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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Maybe the honey moon phase ended.
Edit: my bad I didn’t read it your post into detail. Some girls just suck at texting just like how some guys can’t do yoga. Just use texting as a way to make plans or dates.
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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah. Just be busy with your life. do something you want to do that interests you. And like others say just hang out more in person if you want. Girls like guys that are busy for some reason. In a sense , it is like pulling back but you’re pulling back to improve yourself so that’s a good thing.
Edit: don’t put too much weight on texting. It doesn’t even improve a relationship that much . The only thing you’re yearning for is the dopamine rush that you get from her attention through texts. Just use text as a way to plan hang outs and plans.
[–]SmartAbigail 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Definitely don't do this. She'll REALLY suspect something is up, which will just cause tension in the relationship.
I advise using other forms of communication (i.e calling her or video chats).
[–]Btek--- 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just meet her in person more. I don't message my gf a lot because we both suck at texting. Just try to arrange to see her more and talk about the meeting over text, the blunt replies are fine then because you simply want to plan something. Or maybe the honeymoon period is over.
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[–]Btek--- 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then just try to her in person more, if texting isn't really working then that's ok just work around it.
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