Post Sex - How To See Her Again (The High Value Way)

abbehardy · 2020-02-25T17:28:02+00:00

Video Summary:
So you’ve met a girl that you enjoy and like and you guys have spent some time and hooked up whether that is during a one night stand or during a first/second date.
Here’ is a very effective / time saving way to see her again:

* 1. The setup (before you part ways)

The last few minutes before you part ways it’s important to already set up the next meeting in the most high value way possible.

As you’re kissing or hugging goodbye, start off with a genuine compliment. Something that validates her experience with you. Don’t give a canned line. Tell her what you really like about her.

I can be anything. Expressing what you liked in the bedroom or something about her body or personality.

After you’ve spent a minute on that you want to proceed to the next step which is leaving the ball of when to hangout again in her court in such a way that’s she’s excited about the ball being in her court so that she actually hits you up in the future.

* 2. Leaving the ball in her court (The High Value Way)

You want to express / explain to her that you’re a busy guy who is working on his own projects and that she should hit you up if she wants to have another adventure.

Now for a lot guys this is going to be some kind of (concern) because they feel as if they don’t actively pursue a woman she’s going to fade out of existence, but what you have to understand is that if she had sex with you quickly during a one night stand or the first proper date then she already percieves you as an alpha male.

From that perspective you don’t want to be actively hitting her up all the time and bothering her. Perhaps the only thing she ever wanted from you was casual sex, and so by leaving the ball in her court (in the way described above) she can now text you whenever she wants to have another adventure.
If she doesn’t hit you back up what does that say about her level of interest in you?

It most likely that her interest in you is low and so anyway you would have been wasting a bunch of time, and if the case is that her interest in you is low after sex if it seems like you’re not really prioritizing her she and you have better things going for you she might hit you back up just to try to get on your radar.

No matter how long it takes for her to hit you back up don’t be butthurt. Even if it takes a week or two or a month or three months. It just means that she wants a piece of you now and so from there proceed to take things forward.

Last point here is that a high value male doesn't wait for anyone and so it’s important to understand that you’re not actively waiting during this time period of silence. The moment you part ways you’re mentally done with this girl and so that’s time to focus on YOU and what you want to do in your life or new girls that you could potentially meet.

Doing it this way you never have to think about making new plans with any girl you’ve hooked up with and you can properly focus all your energy on all the prior steps pre-sex which basically is showing the girl the most amazing time ever.
Cheers.

Title	Post Sex - How To See Her Again (The High Value Way)
Author	abbehardy
Upvotes	2
Comments	1
Date	February 25, 2020 5:27 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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