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| 1 | I'm starting my first day at work tomorrow and the office is full of women. What shall I do to seem 'attractive'?If you're good looking women will chase you in the workplace | /r/seduction | 01/10/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | PUSH ME TO COLD APPROACH again(3 fails)You won't learn if you never try. You won't succeed if you never try. | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a high value man?There is no universal definition nor is there a man who has it all. Compare yourself to other men. Are you in the top 20%? | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How to set tone w womenYou have to do it early or you become just another free validation robot | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Good first date / meetup ideas? (20M)1 on 1 karaoke with drinks. Don't do dinner. Tbh just make up a decent excuse to come over yours and if she says that's too fast that's when you should look outside. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Guys, i'm back, and I want to let you all know that anything is possibleI think my story is similar. Based on my upbringing I've got traits which not many have and are good for this stuff however there's things I'm missing from an ordinary person. Being outside of the matrix I feel like I have so much more potential but I also wish it could just come naturally. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it easier to get with 18-20 year old girls vs. 21 to 25+ year old girls?Just turned 25, get told I look 20. Perfect age for 18yos 😂 | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Just a post for the ladies of r/seductionWhat is don't get about girls not approaching is that guys are much more invested in looks. The average chick knows she can get pretty much any guy to say yes off looks alone. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Master communicators are bold and fearless. They practice social intelligence but are also unapologetic about their desires as a man. Practice this and you'll easily become the most interesting man in the room.I agree. Men and women are very timid when it comes to meeting each other however we predicate the idea that things should move at a similar pace. Personally I'm not much of a talker and while I wouldn't say its unique to want to jump a woman's bones within 5 minutes of meeting her, I would have to admit that it's more my style. When I'm eyeing a chick up in club and she's doing it back the main obstacle is going to be my social intelligence in being able to move forward. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Escalation 101Depends on the context. On a date sure but with a girl you just met at a club well you can display all of those qualities simply in the approach. | /r/seduction | 08/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 0 | I failed to pull a 10 last night but she didn't reject meI agree that there's a lot of subjectivity. Personally I work with more of a 5-10 scale than 1-10 because if an average chick is a 7 it's a lot more understandable to add or deduct points depending on their assets. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | I failed to pull a 10 last night but she didn't reject meFirstly I would suggest you to draw a fine line between behaviours of friends and girlfriends. As much as society wants you to believe, there are lots of qualities we deem to be good for a "soulmate" but they are more typically friendship qualities. 1 hour phone calls and sharing hobbies aren't distinctly relationship qualities, especially with someone you've just met. Women these days are much more masculine because of how much power they have in the dating game. The best advice I could give to… | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 10:54 PM |
| 2 | I failed to pull a 10 last night but she didn't reject meThey don't always get validated by who they want to be validated by. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | I failed to pull a 10 last night but she didn't reject meComplements are always an easy way to get you some talking time. After that ask about her and see if she's asking back/interested in you. If she is then say something a bit more forward/sexual. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 10:39 PM |
| -1 | I failed to pull a 10 last night but she didn't reject meThe thing is I'm naturally pretty cold so the rare moments I force myself to validate it's never too much. | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Girls keep dodging me. What do I do?Maybe you have performance anxiety. Remember that your role is to be a man first and foremost. Putting on a show isn't the main role of a man. Just being confident in yourself is enough to give a good impression. Girls are very good at reading your emotions so you don't want to be expressing too many negative ones. Breathe, try to smile/laugh but don't force it, try to enjoy yourself instead of caring too much about her enjoyment. We want to be around positive people so be positive. | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 08:42 AM |
| 2 | "You're a fucking pussy" - I just got toldIf you got to this point it's not that you aren't doing enough, you're doing too much. If you're high value act high value. | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | The Easiest Way to Get Date: Daygame BuddhaDo you go with direct openers? | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How often should you text between first dates?Only let her initiate text conversations. Every girl has 1000 simps messaging her but they mean nothing compared to real life. If you make yourself into a messaging slave you lose you status of real life acquaintance. | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 02:45 PM |
