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Bang and Day Bang are great resources. Read those.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 04:41 AM
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And how does he do with women?
/r/askTRP07/05/17 01:06 AM
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Become the type of person, who other people want to be a part of. You're young, so this is reality will take time, but start the mindset now.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 10:16 PM
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LIFT. Lift weights, lift your body, lift women. Your body will naturally balance out because currently there is very little testosterone flowing through your veins.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 02:31 AM
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"He" is probably into her. Kino in front of him to be sure, and if you see envy this will confirm it. Either way, continue as if you never heard it. Don't disqualify yourself for her.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 02:29 AM
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Good genes will only take a child so far. That being said, my reasons are far different than yours. Tying yourself up with a single mother sounds like a headache, and is very often suggested against here. I would only consider it if the father had passed away, or some other unfortunate event. My reasons for adopting, there are enough people in this world and too many orphans for me to consider bringing more into it. I would make a great father to any child, mine biologically or otherwise.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 08:15 AM
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https://youtu.be/8Uee_mcxvrw https://youtu.be/6vopR3ys8Kw https://youtu.be/MV_3Dpw-BRY
/r/askTRP20/02/17 02:59 AM
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Listen to music that makes you sexy, and it will get the tingles going. Big Sean sounds homophobic as fuck.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:15 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2zckqu/updated_glossary_of_terms_and_acronyms/
/r/askTRP18/02/17 09:20 PM
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Look up Ex Officio briefs. The most damn comfortable things you'll put on your dick, outside a pair of lips. For $35 a pop, they're worth every penny.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 07:49 PM
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If she's religious I'm convinced this is ASD, especially if other people saw you two (which it sounds like they did).
/r/askTRP17/02/17 07:45 PM
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I'd only adopt, for the record. Find your frame and live within it, the ladies fall in line.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 05:11 PM
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Right, but don't be a sperg about it. Adjust your game accordingly to your style.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 07:50 PM
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Go for no.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:10 PM
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In the same boat. Good premise, but I made it about halfway before scrolling down to find out how it was.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:57 AM
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Great post, solid methods. I'll take it one step further too, since you're such an important and busy man, when you are available text her to call you. Shit works.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:05 PM
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Honestly, what she said sounds like a shit test. But as far as pulling away without being butt hurt, literally look at anything else around you and imagine it is more interesting than this girl. You don't gotta make it obvious, just to imply that she's being very not interesting right now.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 10:03 PM
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"Are you still my orbiter even though I am sucking someone else's cock tonight?" That's what she meant. Are you cool with being friends on those terms, or do you still have ulterior motives with her?
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:39 PM
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Cold shoulder totally works. Make sure it doesn't come from butthurt, rather you've got better things to be focusing on if she's not meeting you on your terms.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:36 PM
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Proverbs, you say. Could you point out a section or two in particular?
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:34 PM
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Well I don't know about what you're asking, but only having sex with a plate six times is hardly a plate. You should look into why these girls aren't sticking around longer than a couple romps.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:19 PM
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Get a less attractive gf.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 05:09 PM
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Are you literally blind? Try sign language.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 05:07 PM
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Maybe it's a bunch of pics of her hamming it up all over town. Brace for the worst, but imagine she's loaded and doesn't want you to be a gold digger.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 05:04 PM
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Oh man, on my path my mom totally shit tests me. It's crazy because you can literally just agree and amplify and she will figure it out. Try it next time. Oh you thought I was being creepy? Next time you talk to a chick tell her you did it because your mom said you wouldn't, and then watch your moms reaction. Night and day.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 12:08 PM
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I started with the sidebar straight through, then the best of Rollo Tomassi Year One. After that there's a Red Pill required reading list, I'm on mobile but if you search that it'll show up. Read just about every book on there. Honestly other than that, I read just about every post on TRP and AskTRP for a month or two. It wasn't necessarily because I needed girls or loved them or anything, I was just so fascinated that there was a community that had so thoroughly researched something unspoken. Y…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 11:58 AM
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Do you lift? Seriously though, take it slower with those ones. Anything sexual and she will be really into you. Be the one she wants to do those things with.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:19 AM
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I feel ya. When I want a boost, I imagine that I'm in the jungle and there is literally a jaguar staring at me. It sets me on the hunt, in a sense.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:15 AM
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Huh, my group meets on Thursday's.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 06:50 AM
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What is value that isn't enjoyed and benefitted by both parties?
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:57 AM
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I'm stealing that.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:54 AM
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Yup, I've used SAA and got results. I recommend it as a method to overcome unhealthy addictive sexual behavior.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:49 AM
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It will change if you let it. But there's blood in the water, and now you know about it.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:48 AM
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Preface, I'm on mobile. If money isn't an issue, use your insurance and go see a PT. Get that back looked at and do what is available to you to get it fixed. Do cool things, and you'll get friends. I had a hard time making new friends until I became someone I wanted to be friends with, and now things are easier. Good friends are still hard to come by though. As for girls, I've seen some recent shit about it but this is the purpose of monk mode. You're not at the point where you can go out and co…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:47 AM
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Find and read The Rationale Male by Rollo Tomassi.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:53 PM
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I agree with you. It is the best dread, anything overt and you've already crossed into territory where you're "needing it."
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 12:29 PM
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It seems simple, but "Do I l know you?" works fairly straightforward as an opener.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 12:25 PM
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I read somewhere on here that the harder you are, the softer they become.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 12:20 PM
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And figuring out that balance is where the magic happens. Knowing when to be dominantly assertive and pleasantly coy can make all the difference.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:07 PM
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Learn how to smile with your eyes.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:42 AM
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I have schizoaffective, and I don't victimize myself when life happens. A couple years ago everything was shit, and I mean everything, but one day at a time I started to change. Today I'm one of the fittest people I know, can talk to the hottest girl in the room without breaking a sweat, and I enjoy the fuck out of it. So put in the work, find a therapist/psychiatrist that you get results from. Start exercising, do anything as long as you're consistent. Read the sidebar, and reread the sidebar. …
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:31 PM
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Reward good behavior, withdraw attention from bad behavior.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:45 PM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:44 PM
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Reading little bits from that gave me a stomach ache, I can only imagine how she feels.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:07 PM
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Then... do it? Let her go or open it up.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 04:21 AM
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If they add to your life, keep them around. If you add to their life, stay around. Otherwise be accountable for your life and move on.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 07:17 AM
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This is about how I have been. I appreciate the confirmation.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 04:57 AM
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Dear God no, haha. I've sensed there has been a change in our relationship since my swallowing the pill, I'm glad what I'm hearing is in line with how I've been acting.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 04:57 AM
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Not a personal fan then, but respect his work?
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:53 AM
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Come to your own conclusions from the Bible.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 11:17 PM
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Why aren't you a fan of Models?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 12:58 AM
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That's what I most took from it. I think I'm in a same boat as he was, extreme abstinence, but I'm daily reading and seeing the effects of TRP and the nature of women. I've also got a history of sexuality so I now what I'll be walking into.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 03:33 PM
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I'm guessing it didn't happen.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 12:18 AM
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Personally, my biggest bump of T comes from not masturbating. After about a week my body goes into hunt mode.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 05:54 AM
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Still, once you've gotten the responses you need delete the pictures.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 01:36 AM
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No.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 12:30 AM
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Haha, read that as hood values. Complete opposite.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 06:16 PM
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Check your T levels. Also try kegels.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 06:14 PM
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The chick from transformers, look her up and you'll see it.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 06:12 PM
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Seventy percent of the time, it works every time.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:37 PM
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"The pain of regret is worse than the pain of rejection." - Models by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP10/01/16 08:05 AM
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For real, this kind of time frame seems long but it's really a drop in the bucket at 21.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 05:48 AM
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Unshakeable confidence indeed.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 05:47 AM
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Oddly enough I follow a religion, but I can count the number of Christians I have met in program on one hand. I live in a very liberal city, I think of it as the armpit of feminism. The whole higher power thing is just a tool to submit that you can't control your life or addiction, and you believe that something out there can help. Often people use the group as a whole, it doesn't have to be some supreme universe watching entity.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 05:31 AM
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Don't you dare get oneitis. Good luck.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 05:23 AM
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The Power of Now fully described the process I went through, but prior to reading the book. The process I went through was working the twelve steps, which incorporate deep spiritual principles into your every day life.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:31 AM
