I attract people that I'm not attracted to and how do I attract the people that I am attracted to?

user1hec · 2020-02-08T01:44:15+00:00

I'm not the best looking guy out there. But I tend to date way out of my league so to speak. You know why? Cause I'm confident with myself. You will attract what you put out.

DonutMSG22 · 2020-02-08T06:16:21+00:00

Well you won’t attract everybody...obviously. As far as appearance goes at least. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t attract the people you want to attract at all. You will just have to work a little harder with your words and with your actions. Show them qualities of yourself that they might find attractive. If that does happen you can simply build on that and they’ll find themselves more and more attracted to you.

tjohnson718 · 2020-02-09T18:02:59+00:00

I attract people that I'm not attracted to and how do I attract the people that I am attracted to?

Literally the question every hot girl asks herself whenever she's out in public lol.

Unfortunately you can't pick and choose who's attracted to you. That's the trade-off for being good looking, the fat girl and her sexy friend will both think you're cute lol.

Another thing to consider is that the dating pool for attractive women is far higher vs attractive men with similar SMV, making it far easier to hold her companionship to a higher bidder (a cute guy vs a male model). Thus, it will be more likely that the majority of the girls throwing themselves at you will be women of a much lesser SMV who are also trying to "trade up".

The best thing you can do is to max out your looks so that the lower SMV women you eventually attract are still above average.

stompinalong · 2020-02-08T06:48:05+00:00

You’ve just gotta put yourself out there. I have the same problem but honestly, if you’re ever out and about and see someone you’d be interested in getting to know better, just walk up and start a conversation. You might be surprised at how easy it is once you’ve taken that first leap of faith!

WIA20XX · 2020-02-08T13:50:18+00:00

Men only choose, women attract and then choose.

Choose better.

Title	I attract people that I'm not attracted to and how do I attract the people that I am attracted to?
Author	Glad-Wallaby
Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	February 8, 2020 1:41 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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