I always go to the club and don't show interest in order to protect myself from embarrassment especially since I'm rarely in a good or happy mood. I get a lot of looks from chicks I consider to be 8-10s but I've never really realised my potential until this night where I actually started properly hitting on them.
This night I was in a really good mood but it was a lot of coincidence like randomly bumping into some good mates who just so happened to have some good drugs. Even though I was under the influence however I still feel like I learnt a lot but I want to be able to do it without drugs.
After a whole lot of sitting around doing nothing other than smoking cigarettes and having my mate egg me on to hit up chicks, a HB9 walks up to me and asks me for a light. I told her "you look amazing" and she was really grateful as she said she was feeling self conscious or whatever. I replied "looking like that?" and she was flattered. I was gonna get up to do something and she asked me to stay and keep talking to her which was a good sign. Eventually she said that she has a boyfriend but I think it was only because he came up to us. She even called him ugly jokingly in front of him. My mate sold her some drugs for a good price because she apparently lost a whole lot and I joked to my mate that I would get the rest out of her in sexual favours. I didn't end up trying to escalate or close and I regret that but I think the drugs made it hard to concentrate however I was in a very seductive vibe and it seemed like it was working.
It was funny because my mate that was egging me on is one of those guys who get really fucked up and give off bad vibes and when that chick came up he just so happened to be right next to me because a random person got up and left the seat so he saw the whole ordeal which would have came as a surprise however it was also a bit of a surprise to myself as I've never done something like that but it was really eye opening.
The next chick I tried guessing her race but I was way off. I quickly came in with "you're really cute" and I soon after asked her for a kiss but she gave me a kiss on the cheek and I was like "no, on the lips" and she obliged. I asked her for her number and somehow we got interrupted and then I got it 5 minutes later. At this point I was kinda cooked and just having fun talking to random people so it didn't go much further. She kept going back to her friends so maybe she was a bit shy and I should have tried to move her to avoid ASD.
There was a HB9ish with my mates that I ran into who was giving me the looks at the start but I didn't say a single word to her. I'm like Raj from the Big Bang Theory when it comes to mate's girls but I wasn't even sure it was the case. There was also another HB9 in another club beforehand who moved right next to me on the edge of her mates but they seemed kinda AMOGGY which put me off but I regret not at least trying on these 2 different girls because you never know what the deal is.
At the end of the night I went to the Casino when everything else closed and there were these 3 girls on the balcony. I tried to get in through what I thought was the door but it was just a window and they were pointing me in the direction of the door. When I got on the balcony I tried to sit on this chair but this chick was like nah that's my chair and I'm like "you look like Lizzo" and she replied "are you calling me fat?" it was funny as fuck.
The hottest girl from the window came up and was trying to defend me because she thought the Lizzo chick was being rude but I'm like nah idc I'm just having fun. She immediately sat next to me and seemed pretty keen. I guessed that she was the mother and one of the other girls was her daughter and it turned out that she was only 27 so it was really fucking awkward but I didn't get blown out or anything. She started singing out loud to me and told me it was the first time she ever did something like that which was a good sign I guess. However just like before I didn't go for any escalation or close. I could tell I need to talk to her friends but just didn't do it and they seemed friendly so it wouldn't have been hard or anything. They ended up moving but I definitely could've given a lot more pull because I did a lot of pushing with the mother comment.
In conclusion I got no blowouts when delivering a complement displaying interest in a genuine/positive manner. Doing so also improved my mood because I would get compliance and putting them in a good mood came bounced back to me. I need to work on achieving this even when I'm not in the best mood and I also need to work on closing/escalating.
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