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I 100% agree. I see too many hippy types get lost in how they have to "dissolve their ego." I think the ego is very important, but like anything else it can run rampant. My ego is my nature, a tool I use when it suits me.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:30 AM
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Dude lets hear an update on how tomorrow goes. Good luck.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 05:44 AM
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I'm about six months in, and I had no idea that I would be who I am today. And I've still got years to go before I'll seriously consider anything long term, so I really can't even imagine what I'll be like then. The more I grow, the more I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 02:39 AM
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I knew it was something along these lines, thanks for the insight.
/r/askMRP01/01/16 02:36 AM
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I was trying to sort out the time you left. It would be insane to think you had left for six months and had already internalized enough of the concepts to take out into the world.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:33 AM
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Hey, question about the timeline. You've only been on TRP for six months, or you just took six months off of TRP? I couldn't tell.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 02:56 AM
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He means you're overthinking it.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:18 PM
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Your personal opinion, do you think it is different if the guy cheats?
/r/askMRP28/12/15 06:29 PM
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I would say I'm in the same boat as the other guy, minus the girlfriend. Well on my way from when I started. My question though, when you came back from boot camp was your wife the first girl you dated? As in, did you have to practice with other chicks before you "got it down," or was your character just so true that it was easily lived out. I can't see myself dating for practice, but right now had the thought that when I get there it will be practice either way (if it leads to marriage or not).
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 06:27 PM
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Eventually this is why I came to believe it, but when I first got here I was desperate for answers. I can only assume others have fallen into this trap. Now today I'm able to judge between what works for me and what doesn't, but until that point I took in what I heard worked for others.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:42 PM
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Your comment would have been amazing for me to read in asktrp when I first got here. If not on a sticky, then in a sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:56 AM
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It's in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:53 AM
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I agree. In reality I'm also mysterious, so it goes with the territory.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 09:07 PM
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Interesting. In my Facebook, I actually only have two pictures so far and I've had girls intrigued by the mystery of it.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 01:23 AM
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Fair enough. Are you in program? I've got an AA conference this weekend I'm pretty pumped about.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 08:50 PM
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Damn dude, I'm right behind you with two years and three months. What reason do you usually give people? I've tended to stay away from "I've had a problem" because it gives off a what are you doing here vibe. Honestly though, partying sober is awesome. A much fuller experience.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 08:38 PM
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Fuck yea. I could see that being near impossible with an ex, especially one was blue for.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:14 PM
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Makes perfect sense. That way there is no reading between the lines.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:13 PM
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How'd the rehab go? Grats on making that step.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 06:45 PM
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Hey, similar question but a little different. I'm in monk now but in a month and a half when I'm planning on coming out of it I was going to hit up a couple old plates. No one I had strong feelings for, just sex. I was naturally rp back when we were hooking up, and they've expressed interest in me since then. I've always been natural rp with hookups, but blue in relationships. I think I'll be fine, they're both still into me. Would you advise against it? I see it as an easy way back into the gam…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 06:43 PM
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Plus, you can swing for sluts with more ease now.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 06:39 PM
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Is keeping the conversation so blunt and minimal normal, or just in the context of this type of conversation?
/r/askTRP15/12/15 06:38 PM
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I won't. I've heard so many horror stores around it, but it seems like just another shit test to AA, amused mastery, etc.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 06:35 PM
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I agree 100%. I'm not condoning blue behavior, but in the case it slips out I'll know how to respond.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 06:32 PM
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Hey, so I'm much more confident around women now. I've swallowed the red pill quite a while ago, but I've still got some blue in me. I know it wouldn't be good, but if I blue pill something should I just go with it, rather than second guess? I'm sure if I catch it I could at least play it off.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 03:16 PM
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Gotcha, but don't be the one to bring it up.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 02:45 PM
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When do you tell a plate you're not exclusive? Versus telling them through your actions.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 09:16 PM
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I hear that. Yea, I'm definitely not as far in left field as I would think I am. I'm going through some serious life changes currently and that is the root of what is throwing me off, but that should clear up here in the next few months. I'm pretty pumped, just to get back in the swing of things.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:24 PM
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I wasn't OP in this reply. I text for logistics.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 07:45 PM
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This is me 100%. In my head I knew I had years to go, and I've been told that, but I still need to hear it again.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 07:44 PM
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Super basic I know, but I can't figure out how to get them to chase me. Is my smv too low, or my game too shitty? Looking for honest feedback, not to complain.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:24 AM
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What do you mean about improvements reading a while to notice when you're young?
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:16 AM
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I understood it as his abundance mentality sucks.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:38 PM
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Yea, for the most part. I usually only date pretty high caliber chicks, and they don't want to have to deal with that half the time. The ones I'm obviously interested in are the ones who can see how I've grown through it. It's just a screening process. Bear in mind, Ionly tell chicks about half the time. Just if I'm feeling it.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 11:11 PM
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Women care about accomplishments and interests when it benefits them, in the vaguest sense.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 05:17 AM
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1's and 0's, all I see.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 03:36 PM
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Guaranteed.
/r/askMRP28/11/15 07:08 AM
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A&A
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 09:35 AM
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Yea, I've heard enough about him to see my ignorance, and I knew that when I asked the question. But I still had to ask it, if not than to know more about him. I'm still reading his book and enjoying it thoroughly, and I'll finish it. I just knew something wasn't clicking.
/r/askMRP26/11/15 02:19 AM
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Yes indeed, I think relative SMV is the defining matter in it.
/r/askMRP25/11/15 10:20 PM
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This is true, looks are only skin deep. Especially when a woman is evaluating you.
/r/askMRP25/11/15 06:33 PM
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Hahaha, yes you are right. The proof is very much in the pudding. With results like his I'm sure men would do much stranger things.
/r/askMRP25/11/15 03:33 PM
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No, no by all means. I knew I didn't have it figured out and that is why I came to ask. I'm young and learning, and gainfully aware of that. It was an ignorant question, but a question I needed to ask for my own deeper understanding of long term success in marriage.
/r/askMRP25/11/15 03:31 PM
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And I will say that's interesting, what having that strong frame can do to your marriage well into it. I knew the dynamics went well beyond what I way understanding.
/r/askMRP25/11/15 03:29 PM
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Great point, this is actually the chapter I am in now.
/r/askMRP25/11/15 03:28 PM
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This is actually something I thought he lucked out with, that his fan base is not always looking like Daniel Craig.
/r/askMRP25/11/15 03:27 PM
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Day Bang is also really good, that's more my style.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 05:06 AM
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Bang by Roosh comes to mind.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 03:58 PM
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Yup. Would need to slow down the rotation of earth is all.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 02:21 AM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 02:09 AM
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I'm at like 14% now, and I look fit. I can only imagine what I'll look like under 10%.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:39 PM
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Depression hit me pretty hard over the weekend, as you can see leading up to it there was no exercise. I'm getting back into commute biking though, so I'll be needing to count calories. I'll update my information here.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 10:54 PM
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Just start with what you slept and ate today, and any exercise. You can start doing it today and get more days in than 80% of the people that posted here. As for home workouts, there are plenty of calisthenics you can do. I currently only workout at home with a pull up bar and some incline pushups. Legs are hit by commuting by bike. The possibilities are endless.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 08:06 AM
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I noticed this too, much of my music in high school was very blue music. Metro Station, Owl City, Escape the Fate, etc. Granted this wasn't ALL my music, but it was a portion. Nowadays I listen to EDM mostly for the upbeat energy, hardcore/metal for when I'm feeling angry, acoustic stuff for when I'm relaxing. That said: The Ghost Inside, The Gallows, Amon Amarth, Dragonforce, Kygo, Deadmau5, Shakey Graves, Jack Johnson.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 09:56 AM
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Just a heads up, it is very possible to be Christian and TRP.
/r/TRPOffTopic09/11/15 09:19 AM
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It really is like swallowing the red pill, because once you do there is no turning back. There's no point after where you'll be like, "No, maybe it is not true." You only see more and more of it every day, and the entire reclaiming of your manhood. There is nothing like it.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 12:40 PM
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Adderall mainly, then it shifted into some psychedelics by the end of it. Granted this was through high school, and it all came to a head freshman year of college. This was all years ago now, I've got almost two years and two months.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 09:10 AM
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I just wrote out a couple pages about the personal growth I've been going through, and how not sharing and talking about that has led to a little bit of a spiritual decay. It's great, the shit works. As soon as I wrote it all out I figured out how trite it all is it clicked for me. This is something I can give back, without having to get too overzealous. I'll be meeting with him tomorrow and discussing it, I'm really looking forward to it. I will get in touch though, "there is nothing more power…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 07:41 AM
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We have a friend who's parents from a young age would take him to hippy festivals, I'm talking ten years old. They would then give him and his brother shit for not taking enough psychedelics. Come full circle, him and his brother rebel against their parents by becoming lawyers. Ha!
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 05:17 AM
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Two years, a month, and three weeks. One day at a time.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:01 AM
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Yea, I'm 100% sure he'll do fine with it. I just needed some encouragement from the group that I've been trusting my confidence in lately. It's just as freeing, asking the question here, as it will be when I write all this out and share it with him tomorrow.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:01 AM
94

