game and looks while they don't have either of those.
/r/seduction26/12/19 10:53 AM
2

Thanks for the compliment kind stranger. I'm no PUA. Drinks is always a good option if you're afraid to lose your time on a potentially pointless date.
/r/seduction26/12/19 10:37 AM
1

Wat I look for the hot girls to follow me and invest in the convo
/r/seduction26/12/19 07:19 AM
2

Here's your mistake. You shouldn't care whether or not they are interested in what you have to say. You should just say it because you feel like saying it, and look at them with disdain and turn around if they don't see the value of what you say. Your favorite PUAs call that "breaking rapport". That's a very attractive behavior.
/r/seduction26/12/19 05:55 AM
1

If you're not spending 80% of your time in set, you're doing it wrong. No matter what the other comments say, if you're on this sub it's because you want to get better with women. If you keep to yourself and don't approach all night, then why do you even bother. Here's how you start : approach the first group you see and talk to them. Maybe they invite you to their table and offer you drinks. Maybe they are in a bad mood or aren't sociable people and won't answer to you. Keep having your own fun…
/r/seduction26/12/19 05:53 AM
1

Small talk and then close those who come often and like you
/r/seduction24/12/19 01:11 PM
3

Anything where you guys can talk and touch each others
/r/seduction23/12/19 06:05 AM
2

You don't get girlfriends by being friends first. Keep disregarding advice if you want, but what the other guy said is right.
/r/seduction23/12/19 06:04 AM
1

I once met a guy who said win the parents over firdt. Tbh that's too heavy for me, I don't wanna meet her parents right off the bat.
/r/seduction23/12/19 06:02 AM
1

Yes. Be careful, stop talking to strangers.
/r/seduction23/12/19 06:00 AM
1

Just go down the street and cold approach. Why the f would you go over that much trouble, two months texting with a chick that lives extra far away.
/r/seduction22/12/19 06:36 PM
9

If you wonder whether she likes you, she probably doesn't
/r/seduction22/12/19 06:35 PM
23

How the hell did you include pictures in the body of your post. Other than that, you're right on every point.
/r/seduction22/12/19 06:35 PM
4

That girl is gonna wonder wtf she did wrong and will probably develop eating disorder. Pls do her a favor and make a move Edit : just saw you're 15, disregard my comment, there should be an age limit on this sub.
/r/seduction22/12/19 06:32 PM
0

This is the worst way to meet girls ever. Just download tinder and you'll get a better shot at getting dates
/r/seduction22/12/19 06:28 PM
1

Say anything that comes to mind related to what you see or what they just said /thread
/r/seduction22/12/19 06:27 PM
3

Can't prevent them from being fat and heinous I'm so getting banned lol
/r/seduction22/12/19 06:24 PM
1

Dude there's only one truth : what works. Now be smart and know that pick up material, even if it makes full sense to anyone when explained for more than 3 seconds, had such bad rep that you'd be better never ever mentioning it. Unless you're looking for wing. Kind of like BDSM now that I think about it.
/r/seduction22/12/19 06:04 PM
4

Ahh, beautiful isn't it, when somebody's paradigm is shifting. When they have seen the truth and cannot unsee it. Let's be practical for a second : follow the feelings and thoughts that are helpful, let go of the rest.
/r/seduction22/12/19 05:59 PM
15

Basically any place where there are a lot of people. If you see people, there's a 50% chance this person is a female.
/r/seduction22/12/19 05:56 PM
1

Younger people are bad at socializing. Works for girls too. How do you react when put in an uncomfortable social situation?
/r/seduction22/12/19 05:55 PM
2

You acknowledge them but don't talk unless they come in between you and the girl, keep control of the interaction
/r/seduction21/12/19 02:36 PM
2

You focus on her by.. Talking to her
/r/seduction21/12/19 05:30 AM
2

You should become comfortable winging it
/r/seduction21/12/19 05:29 AM
1

You are so right my man, let's preach the good words
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:46 PM
1

By being honest yes you're shooting yourself in the foot but man, that's the thing with honesty, not everyone is gonna like the truth. Still better than being hated for being a manipulative liar. Now then, you can still turn it around with good game.
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:31 PM
3

Force yourself to stay in set until sex happens or she tells you to fuck off This is an ego issue if you can't stay in sets
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:29 PM
1

Find wings in your city and build your own network. Anything from the internet is gonna be trash quality or people will ask for you to pay for their (often very good) services.
/r/seduction20/12/19 09:30 AM
1

I live in the desert. There are no people around. I don't want to get out of my house. Pls how to meet people
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:04 AM
22

You chase when you run after something that's running away from you.
/r/seduction20/12/19 05:05 AM
1

Seems like you need someone to show you. Seems like you tried to think about it but really can't find the solution. I wish I can help you man but considering your post I think you're doing something really wrong but I can't figure out what. There seem to be this one thing that if you changed it would make your game better. Text game isn't that hard, if girls are blocking you it's because you're doing something very wrong. I'd need to see to give more details. So. I'll leave it at that because th…
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:16 AM
2

Engage the whole group but focus on the girl you like. They hate you either because you creeped off the girl or because you didn't bother saying hi to them
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:11 AM
1

Experience
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:09 AM
1

Chad gets rejected more than you Because Chad approaches 9999times more than you
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:09 AM
1

"Thank you" and then continue as if she never said that
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:05 AM
1

To complete what the other guy said. Qualifying means two things, you can qualify yourself (which you should never ever do in any situation) or qualify the girl. Let's talk about qualifying the girl. Two ways, you qualify her directly or you make her qualify herself. Qualify her directly : if she's insecure/shy or as a reward when she shows investment in you. You basically just say something that shows you like her. Make her qualify herself : byproduct of disqualifying a girl, if you disqualify …
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:55 AM
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It's a game of chess if you don't know what you're doing and are generally needy. Successful guys don't have to think about chasing, because they are too busy doing something else. Successful guys don't chase because they recognize when they have done all they could with a girl who is simply not into them.
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:31 AM
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I'd not follow this advice tbh. You don't need to especially stand out on tinder, your profile matters more. If she wants to meet and she likes your profile she's gonna answer. Also, don't try to have conversations online.
/r/seduction20/12/19 02:42 AM
0

