The last two nights I went out I danced with a HB9 and HB10. At this point I don't expect to pull and I'm just glad that I got some experience. This is kind of a field report but I would also appreciate some feedback.

HB9:

I started dancing on a dance floor that was almost dead except for the HB9 and her friend. Immediately the HB9 grabbed my hands and we started dancing. I'm not the best dancer nor have I taken lessons but I have received a lot of positive feedback. She said "what you're doing is beautiful" even though I was just blasted drunk but the music was good so that probably reflected in my dancing. In hindsight that would have been a good opportunity to say something like "you ARE beautiful".

After a while I told her I was tired and pulled her over to the lounge in and attempt to "escalate" but all I got to say was "where is your friend?" and then she said she had to go to the toilet. As you can tell I had no idea what to say. I went back to the dance floor and waited to see if she would come back which she didn't.

In hindsight, we were both having fun and she had a big smile on her face so I should have just kept going with the dancing instead of trying to isolate. She seemed to be a good dancer and she had a lot of friends around so I don't think tonnes of mindless grinding would have been the right choice. I was the one who broke eye contact as I was just trying to focus on my dancing but it's always better to hold and have stronger eye contact. It would have been nice if I had taken salsa lessons but I still don't think they're necessary if the average chick doesn't know how to.

HB10:

I join a large dance floor on the side and I see probably the hottest girl on it. I think I catch her looking at me a few times so I'm looking at her a lot. However I'm not feeling myself enough so I go for another drink. Not long after I come back and she's still there but this time I'm really sure that she's giving me IOIs. I walk up to her which she notices and start dancing near her while facing her. At this point we're holding eye contact and we're both smiling so I bust a move and go for a frontal grind manoeuvre which she accepts. I then grab her hips and just like that I'm 10 feet deep in the poosay. I grab her hands because based on the HB9 I think this is a good idea but it turned out that she was a pretty basic bitch dancer so it didn't work well. I think she thought of it as needy but I was just trying to dance like that.

After a while she went off to the side and started looking at her phone. I followed and got her number. She said she had to go but I took it as a shit test and followed her very promptly outside while trying to think of a way to dodge it and to see if that would change but it didn't and I left her alone.

In hindsight I think the main issue was that I didn't become friends with her friend. I also needed to hold stronger eye contact and not hold her hands so much because that literally is the definition of too much pull and not enough push. She probably saw me as needy and under her even though that wasn't my vibe whatsoever but it was reflected in my actions.

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In conclusion 0/2 isn't anything to complain about and at least I got to grind on the biggest HB on the dance floor. I am trying to stop worrying about the fact I didn't pull and just to have fun instead. I also need to capitalize on every IOI I get from the start of the night even if I'm stone cold sober because numbers game.