First time poster. Long time reader of TRP. I've known about the TRP for about 3 years now. Just within the last year I started taking actions towards everything I've learned about it and it has improved me so much. The amount of information I've learned is honestly invaluable. But like everything in life, I'm still learning. Here's a situation that happened to me in the last 2 days.
My friends and I went to six flags and rented a hotel for 2 days there. We were two groups. My friend and me in one room, and the couple in the other. The second day of us being there, my friend gets called by one of his long time friend that she is going to be stopping by. Asked if its cool that they crash at our place that she'll bring a friend because she saw I was with him (snapchats). I agreed. They come and we go to the park to hang out. Right off the bat I can tell her friend was interested in me. She was only with me mostly through out the day. Rode some rides, had some drinks, talked, etc etc. Looking back at this actually. I was very aloof when I was hanging out with her. I just naturally started acting this way once I knew this girl was interested in me. Just don't know if I acted TOO aloof and fucked it up.
Anyways, at this point it's night time and my second group (the couple) had made a reservation for a show they wanted me to see. the girls were able to get into the show as well. As we are sitting there I can tell that his long time friend starts getting bored and impatient. I can see she starts to convince my friend to walk out of the show and go to a bar or something. They both try to convince me but I tell him I can't do that because (the couple) had made a reservation for ME to watch the show. Leaving would of been really dick move. Even the girl that likes me and was trying to convince me to leave. I chose to stay and they left. The show ends and we leave the park and (the couple) takes me back to my room.
I get up to my room and they're not there yet. I get a call from him completely plastered saying "she likes you bro, shes wants to fuck" slurred and everything. "Don't go to sleep, I'm going to be there in 10 mins, I'm coming from the bar". So I said cool. Jumped in the shower and laid in bed watching TV waiting for them. I completely knocked out. THREE HOURS LATER, they come back. I get woken by this motherfucker body slamming his body against mine. I don't remember much at this point other than him waking me up and that's it (too many drinks). In the morning I wake up and see the girl sleeping next to me. Realized my window of opportunity completely gone. We all get up, we say our good byes and that's it.
Now, my questions are, What are somethings I did wrong? My friend kept saying, you fucked up, you slipped.
Also I acted aloof with her throughout the park. I did not really escalate with her at all. Looking back I felt my attitude was "I'm here for the park, tag along" which I don't know if this was a bad thing or not honestly.
Lastly, I would like to hang out with her again but my friend is saying just forget about it till the next time. I have her number, should I do something? Or just forget about everything and move on.
Just trying to learn from my actions. -TK
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