What a bad person you seem to be lol.
/r/seduction19/12/19 10:49 AM
1

Use silence to create tension. It's good and that's what most guys won't ever understand about seduction.
/r/seduction19/12/19 10:48 AM
1

Get more girls
/r/seduction19/12/19 10:47 AM
1

So in other words You're just putting words in other people's mouths. Have boundaries and be respectful. Peace.
/r/seduction19/12/19 10:45 AM
4

All the guys I met who have good game are also killing it in all other areas of their life. There's correlation
/r/seduction19/12/19 10:42 AM
1

Sarcasm and being dismissive is not good game. Playing hard to get is not good game, it's just stroking your ego. Being truly low investment and pro actively making the girl qualify is good game.
/r/seduction19/12/19 03:56 AM
1

Younger girls flake more, it's a fact. Used to be the bar entertainer dancing on tables, went back to being the laid back focused sniper. It works better and gets you better girls. Nice guy vibe is not related to how loud you are. You can have sex on first date if she's comfortable enough and your/her house is close enough. Not 30 yet. Depending on the period I'll meet 5 girls a week or 2 girls a month. You can make those numbers even more extreme, it's entirely up to you. That's great qualities…
/r/seduction19/12/19 03:52 AM
1

Lovers in a dangerous spacetime Don't let your gf drive the ship tho
/r/seduction19/12/19 03:41 AM
1

Lmao pls don't stop writing
/r/seduction19/12/19 03:40 AM
1

Dude if you approach women often this kind of reaction is gonna happen all the time.
/r/seduction19/12/19 03:34 AM
3

She said no to a very direct approach, it doesn't mean she doesn't like you or that the pick up is dead. It means that she is not ready yet with the informations you've given so far. You did great. Even if it's always slightly better to go indirect. Keep talking to her and try again if you got her number
/r/seduction19/12/19 03:23 AM
5

She feels like you're not honest and you tell her what she wants to hear too often, you sweet mouth And your behavior doesn't always match what you tell her
/r/seduction18/12/19 10:25 AM
4

Open every cute girl until there's one who seem to be happy about it Stay there and talk to her until it is time to go home Ask her to go home with you Repeat steps 1-3 until sex happens
/r/seduction18/12/19 10:24 AM
2

It's the fact of adapting your behavior to the person you're talking to with the goal to pursue the most effective communication while staying relevant to a certain degree to your own personality.
/r/seduction18/12/19 08:14 AM
1

Small talk is a skill just like playing tennis or whatever. Practice makes perfect, experience is confidence.
/r/seduction18/12/19 08:01 AM
3

Why do you try to have a conversation over text when you could meet and be having sex tomorrow already
/r/seduction18/12/19 08:00 AM
3

You're gonna be creepy if you do not feel the awkwardness of others. Trespassing limits is okay, as long as you're able to recognize it when the other person put boundaries and respect those boundaries.
/r/seduction18/12/19 07:59 AM
3

Mind-blowing news, some girls are just on tinder to get more Instagram followers. Message her on tinder and if she likes you she gonna answer there
/r/seduction18/12/19 07:58 AM
8

Idk who is this Dan guy is but I'm getting sexually attracted to his last name
/r/seduction18/12/19 07:56 AM
2

Being funny isn't seductive in itself. It actually lowers your value if it is used to discard the tension when you can't hold it.
/r/seduction18/12/19 05:03 AM
2

Edit : I made a full comment but I erased it. I've decided not to comment anymore on people complaining about their looks, because those people just post to vent and not to improve.
/r/seduction18/12/19 04:40 AM
1

Dance and then say whatever with the lowest investment possible. Then give her time to invest. "what's your name" after grinding a while is ok
/r/seduction18/12/19 04:34 AM
3

Sounds like you're young and needy Find your own path and then in a few years find a monogamous gf again if you want to
/r/seduction18/12/19 04:30 AM
2

If you wait too long it's gonna kill any interest. It communicates that you're not interested and half aasing your attempt at connecting with her. No one wants to date someone who is only half sure that they like you That being said, send a funny meme, and then "long time no talk, I've been very busy, how u doing"
/r/seduction18/12/19 04:15 AM
1

Too much Hey I saw you and I thought you're cute Pause So I came to say hi Pause Statement if empathy (if needed) Pause Fluff What matters is how she reacts when you pause. It's what tells you what to do next
/r/seduction18/12/19 04:13 AM
1

Well why don't you make another move
/r/seduction18/12/19 04:11 AM
1

If you're needy it's bad, if you're not needy it's okay. In any case, it's not necessary or unnecessary. Is my comment useful? :-)
/r/seduction17/12/19 05:09 PM
1

Having experience and successes over time makes you less sensitive to that one odd person that will say "fuck you" as an answer to your "hi". Of course if you get 100% rejections without trying anything new or changing your course of action youre doing it wrong. What's the definition of insanity again? Also, life goes in waves. Sometimes it's all good, sometimes it's all bad, sometimes it's a mix of both. But the tides always turn, unless you keep bashing your head against the wall trying to bre…
/r/seduction17/12/19 05:06 PM
1

Youtube, all is there for free. Also, check the link in my reddit profile
/r/seduction17/12/19 05:02 PM
1

That's the last paragraph of my previous comment
/r/seduction17/12/19 05:01 PM
2

Don't try to have a conversation on dating apps, rather try to find out whether or not she's actually looking to meet guys
/r/seduction17/12/19 03:54 PM
1