Heard in TRPWomen: Single mothers are ewww, single fathers are awww.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 01:59 AM
1

Step 5: Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. It takes the shame out of it all. I found out stuff I've been through most people have been through, and things that were a huge deal to me didn't need to be. It showed me that I can be honest with myself on a deep level and nothing bad will happen.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:37 PM
1

In the vein of, sometimes the skills we have at the time just isn't enough for what we want. Good thing abundance mentality keeps us from getting slogged down. I think he could've hit her up, he just didn't because he didn't know/wasn't sure/etc.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:43 AM
1

Hmm, I see that.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:41 AM
1

Yea, I've got a 30 day free at the BJJ place, and a 7 day at the UFC gym. I'll be judging it off of the people I find there more than anything, which is usually the opposite of what I do. I think that's where my next stage of growth lies. The UFC place seemed a little less intense, there were a bunch of kids and moms when I was there.....
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:23 AM
2

Yea man, yea. This is definitely how I've felt with TRP, that it has given me masculine ideals I can live behind without shame. I don't have to blast them over the intercom though. I'll write this shit out, and talk with him a little beforehand because I need it. Since so much personal improvement has been happening with TRP, I've been disdain to share it in meetings which only gets in the way of that spiritual growth. My biggest ditch with women has been turning them into a mental addiction, wh…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:20 AM
1

Let's see some numbers.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 10:06 AM
1

Nice job turning your world around. I'm in a similar boat and that shit ain't no joke.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:46 AM
3

Well Boobsucker123, sometimes the ones we want get away. That's why there's 8976213462 more out there.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:44 AM
1

Personally, I bike every day. Not exactly the same, but similar to surfing. An hour plus each day. Back for a while, my first two years getting into lifting I only lifted twice a week. Full body, 30-45 high intensity workouts. Gradually the weight got higher, and my body got bigger. Not shredded results, but results. This was before I was biking. Now with less time, I get in three short upper body workouts a week. Like less than a half hour, at home. It's all about making it a priority. Once it'…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:39 AM
2

Just be sure to keep her ASD at bay, and make it "in the moment/it just happened" so she can hamster it away.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:35 AM
-1

No?
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:29 AM
2

Fake it til you motherfucking make it. For real man, the shit works. Play it small, one thing didn't go your way? There's two that can literally around the corner.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:27 AM
1

Hey, MMA question. I've got two gyms I'm looking at. One is full on BJJ, $125 a month. The other is a "UFC Gym" and it offers a couple BJJ classes, boxing, muay thai, weights, etc. It's also cheaper and closer to home, so I'm thinking that one. Could you weigh in though?
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:26 AM
1

