Last night I went through something that everyone goes through: a break-up. You're dating a girl, then all-of-the-sudden, BAM!, she wants something different. There is hurt and pain and pits in your stomach. Yada, yada, yada, you know the drill.

But actually, not for me. I do not have most of that pain, or stomach pits, or the willingness to try to get her back. I used to. I used to feel hurt inside with the sudden realization of how much she meant to me. I remember thinking, "damn, I would do anything or change anything to get her back".

Sure, I want her back and I think it would be great to have her back in my life. Also, I really did like this girl and did genuinely enjoy the time we spent together. So why am I not feeling those break-up feelings or even trying to get her back? Am I some sort of psychopath with no feelings or empathy now?

Some ladies would say that, lol, but that is not the case. I truly do have feelings and emotions like almost everyone else (those Dodo videos of people raising the rescue dogs always bring me to tears).

I think what is different now is that I am so much more secure with myself. I have been through this before and I know that there is so much more in my future. I know that I can go out tonight and meet amazing women and replace her entirely. It is such a fun level of confidence and I hope all of you guys can and will experience this sometime as well.

Also, I know how to get her back. I know that I could do it easily as well. This is not always the case, however I do know why she broke up with me and I can easily fix that shit. It is amazing though to feel like I do not even need to. I think that this feeling of not wanting her back and being comfortable living without her is even more attractive to her. I could post a couple of snap stories of me living my life fine and I am almost sure she will be back hitting me up.

Above all though, even if I do post some snaps stories and she never hits me up, I am so comfortable with that. This is knowledge and feelings that I never really had before as an average frustrated chump. Ever since studying the pick-up arts and going out to practice, I have learned so much. Even being a lurker on here (Seddit) has been incredibly insightful. A big thank you to all of you by the way.

So my message is simple for you guys, just keep at it! Keep approaching and keep working on yourselves. Break-ups can hurt but the more you study and keep at it, your confidence will not waver. You will know that there are so many more girls out there to approach so ending something with one just means you can start something with another!

TLDR: I got broken up with last night but pick-up has taught me so many amazing things so I know that I can get her back successfully, or find a new girl. However, whatever path I do choose, I will be perfectly happy.