Malls, nightclubs
/r/seduction17/12/19 03:53 PM
165

Wdym by garbage personality. We're all special snowflakes here.
/r/seduction17/12/19 02:05 PM
1

If you get rejected within 20 seconds it's because you fucked up hard or she isn't looking to meet guys. Look into option 1
/r/seduction17/12/19 02:01 PM
1

You can be engaging without talking for most of the convo. Actually that's what you should do most of the time.
/r/seduction17/12/19 02:00 PM
1

She might be asking for attention and that will continue because you seem to let her do it. If you like her you make a move, if you don't you ignore it completely
/r/seduction17/12/19 12:46 PM
2

Every time she asks for something have her say "please daddy"
/r/seduction17/12/19 12:44 PM
1

Yes also
/r/seduction17/12/19 12:41 PM
6

Most guys here will tell you that it sucks because they don't know how to flirt there. You came to a biased place.
/r/seduction17/12/19 10:59 AM
2

Have girls talk about themselves while still escalating
/r/seduction17/12/19 10:57 AM
13

Get over her
/r/seduction17/12/19 10:57 AM
1

Yeah you confirmed pretty much what I just said
/r/seduction16/12/19 10:19 AM
1

Why not use both bruh
/r/seduction16/12/19 10:18 AM
1

Have them qualify/invest Deep conversations about herself Boom
/r/seduction16/12/19 10:17 AM
1

Feels like a constant psychotherapy session. With sex.
/r/seduction16/12/19 10:15 AM
1

Homie
/r/seduction16/12/19 10:14 AM
2

Whatever we'd say, with that mindset you'd deny it anyways.
/r/seduction16/12/19 10:13 AM
1

Because most girls receive messages from guys that are straight up asking for sex, no hello no nothing. Put yourself in their shoes for a second
/r/seduction16/12/19 10:09 AM
2

Tension + non-needy + Nice grooming
/r/seduction16/12/19 09:55 AM
1

Yee
/r/seduction16/12/19 08:59 AM
1

Oh you really think so?
/r/seduction16/12/19 08:58 AM
0

Why do you care, it's an obviously old video, his game is better now and he helps thousands of people. You guys don't have anything better to do?
/r/seduction16/12/19 08:57 AM
0

Whatever you say doesn't matter. Read the second layer of a conversation.
/r/seduction16/12/19 03:18 AM
2

So what, if I just read models once I'm not allowed to participate? Outrageous
/r/seduction16/12/19 02:13 AM
2

If you don't have the money to get in, then it's not a place for you yet
/r/seduction16/12/19 02:04 AM
1

Yes real world is a more effective way to meet girls
/r/seduction16/12/19 02:02 AM
2

It's okay. OP said he has been going to clubs for two years looking to meet girls. You do you.
/r/seduction16/12/19 01:57 AM
1

Oy, I'm just a man with a limited emotional capability. Can't use that many fancy words.
/r/seduction16/12/19 01:55 AM
2

Lower quality girls have issues that they didn't fix/ don't want to work on, which makes it hard to meet strangers like a normal person. Makes them dismissive, needy, bitchy, you name it.
/r/seduction16/12/19 01:54 AM
1

That might blow your mind but once you get a nice profile matches are flowing. Some people don't have the time to text one hundred girls, especially when on a business trip.
/r/seduction16/12/19 01:50 AM
12

You don't go to nightclubs to have conversations. You don't need conversations to seduce girls.
/r/seduction15/12/19 03:46 PM
39

That might blow your mind but hot club girls are often easier to talk to than your local pub Stacy who's a 6 and gets wasted every Saturday. Once you get past the impressive looks.
/r/seduction15/12/19 03:44 PM
1

Yeah man it ain't easy. That being said, it's workable. It's like anything, investing even a small effort puts you ahead of 80% of the competition.
/r/seduction15/12/19 03:42 PM
2

I had to handle one of my clients tinder who was actually traveling there. Demn random tinder girls all be tall blonde models
/r/seduction15/12/19 03:39 PM
2

Accept reality, stop caring and find abundance somewhere else. Like daygame or nightgame. I really believe that even if you're in periods of scarcity, having tasted abundance and knowing you can get back to it is a good way to emulate the actual abundance.
/r/seduction15/12/19 03:38 PM
75

Well there isn't much difference between you and those studs
/r/seduction15/12/19 03:35 PM
1

She wanted the D and you didn't give it to her and so she went to have sex with someone else. No big deal
/r/seduction15/12/19 02:02 PM
18

This is the same for everyone. We all get rejected wayyy more than we get laid
/r/seduction15/12/19 12:16 PM
5

I will never spam approach. I just don't see it as a very efficient way of meeting women and continual rejection isn't a good way to build social momentum Wrong and outcome dependant. Some guys who apply the spam approach in my city (500k population) quickly developed bad reputations Relevant if you care about what people who judge without knowing think. Also you can spam approach and not fuck up, which doesn't seem to be the case of those guys. I think it's much more effective to work on my vis…
/r/seduction15/12/19 12:11 PM
136

Trashy nightclubs suck. Expensive exclusive nightclubs are good. It comes down to the people. Also pls tell me you didn't just get one kiss in two years of going to clubs
/r/seduction15/12/19 11:27 AM
1

This is wrong on so many levels. Women like to feel secure within a muscly man's arms yes. Women chase after a neg to get validation, they get it from you because you're there doing the neg. They don't like it to be put down, if that's the way you flirt you're gonna get slapped
/r/seduction15/12/19 11:18 AM
3

Dude for real be passive long enough and you'll get so pissed watching girls go away or getting stolen by other guys that you'll end up taking action anyways
/r/seduction15/12/19 11:15 AM
2

Is it better with a friend? If they are 2 yes, if they are 3 no, if they are more yes.
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:17 AM
2

Yeah man
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:17 AM
4

This is not about rejection man, this is about you being weird and weirding people out. It will continue happening until you fix that. Rejection and people feeling awkward is a consequence, not the cause.
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:05 AM
29

