Am I being toyed with? And if so is it time to walk away.

grrinchas · 2020-01-01T21:11:32+00:00

I'm so happy that I have the rule

"Don't game social circle"

Clearly, she was into you. But you fucked up. And now she is not. Learn from your mistakes and move on.

IGotAMellowship · 2020-01-01T22:35:52+00:00

I don't think what she is doing is slut behaviour, I think you need to speak to her and tell her what the deal is from your perspective. She will either let you know she isn't interested in pursuing anything with you - which is good, because it means that you can start moving on. Or less likely but still plausible - she thinks you're worth a shot. She might even worry she is losing a 'back up' and try and reel you back in again, be careful of this. (Unless you feel you can deal with something casual, it doesn't sound like it is what you're after though).

You are in a difficult position and one that most of us find ourselves in at some point, being overly emotionally invested in a girl who gets plenty of attention and whose interest in you is declining or has disappeared. Yes you are being toyed with, because you are allowing yourself to be toyed with. You need to know and build on your own value as a man and what you can offer a woman. I am not talking "expensive trips" or lavish dates, I am talking about a man who has enough respect for himself to know how he wants to be treated and refuses to put up with any less than that.

quinnmcd · 2020-01-02T01:43:52+00:00

this post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person.

Any posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person should be directed to /r/askSeddit. (Note that is askSEDDIT, not askREDDIT.)

Title	Am I being toyed with? And if so is it time to walk away.
Author	jarod544
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	January 1, 2020 8:55 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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