I was in a bar and a club with some not so close friends and their friends and there was a total 10 in there. She was a fit tall blonde and her personality was on point too. All the guys were after her and she was getting huge amount of attention all night. Guys brought her drinks and random guys would come and chat her up. Other men would try to qualify for her and kiss her ass all the time and they would look incredibly beta doing so. She would also talk with the guys and shittest all the time.

I just kept my frame and was talking to everybody and focused on having fun. She would come to me all night and either dance and grind herself against me or when I would tell something she would come really close into my personal space and ask me more. Then she would go to talk with other guys. Also other girls were giving me attention and she was seeing how she had competition. I couldn't isolate her as there was these guys around her all the time and they didn't give her space.

In the end there was me and 3 guys who left the club in the morning and went to eat something. The guys tried to ask her to go with them indirectly but she said no to all of them. Then if was just us and we walked to get and share a cab but ended up kissing and exchanging numbers in the street. I am not sure what happens next but I had a great night and it was a great learning experience.

I have worked a lot on push-pull and not being needy and not chasing and giving women space and time to choose me and it really seems to work. Other guys would try to act like her servant and put her in a pedestal and entertain her. I didn't do any of that and it made her interest rise. I could see how she was trying to figure me out. I was the only one she would grind herself against on the dance floor and I got her instant attention whenever I said something. The club was playing a lot of Shakira and I joked that she must really like Shakira when she got excited when one song started to play and she instantly stopped dancing and came to talk to me how she likes other music too.

It was interesting to observe a 10 in night club too. She was the one doing the choosing and she had a lot of guys to choose from and she was shittesting them to see what they do all the time.

I think I could have taken her home if I had more skills. I should have isolated her but I played it safe. I am not worried though. I will go out with her soon and then I will go for it.

Overall I am very happy now and have learned a huge amount of new things this year. One year ago I would have no change at all with total 10's. Whenever I go to a nightclub or anything I get female attention and generate attraction and I am getting choosing signals over other guys.