Hey do you play league of legends
/r/seduction15/12/19 08:50 AM
2

Google is your friend, there are tons of resources explaining it better than I can on a reddit comment
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:19 AM
2

"he dies at the end"
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:14 AM
1

You get ghosted because you talk to girls who don't wanna meet. Period. Sucks that you only realize after such a longtime of chatting. I usually push the idea of a date within the first 5 messages and B O O M no more pointless talking with girls who don't wanna meet. They either say "great" or ghost me.
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:10 AM
1

I find it hard not to troll her if she says such a thing. Do you really wanna date such an insecure chick? I mean if you really like her and you're into polyamorous relationships you can explain her the way you view things but ultimately one of you will have to drop his frame.
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:08 AM
2

You do what you want with your hand and see what happens. There is no "bad" move. There are just moves that she will accept and moves that she won't. If she doesn't accept you making a move that makes the interaction more intimate, it means she just wanted to dance and no more. But most of the time girls just wanna dance if she comes to you first.
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:06 AM
1

My thoughts on this is that everyone has social anxiety, and others still act while you don't. They are only better than you because they take action anyways. They still get hurt when rejected, they are still afraid of having no friend, but they deal with it. The only difference between you and them is that they take action.
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:03 AM
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30 girls is what you should approach in one week I want to envision a life where I have a few solid friends I want to hang out with and a girl I’m very into That's not a really healthy or sustainable way of having a social life. In any case, start talking to people man, don't just sit in your dorm.
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:01 AM
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There is a detailed answer for you man, but it can be for one million reason that you don't get laid from the club. So instead, next time you go out you do this : Approach at least 15 groups on girls a night and stay around and talk to them until they run away or tell you to fuck off.
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:56 AM
0

Find a wingman to push you
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:55 AM
1

Imagine you both having sex when you look at her. Touch her more.
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:54 AM
4

You're 20 years too late for those books PU is not dead tho
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:53 AM
2

Yeah bruh
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:52 AM
5

People only have the power you give them Also, if everyone likes someone, and there's a bunch of people following them, it's probably because they are giving to the group what the group wants. Why do you think those kinds of people are full of shit and disrespectful?
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:51 AM
3

Wdym it's not exactly a date lol Be a man and assume what's going on. How to get laid on first dates : have her qualify and kino escalationm
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:48 AM
1

Yes. Always move forward and screen those who don't wanna go out.
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:46 AM
1

I personally don't like it, it's kinda flirty but it's also terribly not moving anything forward. If standard get-to-know conversion was level 1, the example you show would be level 2, same thing but with a bit of flirt. She likes you a bit, but who cares. You want to know if she's gonna meet, right? Not whether she likes you. To your convo I'd answer "whoa, that sounds like adventure. We should go on a date"
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:46 AM
1

The mods don't allow me to post link to my business, it's against the rules of this sub apparently. Click on my profile, there's a link in my bio
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:38 AM
1

I usually wait until I've been obviously rejected twice
/r/seduction14/12/19 08:58 AM
2

Overcome your insecurities
/r/seduction14/12/19 08:57 AM
1

No one wonders shit because we all know the difference between street pickup and harassment/catcalling
/r/seduction14/12/19 08:30 AM
3

Ask open ended questions
/r/seduction14/12/19 08:26 AM
1

You don't need a transition, you just need her to be ready.
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:41 AM
2

Have good quality pictures that communicate that you're an interesting person that people like to hang out with
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:41 AM
1

Touch her, be the center of attention by being obnoxious
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:40 AM
1

You don't, they are insecure enough
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:20 AM
1

You don't get sex out of tinder Most girls aren't dtf. If she's dtf, you break rapport and she'll try to gain rapport by sexually teasing. On tinder you 95% of the time just find out whether she wants to go on a date with you or not. Which 75% of the time will be a not. So 5% of 25% of the girls your match with will be looking for sex with you tonight. Nice. Given you don't fuck up your text game
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:17 AM
1

Yes But you don't need it. And if you're having a bad night while wearing a pink jacket and a top hat, you'll be the biggest creep in the club.
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:12 AM
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Have her invest in your life. Share your life goals. Have experiences with her, try new things, make memories happen. Hold the tension, boss her around and have her call you daddy. Have being in a relationship with you making her life better. Are you encouraging her to improve and go to gym? Are you introducing the right people to her? Are you her sugar daddy? Etc
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:10 AM
1

My go to is "hey doll" But bro. If you profile is nice she will answer. If your profile sucks she won't. Whatever you say is irrelevant as long as it's not too weird/creepy/needy
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:08 AM
1

Show the best version of yourself It ain't about changing yourself. Modifying your behavior won't make you another person. Don't just be lazy and stop finding excuse to not improve.
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:06 AM
6

Here's how I feel about it Noobs will double text and it will look bad Intermediate will never double text because hurr gotta be an alpha chad Advanced guys will double text the hottest girls and maybe eventually get a positive outcome out of it in some cases
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:04 AM
1

Don't do serious talk Be fun and light and flirty Find out quickly whether or not she wants to meet offline
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:01 AM
2

Good post, thanks for blogging about that.
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:56 AM
1

Everytime I did direct game at the gym it was a h ge embarrassment for everyone involved lol. Go indirect and see how she reacts. Then act accordingly
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:56 AM
1

We don't try man, we're gonna go and talk to that girl instead of you. And you will watch us giggle together from a distance, and you will watch as she puts her number in some other guy's phone. In life, you get what you can take. Or someone else will.
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:50 AM
1

It depends where you coming from man. It's more of a threshold that you have to go over in term of game skills.
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:49 AM
1

Didn't read whole post but Have them meet in an innocent friendly setting and see if they like each others. And separately find out what's their opinion on threesomes. They have to want it. Rather, you have to make it seem like a cool thing that they would enjoy.
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:48 AM
2