This is one of those situations where it comes down to your morals. On the one hand, homie isn't running his game tight. On the other, would you do to another what you wouldn't want done to yourself?
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:22 AM
3

You gotta look at it this way though, the skills you'll get through all this approaching and being above getting manipulated will take you far. This is what I mean. By throwing myself into situations (like with girls) where I'm out on a limb I have to think on the fly, use things I've learned, in a very contextual/analytical/personal way, I'm growing as a person. What I want in life more than anything is to grow as a person. This is why I pursue music, exercise, history, business, a social life,…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 08:34 AM
6

Get more social. Just throw yourself at the mercy of the crowd, and learn from experience. You will pick up on it quick.
/r/becomeaman07/11/15 06:45 AM
2

Gotta keep your compass sharp.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 06:10 AM
3

I get this. Honestly, try it out. Take it as a chance at some personal self improvement. Last chick I was talking to showed me how much I still need to improve to consistently get quality women. I love that.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 05:44 AM
1

Literally the entire TRP sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 05:41 AM
2

Go out more. Go to bars alone and walk up to a group of people, introduce yourself, be curious about them. Be funny. Learn how to be funny. Go out more.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 05:40 AM
1

I'm going through this exactly now, and winning the mental battle. I'm not pursuing anyone, but the other day a cool chick crossed my path so I got her number. I'm only concerned with marriage. Since it's just the one, I'm having to be mindful that a couple gold stars don't make a wife, and there are LOTS of women who have these gold stars. But the one girl thing is making it more difficult, I just don't have the desire to pursue in general right now. And honestly today I'm welcoming the challen…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:17 PM
1

Well I don't intend to legally "marry," as common law marriage isn't a thing in my state. I'll be wedded in God's eyes though, have the ceremony and all that jazz. I haven't ironed out all the details though, they will come in time.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 08:09 PM
1

Yo, for real? That's been a gripe for me, girls being conscious that I'm playing game. I figure, it displays high value. But I want to squirrel it away as an excuse.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 10:18 AM
1

If that were the case then I might as well not be Christian.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 09:53 AM
1

Gotcha.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 09:51 AM
1

I've dated chicks with alpha traits both while I was beta, and when I was in a naturally alpha state. Women enjoy the alpha, hands down, around the clock. There's no substitution. When I was beta, shit was cash because, well, it was hot. But that's a negative pipe dream, I looked for a motherly love from her, it was unhealthy. When I was alpha and with the alpha chick, it was great. Throughout her day she was a boss, super confident, and then around me she just became putty. It felt great knowin…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:11 AM
1

Makes sense. Would you factor this into LTRs any different? Maybe a ratio or something. Plates aren't my thing.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:06 AM
1

You ever suck dick for fallout 4?
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:49 AM
1

I'd say an alpha woman is someone who makes the decisions in the relationship. If you're dating a super beta dude, then you're going to be having to be making some executive decisions. She doesn't have to fuck you over. I would relate it to Type-A personalities, and why it usually doesn't work best where there are two in a relationship.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:44 AM
1

I've seen a comment where saying "out of the blue" is like a call sign for us. If I see or hear some one talking red pill ish, I'll throw it out there.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:31 AM
1

Why is a failed comfort test a good thing?
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:29 AM
1

Same here, I've had one small outbreak and haven't had it since. It's really not a big deal.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:28 AM
1

Be more social and it well click more easily. Have emotional conversations with people you trust, and you'll learn where the lines are.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:25 AM
1

ASD all the way.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:22 AM
1

Someone has to wear the pants in the relationship.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:19 AM
1

You.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:15 AM
2

I've only read and heard good things about marrying virgins.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:14 AM
2

The Book of Pool talks about the line between nice guy and jerk, and how that spot is so much better. It is called the Don Juan. Read the Book.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:13 AM
1

Yea, for some reason those subs aren't on the side of TRP.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:12 AM
1

I'm not sure what you mean...
/r/askMRP06/11/15 05:56 AM
1

Yea, I'm also in communication with other Christians who have walked these paths. I'll keep this in mind about the sub though, I'm trying to keep things on the path of a TRP LTR mindset and asktrp can skew plate-heavy unintentionally.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 05:45 AM
1

Can it really be this easy? I feel the answer is yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 03:14 AM
1

I think this sounds right.
/r/askMRP05/11/15 11:07 PM
2

This is exactly what I was looking for. The answer I knew existed but couldn't put into words. I can live like that.
/r/askMRP05/11/15 11:07 PM
1

Naw, naw, I am fine with some dread and frame. My mention of it was to say I can't build attraction through sex or messing around, and that answers should keep this context. I firmly believe TRP fits in well with Christian beliefs.
/r/askMRP05/11/15 11:06 PM
1

This is exactly the "old books" that men are taught, while in today's culture women operate under a "new set of books."
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 08:38 PM
1

This is brilliant, and needs more exposition. There is currently a gap on TRP for LTRs, and how to handle the more "beta" stuff in a TRP way. I mean accepting women will be emotional and what to do about it, how to avoid being an emotional tampon while still being supportive, keeping mysterious over a longer period of time, etc.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 08:35 PM
1

Yea, not my can of beans. Christian red piller here, so it gets sticky.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 08:32 PM
1

Brilliant.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 08:31 PM
1

Yea I get that, but at what point, when and how do you actually get into it? I'm sure you have to at some point.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 05:36 AM
2

I'm reading through the 48 Laws of Power and this plays directly in. Makes sense.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:20 AM
1

There was a comment with the term "amused ambiguity," which I think is a great way to put it. But I think your interpretation is spot on, and an incredibly healthy way to demonstrate value.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:20 AM
7

What does that look like in an LTR? And where could I find more information about that? I've thought about tabling things when they get hot, and reintroducing them later. This seems like the only way to keep things in my court.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 09:00 PM
1

I actually looked that up yesterday, and there is no common law in my state. My only other thought was to get married in another country, as another option, but my state recognises out of state legal marriages. My main concern is buying a house, or the down payment, before I get into all that. That way it's in my name so I don't have to worry about that arising.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 06:25 PM
1

You are mistaken, there are plenty of good reasons to have social media.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:05 AM
2

Damn, that's genius.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:00 AM
1

What's your goal for the cut?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 05:45 AM
2

I use FatSecret.com, it's a really easy way to keep track of calories and macros. Throw yourself at this for a month, commit to it. That's what this post is here for.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 05:43 AM
2

I use FatSecret.com, it's a really easy way to just throw my food in for the day and get macros.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 05:42 AM
1

I was at 1,600 for a while on a cut, I have a desk job so I wasn't expending much energy during the day.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 05:41 AM
1