| 2 | I pussied out of an approach againJust because she checked you out doesn't mean it was the right situation to open so don't beat yourself up unless she was really asking you to. | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Honesty when looking for ONS?To me I'm at least validating to them that they meet my standards which I consider quite high and I want a chance to get to know them. | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Tips to be more boldMaking a girl feel wanted is a good thing. Try to think of it like you're complementing her by wanting to fuck her. | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Difference between conversation and seduction? Give me examples of what you would say when seducing.Hot take but talking yourself out of vagina is a real thing. People decide they wanna sex you before hearing a word. Push forward the interaction not the dialogue. | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if I'm pursuing the right guys?You go for what you want obviously but it's clear that the guys you've been with don't value you enough for a relationship so move on and keep looking for someone who will. | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | INFIELD APPROACH VIDEOSThere's no such thing as being completely comfortable with approaching strangers, hence why it's important to have an easy approach for both parties. | /r/seduction | 27/04/20 03:55 PM |
| 9 | How to maintain interest once it clearly established?Don't try too hard. You have her interest already. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 02:29 AM |
| 2 | I feel like a cold approach or Tinder conversation is just all "in the moment" energyWhat do you expect? She's gonna start sizing you up for a husband the moment you display intent? | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 08:42 AM |
| 0 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayGood shit man it's a really big sticking point for me too. It's almost like I've wasted most of my time going out because my posture doesn't allow me to have good eye contact. Along with having a really quiet voice / bad tonality I end up hunching over and it's severely unattractive. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 01:05 AM |
| 4 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayYou're missing the point. An attractive person who hunches over doesn't display themselves as well as someone with good posture and it is very likely that person would notice a difference if they changed their ways. He's not saying that just because you have good posture you will have good success. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 01:02 AM |
| 0 | I'm Looking For A Way To Increase Horniness To Extreme Levels (willing to pay for help)Semen retention. If I dont masturbate for 3 days its a completely different experience. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 10:30 AM |
| 1 | How should a guy approach a girl on the dance floor?I wouldnt advise physical contact without a decent exchange of eye contact. Its unwarranted and can get you into trouble. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 10:28 AM |
| 1 | First successful attempt at getting the girl to come to me at a clubYou look horny or desperate because you sniper approach a girl out of the blue. She wants to see that you're enjoying yourself and not her number one priority then she will hit on you a bit instead of it just being one way and awkward/creepy. For example you notice a hot chick on the dancefloor. If you come straight to her without her noticing you it's gonna be creepy. If she sees you dancing and enjoying yourself without your eyes glued to her she's going to be intrigued. Ask yourself: what's m… | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsGreat. Now we know our success rate in your shoes. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 09:22 AM |
| 1 | First Club Approach StoryNice but what did you say to get the rejection? | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 01:53 PM |
| 15 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?You have to realise that girls prefer irl much more than Tinder. In real life you have a much better chance to present yourself as non needy and high value. | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 09:46 PM |
| 0 | 100 approaches in a month - making progress and having funIt depends where its coming from. For an attractive guys its highly validating opposed to am average guy. Her reaction could be completely different. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | It's been overstated, but you truly just have to approachIts really that simple. Approach, give complement, be attractive. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 02:55 PM |
| 5 | How to approach MILFsIn other words: no difference | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 06:17 AM |
| 2 | I just went on my first date ever and it was the most awkward thing everSounds like you picked the wrong date. Do something you'll be more comfortable. | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Getting smiles from women but not approaching for fear of 'ruining it'Who doesn't have mental barriers with daygame? Your approach just might be wrong. A girl smiles at you because she finds you physically attractive, you approach her but with a regular conversation leading to nowhere. Both of you know why you're talking to each other but she's not going to be the one making the move. Just approaching isn't making it clear, you could have done that to anyone. She needs you to be the one to put themselves on the chopping block to be able to advance to more than a p… | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Had great sex on the first date. Few days after she says she really likes me but still has feelings for ex. Wants to remain friends. I told her peace out.You straight up asked her if she wanted to be your fwb? | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Needy people have girlfriendsNeedy behaviors /=/ needy guy. As another guy said maybe you see them as needy but the girl is even needier. Relationships are inherently needy because you're relying on each other. | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Low energy direct vs high energy indirectJust sparking some conversation. I guess it's bordering on blackpill ideology but it's something that not many people can speak on nor want to believe in. Going direct definitely can't work for everyone but I think it is extremely effective on those it does work on. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 12:04 PM |