So yesterday you learned a few things : Approaching by talking in a loud club doesn't work Engaging the whole group without talking is impossible You cannot approach from the front people that are dancing in a circle It's hard to have girls make eye contact with you in a club. What to get out of that : Don't try to talk much if she can't hear you Don't engage the whole group if the music is too loud to do so Approach from the side or find ways to get her attention Force eye contact by staring or…
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:45 AM
1

Ask her out before friendzone
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:39 AM
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When I started laying back and letting girls invest When I understood that you have to cold approach even if she didn't look at you or see you When I started pausing 3 seconds between my sentences to let the girl talk When I learned how to make others talk about themselves
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:37 AM
1

Paragraphs Punctuation Tldr
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:35 AM
1

Me. Check my page and the reviews I got.
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:32 AM
2

Meanwhile, I'm sitting here with my 800+ matches.
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:29 AM
1

Yeah man so you actually don't know about it. Don't word it in ways that make you feel good. This is step one. Then go out and actually practice. Step two. I'm not commenting that to be a smart-ass, I say that because it's gonna help you.
/r/seduction13/12/19 10:58 AM
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If you're terrible at executing them, you don't actually know them
/r/seduction12/12/19 02:58 AM
2

There are thousands of YouTube videos answering that specific question
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:04 AM
2

Don't ever double message a girl
/r/seduction11/12/19 06:59 AM
3

Best places to practice pick up are clubs for night game and malls for daygame. Period. If it's not his thing, it's because of the lack of experience, so you guys should force yourselves.
/r/seduction11/12/19 05:45 AM
1

Do you think your ancestors watching you from heaven would be proud after reading that comment. Just try to make a move and see how she reacts man.
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:45 PM
1

Be known by influential people yes
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:42 PM
2

What's wrong with a quick hookup yo
/r/seduction10/12/19 07:44 AM
1

No
/r/seduction10/12/19 07:42 AM
0

Why don't you learn about polyamory before coming here to judge people. Read "More than two", it's a great book.
/r/seduction10/12/19 06:54 AM
1

Thinking that way is wrong on so many levels. And im getting down voted so whatever lol. I guess people here don't go out. Kissing the girl breaks tension and lower your chances of having sex with her. Thinking that she will stick to you because you kissed her is very needy and is a leveling behavior that will lower your chances of sex and the quality of girls you can get.
/r/seduction10/12/19 06:44 AM
1

Status is all about who knows you
/r/seduction09/12/19 03:24 PM
1

Great comment man
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:24 AM
4

Go on a date with a few girls and see how annoying, needy, attention seeking, not good at sex, passive, basic and non-ambitious the average girl is and you'll get so annoyed that you will either go back to play video games instead of dating or learn pickup hard and actually meet interesting girls.
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:18 AM
1

The only actual way to sort out those who actually wanna date is to Escalate the interaction and push for a date. Groundbreaking idea, I know.
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:14 AM
1

Can you explain or give some context? Lol
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:13 AM
1

Okay man here's the thing. A lot of what other people said in the comments is thrash, or weird at best. Attractive girls stare back at you because you're staring at them and they can handle the pressure. Most people cannot handle the pressure of staring at strangers. Now they can be looking at you for one million reasons. One of them being that they find you attractive. Another one might be because you've got pimples on your face. Point is you've got their attention. What gets people attention a…
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:12 AM
1

Aww Well guess what. It's gonna happen at least once. But it's okay, heart breaks happen. Read that book called "more than two"
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:03 AM
1

Do you think learning pickup is an entertainment If you want to see some go find wings or make greatness happen for yourself
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:00 AM
1

You legit can live anywhere in the world man. I have been living in 8sq meters hotel rooms while traveling and still got laid a lot. There are solutions out there, you don't seem willing to go for it and instead ask us "how can I get everything at once, right here, right now"
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:53 AM
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Isolate (calibrate socially okay, don't ask to go for a smoke if she's dancing crazy with her friends). Deep dive and create comfort while holding sexual tension. And stop kissing in clubs, it kills sexual tension.
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:51 AM
2

Take your fedora off Talk to them as you'd talk to a dude
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:49 AM
1

Drop your ego and do anything you find funny that doesn't get you homeless / thrown in jail. Sometimes I wonder what my parents would think of me when I'm telling girls that they should drink the milk from my huge man boobs. And then they laughs and we have sex. So relax man.
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:47 AM
2

Best way to spot caring about being rejected is... To get rejected. Understand logically that everytime you're learning something new you're gonna suck at the beginning. And it's okay.
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:45 AM
1

Tldr Go out and approach girls bruh
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:44 AM
1

That's a bunch of words that you'd throw at a stranger without them having room to breathe. I'd start with something short, gauge their reaction, then go into my sales speech. "hey, are you guys from here?" Whatever they say "ahh, because im organizing a party and we're looking for a place to go after" You shouldn't even need to ask "do you know any place?" But that's an awfully platonic opener imo, your BL better be on point.
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:41 AM
2

Ooooh look at him he's being vulnerable, quick, make him watch a Rambo movie
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:38 AM
2

I'm never reading through all that but the title made me smile, have my upvote
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:37 AM
1

Malls
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:36 AM
2

Send random pictures of cats, everytime you see one on the street. Nothing else. Until she engages you.
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:35 AM
7

Hello. I'm coaching guys with online dating, maybe I can help. Most girls are not on dating apps to meet guys (Tinder made a poll a few years ago). By most I mean something like 75%, which is insanely high. A bit off topic, understanding this number you can guess that Tinder's interest is not to have people meet, but rather to keep girls entertained and on the app. So that guys can entertain them and pay for more features in the hope of getting laid. Now if you want to improve your Tinder text g…
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:33 AM
3

Meet other girls bruh
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:28 AM
3

You should write an article for any boring-ass mainstream AF magazine
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:26 AM
1

