Is seduction based a lot on luck?

TheXXL · 2020-01-02T12:23:09+00:00

I know you should improve yourself, socialize and go out. But is seduction based on luck?

Depends on how you define "luck". Usually people define it in a way that they have no control over it, but the complete opposite is the case. Someone said once: "Luck is just a combination of preparation and taking the opportunity when it arises"

But do a lot of people who meet their SOs tend to be in the right time and right place?

And do you think it's luck that they were at the right time in the right place? How often have they in the right place at the wrong time, or at the wrong place at the right time? The thing is, if you expose yourself to a certain environment your chances are getting higher and higher, let's take for example a fireman, usually chances are very very slim for anyone to die in a house fire, but a fireman is exposed to fire constantly, and often times in a uncontrollable way, so chances are way higher for them to burn alive then for any of us.

Now imagine you staying at home all day, and never talking to women, and not preparing yourself for that, how high do you think are your chances to meet your "soulmate"? less than 0%. Now if you go out constantly, meet new people a lot, and you socialize, talk to women, flirt and do moves, how high are your chances now to find your soulmate? Way higher of course. Depending on other factors of course.

Some FA may stop being an FA if he meets the right girl who overlooks his flaws. I;ve also approached girls in their final semesters who weren't looking for new friends, and girls who were moving away soon.

What is an FA? So you are talking about not getting results yet? This is very common, and again, many different factors play into it. The environment you are in, the frequency at which you approach girls, what type of women you approach etc. etc. In general, if you are not top of the shelves material for your target audience, you will have it harder than you might think, but even then, with enough exposure you will find something, but the great thing about it is, you will learn and hopefully grow from that, and change your approach/environment/behavior and so on, to cater more to your target audience, which in turn elevates your chances more and more.

Just don't give up, it is a long road and it will be hard as rock most of the time, the benefit though, will be worth it.

grrinchas · 2020-01-02T12:53:36+00:00

If you believe in non determinism, then everything to some degree has a luck factor, including seduction. If you believe in determinism or in other words, destiny, then luck doesn’t exist.

Insaneflirt_max · 2020-01-02T12:56:41+00:00

Yes it's a lot about right person at the right time.

It's also about being able to turn the wrong person/wrong time thing around. Or to play around it.

Of course to someone who's going blindly into dating, it's all about luck. But as you go on in life you will understand that the concept of luck can be controlled to some extent.

Edit : top comment said it better.

manonpoint_com · 2020-01-03T01:14:41+00:00

It's based on luck in the sense that there are odds involved-- but that is like saying sports are based on luck. A luck element does not mean it's based on luck. Just like baseball where, if you're the better player, you'll hit the ball more often than a different player, and you'll get on base more often, and hit home runs more often, if you have better game, you'll be more successful with the women you do get to interact with, and you'll be in more positions to interact with more women.

HeinrichHoffnung · 2020-01-02T11:54:37+00:00

I think its most about biological compatibility. If your Genes Match well, you will be successful, if they dont, you wont.

But from this Perspective it really is luck...

Title	Is seduction based a lot on luck?
Author	HumanBake
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Date	January 2, 2020 11:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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