Get the sleep in man, make it a priority for the month.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 05:39 AM
2

Young Christian here chiming in. I'm not going to be getting married for a good nother handful of years, and as such I'm not really going to be pursuing hard between now and then. But when I do get to that point, I'm not going to get legally married today. I'll have the ceremony, and be "wedded" in God's eyes, but I won't let marriage be used as a weapon against me. I've recently, as well as in the past, seen this happen with my dad. That's not a future I can look forward to.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 05:36 AM
2

RocketManV reporting in. Will post update when I'm home and off mobile. November 3rd Sleep: 8 hours Nutrition: 2500 calories 100gf 225gc 175gp Activity: 3.5 mile bike commute/rest day November 4th Sleep: 8 hours Nutrition: 3000 calories 140gf 210gc 196gp Activity: bis/tris/delts/chest November 5th Sleep: 8 hours Nutrition: 2500 calories 090gf 200gc 180gp Activity: core/woke up late, no cardio November 6th Sleep: 8 hours Nutrition: 2750 calories 100gf 230gc 221gp Activity: rock climbing 30-45 min…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:00 AM
2

Ahh, I don't know much about the movement. It makes sense from where you're coming from. I think I live in a peculiar bubble, because I'm a recovering addict. We see men all the time who weren't able to deal with life as it was presented to them, but are making that return to normal life. Granted, they're not doing a whole lot of complaining, but real work in order to make that change.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 11:59 PM
2

Don't get it mixed though, this is a place for the discussion of sexual strategy. We don't say your happiness has to be contingent on getting laid, but that is what this place is for. Turning this place into a "self improvement" sub is just another step towards feminization. This place was born out of a movement away from that.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 07:09 PM
1

When I got in my medication it was immediately night and day. It's amazing how we've figured this stuff out as well as we have.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 04:34 PM
1

As per the sidebar, this is a place for the discussion of sexual strategy. A component of sexual strategy is self improvement, so it gets talked about. And as for plate spinning, it's the easiest route to getting laid so it's what most people do. There are a lot of benefits to it. But there are still a good number of people on TRP who pursue relationships and monogamy. Myself included, I'm in the boat where I won't even consider spinning plates, it just first doesn't line up with my morals.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 04:33 PM
3

While I agree with your last statement, isn't there some merit to the MRA movement? Equal legal rights for marriage and custody, domestic abuse, etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 08:24 PM
1

This question has been asked numerous times, use the search function. There was a post about this on the TRP main page yesterday, look that one up.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:31 PM
5

This type of post is literally a humble brag. But a very shitty, very shitty attempt at it.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 12:59 PM
7

Sorry bro, you're becoming a self fulfilling prophecy. Get what you can out of it in terms of experience, but don't put much hope in this going anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 12:52 PM
1

The book, that is. I'm good on therapy.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 12:19 PM
1

I don't know how far in you are, but I just recently hit the depression stage. Honestly, right now I don't give a shit about women when I used to put in a good chunk of time into them. I figure I'll use the time to keep working on myself and pursuing what I find valuable right now. If and when I come full circle to getting back on that boat happens, I'll be more ready for it. That just isn't right now.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 08:46 AM
1

Definitely second getting a guy. I had a guy for the duration of my therapy and I felt much more comfortable than I would've with a woman, especially talking about sexual stuff.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 07:08 AM
1

Hmm, I'll look into the book then. I spent about a year working with a therapist and through that was able to walk easily through the two biggest things that emotionally scarred me in life. YMMV
/r/askTRP01/11/15 07:07 AM
8

Two years man, that's the reality of the pill smacking you right in the face. Cut your losses, say you stay with her and this happens ten years down the road. Then what? You've found out now, two years and not ten years down the road, that this isn't a woman you are willing to "spend the rest of your life with."
/r/askTRP01/11/15 07:03 AM
1

The dense nutritional content in Models feeds me on a much deeper level than any front page posts do. I think it's easy to get caught up reading the front all the time, but the people in there learned what they did by reading the books.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:57 AM
1

Hmmm, indeed it does.
/r/askMRP30/10/15 04:31 AM
1

Honestly I keep hearing from God stay single, and whether that's for the next five to eight years (as I project until I'll consider marriage) or the rest of my life I'll just have to wait on. I do believe this though, that the church was able to stigmatize hypergamy to a healthy point. But women aren't the only ones to blame in that downfall. I'm lucky though, the church I've just joined has as far as I can tell, an incredibly red pill minded pastor. I was at a more liberal church and I ended up…
/r/askTRP30/10/15 01:02 AM
1

I hear ya man. Lots of work for sure, years in my book. Do what's right for you.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 12:51 AM
1

Yea this new church I've found is very Baptist reminiscent.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 12:50 AM
1

Yea, I was just thinking today I should be spending more time over there. I'll take on their suggested readings into my list.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 05:05 PM
2

It can go both ways, I'm sure. The fact that it was happening is a sign to its efficacy.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:03 PM
2

This is the book that I've recently read which opened my eyes more. I think much of it was basic at face value, but worth the read.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:02 PM
2

Cool man, cool. I'd like to talk more with you about this over time. I think this is why I have had such difficulties making male relationships in the church, I see so many men unwilling to be men..... And I say that in a but by the grace of God, there go I, because I have. I want to relate this story to you, because it made so much sense to me and this is the venue for it. This couple at my church that I'm talking about, it's really what drew me into the Red Pill. I'm intrinsically sex negative…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:02 AM
2

Yea, but I think he wants to tighten up the edges.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 02:24 AM
1

Dude, there is nothing wrong with having this shit down. There is nothing wrong with aligning yourself to something because they "have it figured out." Go with that until you can learn what you like, because through that you can learn how to develop this.
/r/becomeaman29/10/15 01:20 AM
2

Haha, love the username.
/r/becomeaman29/10/15 01:18 AM
2

People naturally shift their body language to the person in control. Next time you're on a date, try it. Cross one leg, see if she'll reciprocate. Then fold your hands. If she's subconsciously following suit, you know you're taking the lead.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 12:50 AM
15

He experienced social anxiety, and rather than not having a solution to it he was able to combat it with things he has learned.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 12:48 AM
1

If physical violence was the psychological weapon of men in the past, is it currently our attention?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:40 AM
1

She does that a lot when I bust on her. That's what he said.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:29 PM
1

Hmm. I'll think about it.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:33 PM
1

Thanks man, this is the reinforcement I needed to hear.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:33 PM
1

I'll also throw some meditation in there, that's never been a tough one for me.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:32 PM
1

That might be why I recently got into melodic death metal while biking. Sure seems to kick the feeling.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:32 PM
1

I recently switched to biking for commute and pull in at least ten miles a day. Less lifting, but not nothing.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:31 PM
1