"I like your blue lenses it's kinda hot haha "
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:09 AM
4

You're giggling and you don't hold the tension
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:00 PM
2

The more I approach the more authentic it gets for me tbh. Less filter, more momentum.
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:00 PM
6

Seduce her dad. Sleep with him. Seduce her mother. Sleep with both. Then ask them to introduce you to her.
/r/seduction08/12/19 12:31 PM
1

It's probably bcz your pics are bad or your convos are too pushy/boring
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:31 AM
1

Ask questions about herself
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:30 AM
1

People told you what to do countless times, but every time you don't hear what you want to hear you get angry. Your mindset is bad and you don't wanna change a thing, so yeah. Others get laid and you don't.
/r/seduction08/12/19 07:58 AM
2

Start conversation, after social hook sit down. If no social hook after a while, ask if you may sit with them.
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:17 AM
1

3 texts à day is okay. Depends how long between dates
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:17 AM
1

Approach more
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:16 AM
1

Let her know and then wonder whether she can get you
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:15 AM
1

Yeah most girls are jealous of them lol
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:14 AM
2

You can change your mindset by taking the right action. Building the initial results will give you the necessary momentum. I'd say start by getting a job, even McDonald's part time. At the same time start approaching people. Tinder is horrible for most guys because most people don't know how to use it correctly. As always, doing the right thing gets you the right result. Also, if you want something more serious, I do give coaching. Get in touch with me through PM.
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:13 AM
4

The more you approach the easier it gets. And it resets every time you go back home. Kinda
/r/seduction07/12/19 05:10 PM
2

Educated Asian girls don't fall for white guys with no game. On the other hand, if you want a farm girl who barely speaks English, yes they will worship you. But is that what you really want.
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:46 PM
2

Did it. Still doing it I guess. It's freaking dire and ratchet most of the time. Sometimes living off the girls you date a bit when they are rich and find you extra exotic and invite you over. Living in sometimes bad places, sometimes nice places. A lot of English teaching and other miscellaneous temporary jobs. And a fuck ton of stress and visa paperwork. It started with me saving a whole summer, cleaning hotel rooms when I was way younger. Then with that I got into a foreign student program to…
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:44 PM
1

If you're lost in your life and don't have access to YouTube I guess those books are okay. Now you're here on seddit so we're just gonna tell you to go approach girls in real life.
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:40 PM
7

It's about momentum man. The hardest approach is always the one you just did.
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:39 PM
2

Drink if you don't care about getting good at pick up and have fun. Don't drink if you're learning this seriously
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:38 PM
2

Alright man. Best of luck with that.
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:21 PM
3

Because you're 30 and unemployed man. Economy these days is not an issue. If there's no work where you are, move out. If you have no skills, learn one.
/r/seduction07/12/19 02:47 PM
1

It's sinking because you let it sink. You making it boring. You got her number, send her silly shit and tease her. When she invests or qualify to you, you ask her out.
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:35 AM
1

You might be too friendly. Do you think she has any kind of tension when talking to you?
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:33 AM
4

Start by getting your life in order before dragging somebody else in that place where no one wants to be. Get a job, move out. I'm being harsh man, but you're 30 living in your parents house. You might die tomorrow while crossing the road. So get your fingers out of your ass and start doing things. It will also make meeting girls insanely easier.
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:31 AM
1

If that's a party with 10 girls total good luck going direct.
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:28 AM
3

Yeah that's like low beginner level advice Have a normal chat, it's a party and there's alcohol, she knows why you're there
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:27 AM
2

Open girl with anything If she smiles, keep talking, have her talk by asking things about her. Spend time with her, do fun things with her. After a while, find ways to get her to follow you in a place where sex can happen ???? Profit
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:25 AM
3

Forget about romantic movies. Go hit the malls and start talking with pretty girls with the mindset of finding out whether or not you like their personality
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:23 AM
7

Why do you assume so hard that you know me lol We're not all alike OP
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:21 AM
1

Dude you did not even open her how do you know she shows no interest
/r/seduction06/12/19 06:30 AM
0

Nice
/r/seduction06/12/19 06:24 AM
1

Yeah but the amount would be insignificantly low. Maybe like 10%. You rly don't need much effort to get girls out of tinder if she's also looking for that.
/r/seduction06/12/19 04:43 AM
2

Yeah man. I've got the lines, if you've got the brain we can make great things
/r/seduction06/12/19 04:42 AM
1

Tbh there are 4-5 answers that come up as answers to 90% of my interactions. That's a small margin of error that can be ignored. So once again if someone can code, pm me
/r/seduction06/12/19 03:58 AM
1

Move the conversation towards sex, ask them things about their preferences
/r/seduction05/12/19 12:50 PM
1

Hello, I'm coaching guys, how may I help you
/r/seduction05/12/19 12:48 PM
74

If you don't wanna swipe you just get tinder gold If you don't wanna write you pre write set messages and you push the right button at the right time If you really are dedicated to this you emulate tinder on a computer and create a bot with a macro executable that will send messages to every girl automatically one by one. If you're a nerd you can also code a program that'd be able to read the girls' answer and respond accordingly since game is not about what you say but how you say. If you know …
/r/seduction05/12/19 12:47 PM
17

Macros Bots
/r/seduction05/12/19 12:29 PM
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Nothing new under the sunnNNN Automate and screen hard, it makes you waste less time
/r/seduction05/12/19 11:45 AM
1

Break rapport
/r/seduction04/12/19 03:55 AM
4

Yeah man sounds like u butt hurt a bit
/r/seduction04/12/19 03:55 AM
1

Sounds like your ego is preventing you from growing man. Because if you approach girls and think back on it, you should be able to see what went wrong, and improve over time.
/r/seduction03/12/19 12:21 PM
1

Basic push pull
/r/seduction03/12/19 12:16 PM
1

I get 70% to answer by saying "hey doll" and it takes me 2 seconds to type
/r/seduction03/12/19 12:15 PM
2