| 1 | First time I got a 10Speak for yourself | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Tips on Investing in interactions and not being too available ?I agree, it sounds like there's too much of an energy differential and it's easy to feel inadequate if you're the one being less quiet. In a man to woman situation she would probably just feel like you're trying too hard and she's won you over too easily. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 04:03 PM |
| 3 | [THEORY] 80% of your first dates should transition to second datesI feel like I would have an easy time keeping them in rotation but it's the recruitment part that's the hardest. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I'm good at first dates but I'm bad at the next steps and end up in the friend zone.The way dates go in the western world are absolute shit. You fork out for a dinner date where you talk each other to sleep. In the Philippines I take a girl to Karaoke where they serve food in a private room. Showing that you can sing gets her panties 100x wetter than having a "good conversation" across a dining table. I have no idea how to use this script in the western world and maybe it's a cultural difference but the most common way is to take her out for a drink where you can apply kino eas… | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Loser on the rise, need help regarding upcoming dateIt sounds like she's down to fuck so it doesn't matter if your shit isn't 100% together which it sounds like it's going well enough. | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Field report: I feel like I did everything right at the club and still came home alone. Starting to think my looks just don't cut it. I am South Asian but have been remarked as a very good looking south Asian by girls.It doesn't happen every night even for the best guys I know so don't be too hard on yourself. In terms of doing things right what do you mean by that? | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 08:31 AM |
| 1 | FR: Escalated too fast (failed at comfort)Thanks for your reply. I didnt mention in the post but I did show intent to girl 1 early on but for some reason the whole "im trying to find her a guy" thing clouded my judgement (also being drunk) Shortly after meeting the 2 girls another group of girls joined on my other side which I opened. Girl 1 eventually started talking to them and im not sure what to make of that but she did just seem like a friendly talkative person. I think i displayed a good amount of value but I also killed a lot of … | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Pretending to go along with the bullshit!You can continue to stack off it without actually bringing to her attention whether or not you believe in it. Sometimes it's better to just let people speak whether or not you agree. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Looking for advice on how to reach one’s daily eating calorie goals when trying to gain weightNo. Its just easy to sub in or out and you can have a shitload if you have some tasty meat. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Looking for advice on how to reach one’s daily eating calorie goals when trying to gain weightRice | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveSome people already have good game they just don't know it yet because you don't find out unless you really push through all the way. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 09:15 AM |
| 2 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveFlirting is inherently quite direct; what you need to do is start closing. Maybe you're afraid to lose the momentum you had going with the flirting by failing to close but if you don't at least attempt it chances are nothing is going to happen. Closing is as easy as "so what are you doing after this?" and if they make it clear that nothing's on you at least get her number/snapchat etc. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 09:10 AM |
| 1 | I have a problem within flirtingYou cant complement because its hard to do but trust me its so worth it. | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm not ashamed to admit I need helpIt seems to me you're heavily reliant on techniques/monologues but the problem is you're not sparking any emotions. Good conversations can happen with a ONS but it's not a key ingredient. If you're having boring interactions you need to find ways to spike her emotions or just be better at reading them. You said you have chicks approaching you so you must be somewhat attractive. Well if an attractive girl walked up and complemented you wouldn't that make you feel good? Complements are one of the … | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | The Hook...?If a girl is physically attracted but not so outgoing I think a complement would be a good way to give her some comfort/positive emotions which could help a lot in getting a hook. | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 06:23 PM |
| 3 | When I’m out with new people I’m always in my head and like reserved not being myself like holding backAre you sure you're holding back or are you a reserved kind of person? You shouldn't ever feel like you have to match the energy of other people and if they call it out let them know up front. | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 06:19 PM |
| 3 | How to be more approachable?I have a bit of a resting bitch face sometimes but it doesn't really matter since the likelihood of a woman approaching is always very slim. You shouldn't worry about how approachable you are until you've actually made an approach. If you think you've got some strange thing about yourself the best way to figure that out is to actually talk to someone up close. | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 06:16 PM |
| 3 | What do girls expect/ want a man to do?I'm saying it's not like you have one chance to lose. One beta act doesn't matter if she sees you as overall alpha. | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Social circle standing vs Cold approachI think it might have a slight negative affect if you spoke to a woman in a similar demographic to your own and you weren't so in-tune with the social norms that went along with that demographic. However, the associated dominance hierarchy of your social circles would have almost no influence. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 02:04 PM |
