For people who haven't ever slept with a woman or been with a GF. If you were asked by a new girl you were dating "why didn't you have a GF in college?" or "why don't you date a girl in your college" what would you say?

grrinchas · 2020-01-31T10:00:23+00:00

I would say the truth:

"I was shy"

p.s. Sometimes women ask me how many "Women/gf I had?" or "Do I do this a lot?". When I say the truth they don't believe it anyway. Then, I ask their number and they change conversation themselves.

2020-01-31T10:54:54+00:00

They won't ever ask you that unless you tell them that.

silvertameframe · 2020-01-31T12:19:23+00:00

“Honestly? I just had no idea what the hell I was doing. I was insecure then in a way I’m not now. I didn’t understand that it really was as simple as just going up and talking to people”

quinnmcd · 2020-01-31T12:34:00+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to Ask Seddit (/r/askseddit), not to be confused with Ask Reddit.

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