Can a guy (19M) get too embarrassed after sex that he ghosted me (20F)?

grrinchas · 2020-01-02T15:34:48+00:00

First time when I had sex (18y old) it happened to me exactly as you describe. I was so embarrassed that I didn't had sex with any women for next 7 years.

So yeah, this can really damage a guy.

RadicalSnowdude · 2020-01-02T15:35:02+00:00

He really was embarrassed. No doubt about that. What causeD his erection problem, idk, could be multiple reasons that I won’t get I to. But basically he’s afraid that his lack of performance will happen again and he’s trying to snuff out that shame as best as possible.

If you still want to give him another try for practice and reassure him about his performance you’d have to talk to him face to face.

Chatter_ · 2020-01-02T15:46:10+00:00

Yes it’s possible. It’s happened to me when I was really young. You want to impress so much that it blocks your mind & you start to second guess yourself. I’m really glad that you said it didn’t bother you & you’d give him another chance. A lot of females would have taken the opportunity to get the attention of publicly shaming him.

quinnmcd · 2020-01-02T16:45:56+00:00

this post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person.

Any posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person should be directed to /r/askSeddit. (Note that is askSEDDIT, not askREDDIT.)

worldwidenoah · 2020-01-02T15:46:34+00:00

Yep, he’s embarassed - Let him go. You were the one who approached him to hang out again after all that yet he’s still too shook to respond? He’s a pussy.

Title	Can a guy (19M) get too embarrassed after sex that he ghosted me (20F)?
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Date	January 2, 2020 3:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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