| 3 | What do girls expect/ want a man to do?Don't be so pessimistic bro. I've shown some extremely beta behaviour before and it didn't lose me the chick. One sign of beta-ness isn't a big deal if you've got enough alpha-ness going on. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 01:53 PM |
| 2 | When you first approach, should you wait for the other to reach out or do you start the interaction ?You're the guy and you're the one approaching, it's your job to lead the interaction. Even though a girl is compliant with you that doesn't mean she's going to be the one starting a new conversation thread or asking a question about you EVER. Cold approaches are a taboo so you really have to be the one captaining the ship because you can't just expect someone to know what to do in a situation they never expected to happen in the first place. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 01:47 PM |
| 5 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Yeah OP is delusional if he can't see how contradictory this post is. The post in question basically said that we need to approach more because we're pussying out and seeking comfort yet OP says that we upvote posts which don't necessarily help us but give us comfort and tries to discredit by saying the OP is a newbie as if that makes the advice in question any less relevant. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 12:25 PM |
| 19 | Did you ever regret not committing to a girl because you wanted to search for your perfect someone?How did you end up with lots of options? | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Approach as soon as you can, it builds momentumI've wanted to do this but I feel like I'll just sperg out. However recently I've been warming up socially faster and faster off the bat but I sometimes find myself regretting being in the conversation I'm in as time fades or I see a chick I want to open. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Talk from the heart when you are dealing with people. Talk with your head when you are doing business.What body language did she give off that made you think she was going for the kiss? In my experience it's a sudden moment of strong eye contact and silence while being in close proximity. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys, got a girl's number at my part time and hit her up, but I'm not very good at this, got too eager and she ghosted me for about 12 hours now. anyone have any tips on what to do from here, and what went wrong? I see her at work in a couple of weeks.Doesn't seem to be going in any direction.. are you trying to become her best friend or something? | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Field Report (2018) - Old guy displaying valueI had a similar experience recently. I was at a club with lots of hot young girls giving them too much attention trying to dance with them and creeping them out. Then I went across the street to a more relaxed place and that's when I started actually enjoying myself and I was approached like crazy. You have to detach yourself from the environment and and learn how to have fun without anything bringing you down or lifting you up it has to come from within. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls without alienating the AMOGsTalk to them first and make friends with them. | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Approaching without objectifying"I like your outfit" | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Talking to womanI mean how are you going to come off as anything other than friendly to your female FRIENDS? It's not like you're going to treat your girlfriend the same way. | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Advice on asking somebody out while waiting in line for food.Why do you want to hang out with her when you just met her? Do you want to be her friend or smash? You can get her number and find out if she likes you or you can sit with her and try to impress her like a goof. | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Why does the girl i'm seeing always tell me no when I try to kiss her, before eventually giving in and loving it?Chicks give kisses so easily it doesn't mean shit so I would re-evaluate your thought of her "loving it". | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Machiavelli says get attention at all costs. How?To "get attention at all costs"? Doesn't sound very alpha or respectable to me. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Basics like asking the girl out and escalationIt also makes it more difficult by not getting to that point. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | The cringe in this one..... I'm so glad I discovered this sub and am not like the dude in the video anymore.How do you know he wasn't being his true self? Would it not be comfortable for some people to be their true self rather than putting on an act? Being nervous definitely prevents people from being their true self but usually in the way of shutting them down so I wouldn't necessarily say that the humor he displayed wasn't his own. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | I prefer the feeling of my bones breaking than the feeling I gotIt's possible that by wanting certain outcomes from socialising with people might cause you anxiety because you're in your head. Practising with people in general isn't going to prepare you for the real thing. You might come off nervous by expressing intent but honestly she should respect you for it and it would probably make this learning process a lot easier on yourself. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 06:36 AM |