Gotcha.
/r/askMRP25/10/15 06:11 PM
1

Yea, this seems to border more on dread game.
/r/askMRP24/10/15 08:03 AM
3

I've always applied this book to the business sphere more than anything else.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:42 PM
3

Just this. This week I rearranged my desktop so I have to take my monitor off the ground, on the side of my desk, before I can use it. It's working great, because nite it's much easier to just sit on my comfy chair and read.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:41 PM
2

How big of a shift is there to mentally change who is the alpha?
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:22 PM
1

You're laughable, but I'll amuse it. We need to communicate for a convention we're helping organize. She's tall and bigger than I'm into. I was recommended to game her by those voted higher than you, so that she will have good things to say to her friends.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:44 PM
1

I have no intention of asking this chick out
/r/askTRP21/10/15 06:53 PM
1

We volunteer together.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 06:41 PM
1

Yea, I figured as much. I gave her an AA reply, not going to send anything after that.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 03:39 AM
1

Internalize the other reply to this comment and you will never feel let down when a chick says no.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:04 AM
1

I've had it explained to me like this. All women have hypergamous traits, but the degree to which they express it can be different. This helped me not only get over the anger phase, but believe there are chicks that are more worth it out there.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:01 AM
1

Obviously. Conquest holds no prisoners!
/r/askTRP20/10/15 07:32 PM
1

Yea, me too. Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 07:31 PM
1

Be sure to link the ocolus rift version.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:24 PM
2

My brother, a heroin addict, is on the path to recovery. My parents would say, "So and so really needs to get well." And I reply "No, no that is not what he should be doing."
/r/askTRP20/10/15 05:00 AM
1

Behold, a situation in which the nuclear shut down is an option.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:56 AM
1

Truth. Little FR, once this game thing starts to roll it does. In class today and I had girls going out of their way to get my attention, and I'm only scratching the surface of my potential. Game on.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:46 AM
1

Thanks man, I needed that little back up.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:30 AM
1

Fuck man, I knew there was a reason I gravitated toward you. My last dilemma has been figuring out exactly what I want, and not an hour ago I got it. I want commitment from a girl, without offering it myself. I've had this in the past, before I beta'd up, but it would be providence that I'd find a post about it just now, let alone from you. It only adds that I fully consider myself sigma, far more dedicated to myself than being social on a massive scale.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 08:08 AM
1

I mean I read it, so yes. Much better to whatever it was.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 07:39 AM
3

I mean, yes to the last part if at all possible. But the whole point of that is to start now. Work on what you can, and leave the rest. Shit sucks, but you are a man. You have the ability to overcome this fear. Get fit, get clothes that look great on you, a sexy haircut, and above all a killer attitude. Become funny. There are so many ways to overcome.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 07:39 AM
1

Used the search function, I'm sitting here reading this comment like "damn this seems so familiar....." Scroll down further, and I had commented on it .
/r/askTRP19/10/15 06:07 AM
3

Your frame, not hers. If she wants to fuck, cool, but its your frame she's entering. Define it for yourself, how you want it to be, and live that out.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 05:53 AM
1

Side dish, main dish. Maybe these posts are better off in r TRPOffTopic, but lets be real, who would ever see them there?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 06:20 AM
3

I mean I got into recovery, which is the long way around for what you're looking for. Today I'm as confident as ever, but it came through writing and talking about my insecurities on a consistent basis. Addiction: first it's fun, then it's fun and problems, then it's just problems.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 07:10 PM
1

You've gotten a solid reply. Focus now so in college you can more easily be a Don Juan. Do this by learning how to be social, like suggested. As for now though, in high school, just have some fun. Make jokes with people sitting next to you, be a goof and people will gravitate to you. Comedy is the hero in the high school social scene. Wants tips for how to be funny? Ask away.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 07:07 PM
3

I've got style I'm comfortable in, but I wouldn't mind a read up. I'm sure others wouldn't as well.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 05:42 PM
1

I think it's important to note that not every woman actively lied, but rather lived out the feminine imperative. This lets us employ empathy for women, rather than hate. They did what was natural to them, so now we must as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 07:35 PM
1

What was the second event?
/r/askTRP15/10/15 01:33 AM
1

"Power is essentially amoral and one of the most important skills to acquire is the ability to see circumstances rather than good or evil. Power is a game this cannot be repeated too often and in games you do not judge your opponents by their intentions but by the effect of their actions. You measure their strategy and their power by what you can see and feel. How often are someone's intentions made the issue only to cloud and deceive! What does it matter if another player, your friend or rival,…
/r/askTRP14/10/15 05:01 AM
1

Read the preface, I recant.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 10:34 PM
1

Yea, for sure. I was very invested in the process but not getting much back (partly due to my investment time wise). I just needed some reinforcement that I can step away more or less without stigmatizing myself.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 09:04 PM
2

Cool, cool, cool. Not that I don't believe in myself, but before I make game changing decisions I talk with you guys.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 01:45 PM
1

Put Archer on your list for sure.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 01:24 PM
1

Preach. 22, almost 23 and I've got 1-3 super close friends. Plenty of acquaintances, but I'm investing in myself.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 01:22 PM
1

I've heard that for healthy relationships it's important to have a ratio of red/blue pill traits. Something like 70%/30%.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 07:59 PM
1

What's his beef with the international girls? I was holding them out as bastion.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 07:57 PM
2

I'll honestly add it to what I'm going through right now. I'm mostly reading the Book of Pook, Models, Day Bang, and Lord of the Rings. I feel all this "game"reading is making me unintentionally more needy, so I need to broaden what I'm reading.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 05:26 PM
2

With 48 laws, how direct did you did all of the laws apply? At first glance I get a sour taste in my mouth with them.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 03:56 AM
2

1's and 0's man, fuck the 0-10 scale. Get comfortable putting chicks in the 0 category, and any women that is a 1 learn to feel comfortable around.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 08:17 AM
2

Brilliant.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 12:08 PM
2

Straight up, when I walked back I would've butted right in between them. Maybe leave my drink with her and pull that "chick move."
/r/askTRP05/10/15 12:23 AM
4

I'm going to check up on you and see how you are holding to that.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 12:14 AM
2

If you're talking with someone who has few breaks, how do you interject?
/r/askTRP05/10/15 12:10 AM
1

Do you know what divorce laws are like in Oregon? Obviously I can research into it further if you don't feel like answering.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 05:08 PM
1

Focus and work on what you can.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 05:02 PM
1

I am so close to buying it, I've heard so many good things.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 05:01 PM
1

Just remember this, getting a LTR will not solve your problems. It must come from within.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 07:20 PM
1

I've got a lot of chest hair and always have. I think I look better with it, so I keep it.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 07:18 PM
1