Disregard my previous comment, first story is about a guy having a crush on a prostitute, nothing interesting there
/r/seduction03/12/19 11:57 AM
1

I'm in bkk too, will give it a look
/r/seduction03/12/19 11:44 AM
2

I'd remove kiss close and just put close, but yeah man you got it Might want to redo it for Fclose purposes, this one lacks comfort
/r/seduction03/12/19 09:04 AM
1

Maybe go see a doctor not an internet forum
/r/seduction03/12/19 08:57 AM
1

Why do you feel bad about doing what works and what girls find attractive Why do you want reality to comform to your view of what is good and bad
/r/seduction03/12/19 08:55 AM
1

Post title
/r/seduction03/12/19 08:51 AM
1

Make it clear
/r/seduction02/12/19 10:36 AM
1

Yes man. Which means age doesn't matter
/r/seduction02/12/19 09:11 AM
1

The Law I mean the police
/r/seduction02/12/19 08:02 AM
2

Yes It's flirt
/r/seduction02/12/19 08:00 AM
1

Number asap then ask for date once she has invested a bit in you only Don't do boring small talk
/r/seduction01/12/19 12:39 PM
1

Being a virgin isn't a good excuse for not making a move
/r/seduction01/12/19 12:36 PM
2

Bruh.
/r/seduction01/12/19 12:35 PM
7

Just push mid and get towers after winning a teamfight
/r/seduction01/12/19 12:33 PM
1

Only the laws holding you bruh
/r/seduction01/12/19 12:29 PM
2

Basic push pull, she is gaming you and you're losing your shit. Say "OK lol you're too wild for me anyways"
/r/seduction01/12/19 12:25 PM
1

Why do you care Go and have a date
/r/seduction01/12/19 12:23 PM
2

You guys need to understand how to navigate through the inner layer of the interaction. Don't logically seduce her, go through the escalation process. The logical things that come out of your mouth just have to make enough sense for her to answer literally anything back.
/r/seduction01/12/19 12:18 PM
5

Nothing we say is gonna help tbh
/r/seduction01/12/19 12:14 PM
5

There's a solution but you don't want to hear it man.
/r/seduction01/12/19 09:29 AM
1

Knowing how to dress accordingly to the place Knowing how to do your hair properly Knowing how to chose fitting clothes U need a citation for that?
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:49 AM
0

I can feel your ego hurt and trying to feel better about itself It's okay man
/r/seduction30/11/19 06:32 AM
-1

You do know that the male brain is attracted to looks first right And female brain is attracted to other things Society and mainstream feminism got so hard to your head that you're now ashamed of what you're attracted or not attracted to. Also, being physically attractive is to some degree a sign of intelligence.
/r/seduction30/11/19 05:45 AM
0

Virgin thread, once again. GG op
/r/seduction29/11/19 07:07 AM
1

Bruh Girls love emoji 😹😉😁😁👌🤘
/r/seduction28/11/19 03:59 PM
2

Where the mods at
/r/seduction28/11/19 03:58 PM
1

Personal experience contradicts what you're saying but we lack details so let's leave it there. Even if has been proven many times that looks are not such a big deal.
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:17 PM
0

I'm French and your point is wrong. But hey, keep rolling.
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:14 PM
1

You say what you want to say. And don't expect her to feed the conversation, she doesn't know you. "hi I saw you from behind and I wanted to come see if the front is good aswell. How is your day going?" "its hot today isn't it?" "well I think that kind of t-shirt keeps you cold anyways" "cool, are you from this city?"
/r/seduction27/11/19 06:10 AM
0

You can't just say hi I'm xxx lol But you asked for an opener and you got one After you open you have to move the interaction and keep talking. It works in every western country.
/r/seduction27/11/19 06:08 AM
1

Learn to turn the "maybes" into "yes". It's hard, it's nerve racking and will hurt your ego. There are ressources on the web that explain to you how to do that but basically, spike her emotions to get under her radar and have her comply to get her complying to go home with you in the end. Don't expect them to feed the conversation or to show you interest until you've turned this maybe into a yes.
/r/seduction27/11/19 06:02 AM
0