| 2 | 30M newly single and for the first time, very high SMV: how to make the most of it?What's not to be happy about in your situation? Most people don't take control in choosing their partners, they just let it happen. Maybe it's better for them to believe in a fairy tale but maybe they end up a lot less happier than they could be. Just make sure that you're happy that's all that matters. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | First approach but not sure if it went well or not (Unsure of her body language)I think it's because what you said was a little weird and it confused her, which her response is typical of. "Excuse me, I just wanted to say that you look very nice today" is probably better to say. You basically excused yourself but then said something that she was totally unprepared for. "Excuse me" usually prefaces something that actually needs to be excused. You wouldn't walk up and just say "you look nice today" because you're a stranger to her. Excuse yourself then explain what you're exc… | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | I prefer the feeling of my bones breaking than the feeling I gotHey man good on you for building up the courage to make the approach. I think the main problem is the way you framed the situation. You wanted to sit down and have a chat and maybe see how things went. However the problem with that is not everyone is open to chatting with strangers especially in a non social setting and even then it's hard to force a decent conversation with strangers. Think of it from their perspective. In this situation it would be better for you to express your intent. This g… | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Approached a 10/10 by saying 'fuck it'Just be more attractive bro. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Approached a 10/10 by saying 'fuck it'He literally tapped her on the shoulder without her seeing him first, how is that not creepy? Just because you aren't creep doesn't mean she's going to fancy you. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Approached a 10/10 by saying 'fuck it'I'd say most guys can be a 7 but a good amount can only be a 6. The problem is the 6s who feel entitled and simply aren't realistic about the league they're in. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Approached a 10/10 by saying 'fuck it'It was 0 effort for him personally but it's still more effort than she was used to, hence it worked. Also because she fancied him. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Approached a 10/10 by saying 'fuck it'He's not hating he's just dooming | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Approached a 10/10 by saying 'fuck it'He's just sharing his story why do you have to add your pessimism? If an athlete wins a gold medal do you say "they're just lucky to have good genetics". OP didn't claim that this will work for everyone. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Approached a 10/10 by saying 'fuck it'Sounds like 8 is just your way of saying 10. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 08:45 AM |
| 5 | Approached a 10/10 by saying 'fuck it'That's because not all women are extroverted or frequent places where extroverted guys hit on them. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Approached a 10/10 by saying 'fuck it'Well she didn't. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 08:36 AM |
| 1 | So my first approach went well (not)Women are much more timid and afraid of rejection than us guys. If she was giving him strong eye contact there's isn't a chance in hell she's avoidant. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 01:52 PM |
| 1 | So my first approach went well (not)To be fair, if she can make you move just by looking at you then theoretically she has more power than you. What he could have done in that situation is to walk over to her and make her think that he's coming for her but then direct his attention away from her then re engage later so she's not starting off super empowered. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 12:25 PM |
| 2 | So my first approach went well (not)If she was "avoidant" and truly had social anxiety she wouldn't have even looked at him in the first place. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 12:18 PM |
| 2 | First Date Ideas at Night - Mini Golf etc? (Fresh out of 3yr LTR)Karaoke. If you can sing half decent you're gonna slay. If you get a private room it's easy to initiate kino for both parties. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Plates break quickly if I ignore them; they find higher-SMV men who will spend money on them. I'm not even salty about it, but how do you think I can reduce the turnover? Any experiences or thoughts?It seemed like a personal statement when you said "increasing your SMV is a years long approach". OP did ask a personal question and you can't just act like everyone is on a level playing field. Some people are capped at a 7, some at a 10. The 10 is going have a completely different experience and that's the reality. You can't tell a 7 he can keep improving to be a 10 unless we find a way to change our DNA. A big problem with a subreddit like this is there will be doomer 7s giving advice that's … | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Plates break quickly if I ignore them; they find higher-SMV men who will spend money on them. I'm not even salty about it, but how do you think I can reduce the turnover? Any experiences or thoughts?Some people have higher potential SMV than others just because of genetics. If you're at a plateau you might just have to face the fact that you're not going to get much better than you are currently at. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | So I met this girl in a bar...Did you think she had a boyfriend based on all the stuff you did with her? Doesn't seem like it. Apart from the buddy buddy shit you were talking about. | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Club approachesFair. Would be cool to hear some stories of guys doing funny approaches that still ended up well. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 02:40 PM |
| 2 | When I am mysterious, I don't talk much and be boring, when I just talk, I lose frame.What if he's just forcing himself to be in that situation and doesn't realise that he would rather be alone? He could just have 0 interest in the current topic let alone most topics his peer group would talk about. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I not talk politics with my ltr?"I don't know" If you really don't care then you should have no opinion and it's probably better that way so you don't add fuel to the fire. If she doesn't like that she can go fuck herself. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Does game change if she sees you as attractiveWhat I meant to ask with the post is if direct game is easier/works better if she finds you attractive. There seems to be a lot of stigma about giving complements because it "gives your power away" but I think I'm already in a powerful position to begin with so it's just stupid failing with indirect game when I can be successful with direct game. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Behaviour is much more important for SMV than any superficial factorsOkay so you're not afraid of other dudes, how does that give you confidence with the opposite sex? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/19 12:28 AM |