Do you lift? Lift weights. One thing that really helped was to "fall in love with myself," and this is how I define that. All those little things I wanted to love in another, I found in myself to love. Anything I could see myself loving in a partner, I was able to them enjoy in and for myself in the same way I wanted to work another. It's allowed me to have the freedom of love I've always wanted.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 07:17 PM
1

Practice, practice, practice.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 05:53 PM
1

People wear boots in the US all the time, it's nothing to be self conscious about.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 05:52 PM
1

Keep it up.
/r/ThankTRP03/10/15 05:50 PM
1

Get off porn.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 04:40 PM
1

I've seen it once before, can you define sigma for me?
/r/askTRP02/10/15 02:10 AM
1

Which war was that? Honest history question.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 02:16 AM
1

I'm replying to the comment below me so you'll see it. I'm attractive, genuine, was on PoF and not getting a lot of luck. It's because my pictures weren't great and I didn't put much effort into the right way to do it. Read the Red Pill Internet Dating Guide, I'm on my way to great body so I'll be able to post great body shots, until then day game.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 05:30 PM
1

I don't text much. Instead, I just give them a call when I want to talk to them. It's surprisingly easy to get a chick laughing over the phone, so I think it's a much better way to build a little rapport wore seeing a date up, with the least likelihood of fallout.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 04:17 PM
1

Actually, thinking about it, I've got a dead on sex smile. Slight smirk, tight eyes, it's actually become my go to look and I feel like every girl I look at thinks I'm eye fucking them.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:19 AM
1

For me, I've noticed when I run into an alpha we usually are each on such a distinct path that we both know we don't have time for each other. But, when we do, that article soaks the truth.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:13 AM
2

Sounds like you need to find a new place to work.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:10 AM
3

He just doesn't sound like the type of guy who wants to change. For true love to exist, you have to overlook flaws. This is just going to be something you're going to have to accept about him, you really can't change people.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:09 AM
1

Also, get out there more. If you've only been on two dates, it's because you're reading more than you're talking to girls, getting numbers, etc. It's okay to mess up, because fuck it, abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:06 AM
0

Why is that? I'm a super smiley dude, where is the line in there for people like me?
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:27 AM
1

I started by taking ice cold showers. It sounds small, but it made a huge difference for me. You have to mentally fight to overcome the cold. That was January, I've done other things as well. But this week, I got rid of my car. Now I bike ten miles to work, ten home. I'll get in great shape, save money, and have to get out of bed an extra two hours early every day. What can you do like this in your life?
/r/askTRP27/09/15 01:05 AM
1

Make life more difficult. Learn that you have to fight. Bring difficulty into your life and you will find what so many other people go through on a daily basis. This will teach you gratitude for not only the good things you have in life, but compel you to give more to those who are in need. Plenty of people around the world, in our country, in your town are hungry right now. How the sun works has no bearing on this, there is so much need out there besides "figuring everything out."
/r/askTRP27/09/15 12:56 AM
2

There is no way it is harder today.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 01:45 PM
3

Like the other guy said, learn to not give a shit about what these girls think or have to say about you in the negative. You're going to be around them for the next couple years, so start making your awkward mistakes now so by the time freshman year of college rolls around you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:50 AM
3

If your SMV is much higher than hers, I highly suggest not covering up all your electronics. A good amount of dread is healthy, sure, but when your SMV is doubling hers you don't need to rub it in her face. At that point, comfort tests will be flying, so the last think you need to do is be that overt about it.
/r/askMRP23/09/15 04:47 AM
-2

"You wanna see it?"
/r/askTRP22/09/15 10:24 PM
1

Like a month into TRP, I was in Vegas. Went to a club and was able to practice abundance mentality like this, if I walked up to a cute chick and got rejected, there were ten hotter chicks I could talk to right after. I had no abundance, but from that night learned that it is a frame of mind you can have even without finding success yet.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 10:22 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/Fitness/comments/3l6850/amazon_vegan_protein_powder_price_comparison/
/r/askTRP22/09/15 12:30 PM
1

What's the difference between a plate and a fwb?
/r/askTRP20/09/15 11:12 PM
2

Just get out there. Meet more people, and some shoot people down because they aren't full alpha. It's fun to watch people grow, while you throw platitudes out there.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 02:11 PM
1

http://reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3lax81/how_come_korean_male_models_or_actors_get_that/cv4oc5k
/r/askTRP18/09/15 09:16 PM
3

It's been said often on here that looks are not a major component. Game = confidence + charisma.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:38 PM
1

THANKS
/r/askTRP18/09/15 02:51 PM
1

Hey man, take what you can. Make her believe that it is a big deal, after all, you're the one on the inside.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 10:17 PM
1

I see what you're saying. At this point, while still being in abundance mentality even though I'm not pulling left and right, feels good man to have it so easy. I will come back and let you know.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:43 PM
1

Funny, I read What Every Body Is Saying and I didn't seem to get much out of it. Super basic stuff. I'll look into it some more.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:41 PM
1

I don't remember what NC is, but yea. You want it, go for it. Just be very vigilant about what you've learned, you're the prize, abundance mentality, etc. Show up late so you don't have to hang out the whole time, spend plenty of time with the other guests, don't fawn over her artwork. Think about it, the worst that happens is she isn't into you, and you meet some other hot chick. Plus you know the artist, so you've got status points. Good luck.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:39 PM
1

At this point I really am too busy between now and Sunday, possibly til Monday. I do agree that would come across as needy, plus that much time would give some good dread. I think she's super shy about me though, she's had a huge case of ugly duckling syndrome happen while she was away at college. So I've got some give to work with.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:32 PM
1

That sounds spot on for my situation. I'm 22 and I think she's 19, called her up and set a Saturday at 8am date, and it was the easiest date I've ever set up. I gotta say, this is about the first time I've had a chick into me this much more than me into her and it is crazy. Just the ease of it, rather than having to chase so hard/at all.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:01 PM
3

Go to the park with a guitar or a book. Get interested in them, and give them a reason to be interested in you. You've got a huge home field advantage in that you've got more experience, and they are very attracted to that.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:23 PM
0

I'll be hanging out with an ex this weekend. Shut man, if you're into her swing for it. But know that if she isn't meeting what you want you can move on, and not be tied to her.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:21 PM
1

Pretty much my reply. She's been my neighbor for like fifteen years so I'vs seen her around for long time. Tell me I shouldn't do this, spontaneously knock on her door when I see she's home to go on a walk first date through the neighborhood, between now and Sunday.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:15 PM
1

That's why I'm not so quick to flat out next. She wrote me a paragraph long message about the last reschedule, and this seems like a simple invitation. More numbers though, yea. Today I'm gonna ask my pharmacist out, and set up something with another chick for Saturday. So no oneitis with this chick, I've just never gotten a paragraph long reschedule before.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 10:41 PM
1