OK so a few things : girls have preferences, maybe she liked your friend more. you obviously have insecurities about your looks compared to your friend. If you had good game you'd probably do better. why are you even affected by her inquiring about the location of your friend. U mad because she isn't showing interest to you only? Her being attracted to other guys doesn't mean she won't fuck you. I'd be curious to know what you call game, by the looks of it it sounds like your friend has better g…
/r/seduction27/11/19 05:54 AM
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What a normie comment. What would happen if a guy says that to a girl? Most likely nothing, at best the attraction for you that the girl has will increase.
/r/seduction27/11/19 05:48 AM
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Your behavior is really needy and attention seeking. It's not healthy to want a relationship that bad. It should be something that comes along because it feels good (to be with that particular person), not something you pro actively look for. It's just plain creepy when the guy you met yesterday at the club is sending you lovey-dovey texts about how he liked to hug you. Why is affection so intense and important to you. Why do you want it so fast and with any girl that's low-key your type. What a…
/r/seduction27/11/19 05:42 AM
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You might be putting too much pressure on her and the date so she's making sure you'd not be surprised if nothing happens during he date. You might be chasing too hard.
/r/seduction27/11/19 05:40 AM
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Now that's what I call an interesting post
/r/seduction27/11/19 05:39 AM
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It's first date man it's no time to think about that for the next few months
/r/seduction27/11/19 05:38 AM
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Extremely basic advice to a newbie situation that can be solved by a basic Google search. It's great for him. But this subs quality is suffering from those newbies posts. Look at posts from 5 years ago in this sub and you'll understand that they are of another caliber.
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:51 AM
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"yes I actually gotta hurry my 5 girlfriends are waiting for me outside"
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:50 AM
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Lmao at how I got up voted, then this post got to hot, then I got down voted haha
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:49 AM
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"you look like a massive fuckboi" Your answer : sad face. Lol. That's not how you pass a shit test.
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:43 AM
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If she's not into you yet it's either a maybe or a no. No is a dead end. Maybe can turn into a yes, have her comply and react emotionally, stick around her for a while.
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:41 AM
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"no u" isn't really reframing. Make it fun and interesting a bit, and follow it by a tease.
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:35 AM
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This post is probably gonna get to hot. And that makes me sad.
/r/seduction25/11/19 09:15 AM
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There's a lot of mingling when you're younger and looking into seduction. Here's what I see older other guys with good game do : go out solo or with a wing. If you want to bang, make it clear and don't linger around. Open girls. If you can't yet, work on that. Same way when you cannot do your first pull up at the gym yet. approach girls in any situation you find yourself in. know how to find yourself in situations where hot girls are. You can say you don't like to party but this is a great envir…
/r/seduction25/11/19 09:13 AM
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Is getting the phone number the objective in itself?
/r/seduction25/11/19 09:03 AM
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Most of the very successful PUA started by being huge creeps. This is what pushed them to become great. I started by being a huge weirdo lacking any social skill for various reasons when growing up. I worked on that. I can tell you that with practice it gets better, and even better than that. Many moments were awkward as hell and I wanted to disappear. Many moments were amazing and for some periods of time my life could look like a porn movie. So start now and keep improving. Everyone can do it.
/r/seduction25/11/19 09:03 AM
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OP is so right. Time to move on. For those who are still doubting, have a look at today's Hot posts. Lmao.
/r/seduction25/11/19 08:56 AM
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Whoa relax man
/r/seduction25/11/19 08:55 AM
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Watch Todd's videos on premise. If you go indirect you basically have to say things that imply you're screening her for a relationship. Some examples : So, do you stay in the city for a while? That's nice, you threw your bag in the trash can. Whoa, I think girls who can cook are all girlfriend material. Have you ever dated a guy from /your nationality/? But, I mean come on, if you open girls at a bar they obviously know why you're doing so. So maybe the problem isn't about showing interest but m…
/r/seduction25/11/19 08:49 AM
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Passing shit tests : Amplify (yeah I'm so short it makes me more aerodynamic) Or Reframe (lol you're shorter, I can actually see the top of your head) Followed by a tease or a change of topic FROM YOUR END. Pointless fluff with the ladies first thing, you don't win shit tests by being wittier.
/r/seduction25/11/19 08:43 AM
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You're chasing. She's not investing (because you're chasing and never breaking rapport). You fail every shit test she gives you. Saying no and trying to be cool is not how you pass a shit test.
/r/seduction25/11/19 08:40 AM
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Doing the same as what you were doing before without the bragging part. If you truly have abundance it will show
/r/seduction25/11/19 08:37 AM
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If they flake they probably don't like you in the first place. But if they flake its probably because you didn't call them out on not being invested in the first place. Don't go for a date unless she has shown some investment in you first. Get girls to invest by breaking rapport and calling them out for not investing in you. With practice you make that smoother.
/r/seduction25/11/19 08:36 AM
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5 is not a relevant number. Approach 20 the next time you go out and then come back on what you did good/wrong
/r/seduction25/11/19 08:32 AM
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Social gathering, work, on the street, etc
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:37 AM
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Dont ask it doesn't really work Take her hand or offer yours
/r/seduction24/11/19 04:29 PM
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Say what girls say "friends maybe more"
/r/seduction24/11/19 04:27 PM
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Your post is really, really hard to read man
/r/seduction24/11/19 09:43 AM
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Bruh. What's your question actually? Can you approach women outside of nightclubs? How do you think people met before nightclubs we're popular.
/r/seduction24/11/19 09:40 AM
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Often better success by going alone than with wings
/r/seduction24/11/19 09:39 AM
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"lol"
/r/seduction24/11/19 09:36 AM
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This sub became r/socialanxiety real quick. Two steps away from r/incels Now if you really want to practice Seduction you should actually try to Seduce women you're attracted to.
/r/seduction24/11/19 09:34 AM
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The more polarizing you are the more shit you get thrown your way
/r/seduction15/11/19 12:47 PM
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Why don't you small tall her and see what happens
/r/seduction15/11/19 12:46 PM
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Time for r/seduction2 I guess
/r/seduction14/11/19 01:00 PM
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So, this is the state of this sub now? That kind of post gets to hot?
/r/seduction14/11/19 01:30 AM
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You just ask her man
/r/seduction12/11/19 06:21 AM
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Real question here, have a girl ever left you for a nice guy because she was complaining that you don't treat her nicely ?
/r/seduction12/11/19 06:08 AM
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Disregarding all that she says and go for what you want instead. Because if you don't you will be put in the friendzone by default. Which is worse than being rejected. ​ Send her a fun text without expeting her to answer. As soon as she answers something positive you ask her out for the same day evening.
/r/seduction12/11/19 05:50 AM
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You really are a mod? Are you sure you're qualified to be mod on such sub. Lol. I hope your comment was sarcastic.
/r/seduction12/11/19 04:11 AM
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Bruh, can you rephrase it in a way that's less vague ? In my warm ups my focus is to say what comes to mind freely without filter and allowing myself to be needy/awkward until momentum is there.
/r/seduction12/11/19 02:54 AM
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Wrong. Every girl I approach wearing headphones at least removes them to let me know they are not interested. Most of the time they just remove them and listen to what you have to say. Most of the time they are happy that a stranger comes up. Earphones are irrelevant. If she doesn't like you/is not in the mood there's nothing you can do. If she likes you she will gladly stop her song and listen to what you have to say. Last daygame I did I was sitting next to her in the subway and asked her if s…
/r/seduction12/11/19 02:39 AM
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