So, my LTR and I have been going out for a little over a year and a half. We both go to the same college, live nearby, and see each other at least once a day. I take her out on dates, she takes me out, we have sex often (couple of times a week), enjoy spending time with each other. Things are good.

Now, we both have discussed what would happen in case she gets pregnant, and (she was first to say this) she would get an abortion. Today, she mentioned how she had a dream last night and that she had been pregnant for a while. In the dream, her family was supportive of her in whatever decision she would choose (Her mother had her first daughter fairly young, so I could see this being true in the real world). Then, she began asking me what I would do if she decided to keep it. And, I just half-laughingly started chuckling and saying oh no over and over. I was referencing golddigger with the 18 years line, and just making light of the situation. This seemed to upset her a lot, and when we both parted she kinda just left without saying bye. This has me very worried, like is this something she is now considering which is why I am coming to you.

This has never been discussed as an option before, and I think only came about because of the dream she had. Like, maybe she wants to see how supportive I am of her and wanting me to be take on the supportive, caretaker role at that moment. But, on the other hand, I am not sure if this is something she wants. She was on the pill when we started having sex, was off it for a few months (relying on condoms), and has been on it for the past 2 months. As far as I know, she has not purposefully missed any days recently (she used to miss 1 or 2 a month and would tell me), but now I think I need to be more aware if she does.

Any advice would be great, thanks for listening to my story. This is my first time posting, so I hope the story and background make sense.