| 11 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitNice infernal cape nub | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 11:08 AM |
| 0 | When dancing and girls start dancing really close to you and back up into you what do I do I am lostNever go straight into grinding. Pick target (don't hamster, if they were giving you IOIs go for it). Move in close within her sight. Hold eye contact and wait for her to return it. Move towards her slowly while dancing and holding eye contact. If you make it chest to chest immediately grab her hips. You're in. Maybe do some front grinding then twirl her around and go for the booty. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 09:19 AM |
| 3 | How to eye contact without being creepy?It's only awkward if they don't want to look back. In order for that to happen you have to be attractive. If you aren't confident in smiling then just keep a poker face. If she smiles smile back if she breaks contact hold or reinitiate again and if she keeps looking back you should approach. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Pulling off a massive boost to your SMVI lifted in late high school for a brief period so when I first found out about TRP I had some decently fast gains. My genetics are pretty good so I basically had a good starting point and I went from a 7 to I would say a 9+ and I've only lifted for 5 or 6 months and still fairly high bodyfat but I still catch a lot of IOIs in the club. I think I could be a 10 if I was shredded or just with another 6 months of gym depending on if I plateau or not but as far as gains people can tell I lift which … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 09:55 AM |
| 4 | Does alpha widower exist? What to do about it?ur hamstering | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Dance floor pullsI've got a lot of positive feedback but I haven't taken lessons or anything. I screened the girl for how good of a dancer she was but I think she was just a basic white girl so that's why I went heavy on the grinding. I only followed her because I thought she was shit testing me but I didn't come up with a solution. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Dance floor pullsI followed her because I thought it was a shit test and I wanted to think of a way to dodge it and to see if she would change her mind or something. I don't know if you understand dance floor game. You don't have the verbal format to layout all these things in a strategical manner. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 03:24 AM |
| 1 | going to university as a 23-24 year old freshmen how to succeed, socially and sexually?Basically - he should lift. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Nightclub dance floor strategyUnfortunately I go out solo most of the time. I'm in my home town so I usually see multiple sets of people I know or are friends with but I would still rather chill by myself. I do get approached on the dance floor but it just feels weird, I think they're too easy or they're just being clumsy. I like the mindset but there's only so much fun I can have in a club environment. Dancing is my favorite thing to do but if the music sucks I just turn into a wall plant creeper haha. At the end of the nig… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Nightclub dance floor strategyI haven't put it into much practice but successful so far. I think for this strategy to work you need good looks and to be good at dancing. I'm basically at level 0 of game apart from my personality and humor but that only comes into it when you're about to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Nightclub dance floor strategyThat's basically what I'm doing with my strategy, being fun and displaying high SMV. Looking for IOIs first is just a way of screening who is receptive. The point is to not be one of those creepy guys who go all touchy before she even sees what they look like. I look for the IOI which is the invitation and then execute my strategy which I think most girls would find fun and more comfortable than the usual. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Inputs ?PPL. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 04:55 PM |
| -3 | What to do about other guys coming in your set?If they're more attractive just leave and if she really likes you she'll try to reconnect later maybe | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 06:01 PM |
| 20 | [FR] I didn't know girls could be this fucking hot.Damn bruh keep it up! I've been clubbing most weekends for like 1-2 months and still haven't had the balls to approach a chick on the dancefloor. | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you do to put yourself out there?The problem is I rarely am in a place to even see a woman but I don't want to just feel like I'm going out to see them. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 09:24 AM |
| 3 | Direct Game Vs. Indirect Game - Which Is Better?There's also another variable in direct game that will lead you to success with 'yes girls'. If you are ABOVE average looking you will probably find a higher percentage of 'yes girls' but then you might also encounter more girls going with the safe option because they're too intimidated. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/18 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Of Apex and AlphasSo what's the difference between sucking and not sucking? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 06:21 AM |
| 2 | How I Discovered The Best Place To Meet Single Women (After 10 Years Of Research)But to a lot of guys, seeking ass is one of the best ways to spend their time | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 08:02 AM |
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