Have any Indian/Asian guys been successful in online dating? If so, how?

persipicusaeustus · 2020-02-01T21:43:09+00:00

Nepali guy here, so I'm literally both. Chicks dig us ^{^.} As far as looks go - if you maintain good hygiene e.g nice haircut, brush your teeth you're good to go.

As far as online dating goes however, its not really a good indicator of how attractive you guys are. Every guy that online dates will recieve less results because girls have so many options. (For some reason, EVERY guy has the confidence to swipe right online, but can't do the approach in person.)

This is a rule of thumb when you meet new people, but applies to online dating too: Please acknowledge and respect the fact the person knows nothing about you They can't be friends and talk to everyone, since they have limited energy and time. Im sure you want to eat every restaurant in New York, but you can't because you dont have the time and money - you gotta choose.

However, if you want to online date, heres a few tips:

Have a simple bio my description for most sites was "Anime, guitar and other adventures..." It's good because it shows what my likes and dislikes are, without giving too much info in there that a girl might swipe left because text can be interpreted in different ways.

For texting, you just need three things: Fun, Care-free, passion. All I can say is try to figure out where you're at in the conversation and act accordingly. E. G if shes showing low interest, don't ask her to hang out yet. Throw energy into the void. This means make comments and statements, but dont expect anything in return. You can pop up with things like, "Nice bird, looks cool."

Just would like to say, women have too many options online. They might stop texting just because they feel like it, trust me.

Good luck though, generally I only talk to women that are showing high interest to me on dating apps. I don't have the time lol.

Good luck, hope this helps.

lifeunbalanced · 2020-02-01T22:04:43+00:00

I’m asain and I easily get matches on dating sites. It’s actually pretty easy. You got to put effort into the first impression. Girls want to meet a guy who’s fun and exciting. Also it’s a numbers game. Don’t put all your eggs to one basket until your exclusive. She’s going to be talking to ten guys same time as you. You should be doing the same for girls.

You even get girls who perfer asain guys on dating websites. Chinese girls love asain men, some white girls love asain men. Some specific black girls are interested. You definely shouldn’t put yourself down because your asain.

quinnmcd · 2020-02-01T23:19:11+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Thefocker · 2020-02-01T21:38:02+00:00

No. Absolutely no Indian/Asian guys have ever been successful with online dating... Might as well quit now.

Wtf kinda question is this? Go work on yourself.

Title	Have any Indian/Asian guys been successful in online dating? If so, how?
Author	AbdominatorX
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Date	February 1, 2020 8:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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