Hey guys, got a girl's number at my part time and hit her up, but I'm not very good at this, got too eager and she ghosted me for about 12 hours now. anyone have any tips on what to do from here, and what went wrong? I see her at work in a couple of weeks.

Trickledownrain · 2019-12-21T09:25:50+00:00

Stop messaging her and move on with ya day, like she has...

D3v1L_Pup · 2019-12-21T09:57:50+00:00

I have a tendency to be a little too 'texty texty' myself. It's hard cause I get excited and just keep going.

Relax. Pull back. Wait. She could easily have life issues going on that you don't know about or genuinely just fuckin busy.

If shes actually interested, she may message or you could potentially message her again in a day or two.

But only send one or maybe two short texts and that's it. Good morning/how've you been? kind of stuff.

No response? Cut your losses and move on.

Sucks, I know.

2019-12-21T10:34:51+00:00

Looks like you're investing too much into her.

Don't double message, try to match her flow. Invest the same amount of energy or less than she is.

Kimdabrim · 2019-12-21T11:14:03+00:00

Doesn't seem to be going in any direction.. are you trying to become her best friend or something?

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