I'm married and have adopted trp. Lifting, martial arts, taking charge.

Last week I came home late from martial arts and found the bedroom door locked. Didn't think much of it. Just unlocked it, went in and went to bed.

The next morning I mentioned it to my wife, and joked "I was worried that maybe you found out."

I've always made jokes like this, but she responded "I better not, or I'll be really mad."

That weekend I went to my buddy's house to watch the boxing match (I know) and she asks whether I'll come home right after, or something else regarding whatever she might "find out".

Next day she mentions again about a girlfriend or something. I pulled her to my lap and held her, but didn't deny anything.

Clearly I sold that joke. We did fuck quite well all weekend.

Is this bad? I feel a revulsion to specifically denying anything, but I don't want to push this either.