Never initiates but is invested in conversation

Responsible-Evidence · 2020-01-22T23:33:26+00:00

My view is they only start to chase you after sex a few times

PMmeSexyChickens · 2020-01-22T23:26:52+00:00

Just message her if she never initiates after a month then start uninvesting she might also be busy and just not have a habit of messaging you

drdavidbanner20 · 2020-01-22T23:34:08+00:00

Should i wait for her to initiate?

No. If you don't initiate her, some other guy on tinder will and scoop her right up. You have to play offense in the early stages of dating, especially when you're using dating apps. She has more options than you realize.

As things progress, I bet she starts initiating more (unless she's just that type of girl who waits for the guys to make moves, which is a possibility). But IMO, I wouldn't worry about it considering she's very receptive in person. Just get to setting up the next date (I'd personally invite her over, but you do you). Speed is critical.

2020-01-22T23:37:34+00:00

she’s prolly been burned a bunch or at least in her feelings she has-you aren’t wrong to question, but if you are actually into her-it might take work and time

quinnmcd · 2020-01-22T23:40:17+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

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If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

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Title	Never initiates but is invested in conversation
Author	mcltnkariya
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	January 22, 2020 11:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/esk5jz/never_initiates_but_is_invested_in_conversation/
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