I've recently found TRP and started slowly incorporating these ideas into my life. My girlfriend was a virgin before I met her and was very serious about staying a virgin until about a month ago when I really turned her on and she asked me to fuck her in the heat of the moment. Now this girl is really sweet and never shit tests me and I make sure I'm always fun and light hearted to be around, while remaining calm and stoic. I've had sex pretty much every day since then that I've seen her and apparently I'm the first guy she's ever given a blowjob to. She's says she's been with three other guys who only fingered her and she's given them handjobs. Now to get to my point, she says she really likes me but since she's going to summer school in a different state (we're both in Uni) she won't be able to see me. She said early in the relationship that "things might happen" at her summer camp so she doesn't want to do long distance, but that we could get back together when we see each other in the fall. Now the thought of her fucking another guy after letting me take her virginity absolutely tears me apart inside but I never told her that. Part of the reason I like her is because of her low number count. So we break it off because school just ended and I fucked her really hard she ended up squirting one last time, and she says we're definitely having sex in the fall. I'm going to downgrade her as a plate but I can't help the feelings I got for her. (I'm a sucker for the thrill of getting my heart broken) She started crying and said she didn't want to leave me but I didn't display any emotion and told her that "I know you're probably going to see other guys, but just know that if you do end this relationship and come back in the fall, I will only hook up with you, we will never have this relationship we have now." So she considered for several days and said she can't handle the emotional toll of being in a long distance relationship because she was in one for two years and it really sucked. We've broken things off and she is still texting me saying things like she "misses me" and random things to which I don't respond and ignore largely. I've been very distant and have gone "minimal contact" because it just hurts too much knowing that I'm texting her and she might be fucking another guy soon. She doesn't understand why we can't be friends and then get back together and ignore what happened before like we did when we first started dating.

So, sorry, not sorry for this long ass wall of text, but if you guys with an outside perspective could help me on this that would be great. I genuinely like her too, because she's been throwing more green flags than red. But I know AWALT to some degree.

How do I handle talking to her from now on to avoid feelings while not pushing her away too far by not contacting her, and how do you guys think I handled this situation