Met 2 girls and girl 1 told me that girl 2 was a virgin and she was trying to find her a guy. The verbalisation of that intent convinced my drunk ass that it was okay to skip a few steps and escalate really early.

I talked with girl 1 for a while and we were hitting it off so much that I should have just focused on her. Girl 2 started dancing in front of us and her buttcrack was rubbing on my knee and I didn't know whether or not to take it as intentional but I used it as fuel to escalate.

We started talking but it was kinda platonic. I mentioned that we had to find her a boyfriend which was a dumb thing to say because she probably was embarassed about it but I thought I could use it to display some intent. I then riffed off that and mentioned I could be her boyfriend but I think it was all too much for her and she wasn't happy about her friend snitching on her. I randomly put my arm around her and grabbed her butt which was awfully random but she didn't react badly so I thought it was okay.

We went upstairs to the dancefloor there and I started grinding on girl 2. I was testing for her level of compliance/comfort but it didn't seem to be going well and I overdid it. Girl 1 instantly went up to some random guy which I thought was a display of jealousy. We had some shots and sat on a couch but we lost girl 1. Girl 2 was texting girl 1 that we should leave so I thought I was in but we ended up having to look for girl 1.

We finally found girl 1 and she was with the random guy. We were walking in a line with random guy at the back when the girls started running and hid around a corner. The random guy was oblivious and I found the girls but looking back they were probably ditching me too which felt bad. I talked to girl 1 and once again asked if I'm being creepy but she said I'm being nice and her friend is a virgin so she was probably indirectly saying I was moving a bit too fast. I got girl 1s number but ended up losing it which sucks cause I think there was potential.

Conclusion:

Even if a girl states that she is keen you should proceed cautiously because there's usually many hurdles to jump through until they can be comfortable with you.

The saying "its not what she says its what she does" applies here.