Not exactly, I asked her out the night before and she texted me at 4p that she was too hungover. Definitely a pass on girls night out though, we'll see how rescheduling looks.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:58 PM
1

I will, bars really aren't my thing. As for setting something else up, hit her up in a couple days, see if she goes for the reschedule, etc...?
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:19 PM
1

I mean that was my thinking, and it wouldn't be my first. But I'm gonna pass on it.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:16 PM
1

Ha! People like you are why I say there is always hope, even years down the road.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 05:37 AM
1

For the first one, I can relate. I just moved to an office job and I find myself with a LOT of free time. I've started reading through the basic core TRP books in that free time. I've probably read through six books by now.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 10:34 PM
1

Mmm, yea. Yea I can work with that, thanks man. I love how all of this is second nature for you.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 10:32 PM
0

Read the Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 10:29 PM
2

Funny, I do 90% of my game through day game cold approach. You've just gotta be super warm, and honest about it.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 08:31 PM
2

Have you not read the sticky on the main forum? This is a place for the discussion of sexual strategy, where improving yourself is a method to attain the level of sexual gratification you want. Read the sidebar before you start to define what this place is.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 02:29 AM
1

Brilliant. This is what I knew to be true but couldn't comprehend yet.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 04:51 AM
1

Shit, I can attest to that.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 04:46 AM
1

This makes a lot of sense. Notwithstanding, though.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 04:46 AM
2

Naw man, naw. Next for the love of all that is holy.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:16 PM
1

Haha, I can accept that platitude.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:13 PM
1

Don't get me wrong, I've got an online dating profile. But I found the time needed to spend on it sending out messages was unrewarding, at least with where I'm at now.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:13 PM
1

Explain...
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:09 PM
1

I can follow that. There's this chick at my pharmacy that is super into me, I'll ask for her number. As for online dating though, I've read the post on TRP about it and my body just isn't ready for that caliber. Soon though.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:08 PM
1

You're either first, or you're last.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:23 PM
3

I was at a big camp out over the weekend, and over the fire we had all sorts of jokes going around. Dick jokes, ass jokes, mother jokes, even rape jokes were getting hearty laughs. I throw out a joke making fun of women stereotypes, and all of a sudden a line was crossed. It was insane.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 12:45 AM
2

As well, lead with action and not word.
/r/ThankTRP05/09/15 06:48 PM
5

Honestly, if you can't change him, change yourself. Become okay with this about him. Understand that this is how he feels, and that your caring about him eclipses his weakness. He's exhibiting beta characteristics. As I see it, he's suffering from a lack of abundance mentality, oneitis, and possibly wanting a motherly love from you. I think it is perfectly acceptable to care about him in a way that overlooks these character defects, because I do not see you being able to change him. Work on your…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 08:38 AM
1

I do.
/r/ThankTRP05/09/15 08:27 AM
2

That was crystal clear. Actually, a damn good literal representation for the mentor-like relationship we have with God.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 08:13 AM
5

I recently talked to a RPer in private about Christianity and TRP, and his response was this. Christianity and Red Pill living are as complimentary to one another as Stoicism and Red Pill or Peanut Butter and Jelly, they are perfect for one another. Think of your goal as a Christian, to live a life that is as 'Christ-Like' as possible. That means that you are reoving anything that is unessential to your personal growth and what is needed to live. Think of how TRP promotes Men to remove the fluff…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 08:10 AM
4

It's amazing to see this kind of acceptance in "a place full of hate and misogyny" on the internet.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 08:08 AM
1

Being a twenty two year old, I want to have sex. But being a Christian, I cannot morally entertain that for myself outside of marriage. So I am going to do it as right as I can. I will wait until I am thirty or so, which is suggested. I'm not too sure just yet what I'll be doing between now and then woman-wise, but I'll figure it out. I'll do my best to be ready life-wise and find the closest I can to a unicorn. If miraculously by then I do not feel this way, then I will be free of this dilemma.…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:19 PM
9

I read your first couple sentences and immediately thought of this. I was all about that happy until I came across this muse. "A man's greatness lies not in wealth and station, as the vulgar believe, nor yet in his intellectual capacity, which is often associated with the meanest moral character, the most abject servility to those in high places, and arrogance to the poor and lowly; but a man's true greatness lies in the consciousness of an honest purpose in life, founded on a just estimate of h…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 05:05 AM
-2

I've only recently been seeing posts about LTRs, unicorns, and marriage. Granted, there is r/marriedredpill, but it's great to see that topic getting coverage on the r/theredpill. I'm Christian, and have no intention currently to do anything other than get married. To have sex, to adopt kids, companionship, etc. I'm so happy to have found TRP, but to find TRP concepts applied to this so ridiculed topic has lifted a weight off me.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:37 AM
1

I'd say it was a mix of all of those, it was a brunch date and I think I learned that was a little too early for me. Practice makes perfect.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:58 AM
1

I have no plans on pursuing it further, if she re-engages I'll amuse it.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 05:16 AM
1

No pick up, I don't expect anything back. I had a couple slip ups on the date, she's near-wall and I'm twenty two so I'm thinking marriage is on her mind. Etc, etc.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 05:10 AM
1

I'm thinking I'll call her tonight. I like having a three day heads up for stuff, and that'd put me at two and a half days.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:05 PM
1

Question, does waiting three days really not come across as me just playing game? I have a hard time believing the hamster can be that oblivious.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:01 PM
1

She seems shy, so that may be true.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 07:00 PM
1

Then I'd suggest sports, I go to an open mic where I get vulnerable in front of a crowd. That creates a bond with me and the rest of the people there, as well as when they do it.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:58 PM
4

Damn, yea you are definitely right. I would never take a chick to a date on a movie early on, and this is the exact same thing.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:50 PM
2

Yea, that was exactly my feeling. I'll wait til tomorrow.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:38 PM
1

By all means, a rule of thumb.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:57 AM
2

Honestly, I thought the original post was very clear. This is a place to talk about sexual strategy, it's the top thing on the sidebar. What that tells me, is not enough people are reading the sidebar. These people should spend more time reading and less time talking, so that the opinions they will bring to the table will have the frame of reference the rest of us have.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:54 AM
1

I'm reading Models by Mark Manson right now, and a lot of what he's saying seems to get against TRP dogma, even though it's a highly recommended book. Where I'm at now, he's saying when you do it, come from a place of unconditional. It's all about your intentions. If you're telling a girl she's hot so that she'll like you more, that's being needy and unattractive. If you're telling her that and have no investment in how she'll respond, you're safe.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:51 AM
1

I use Adventurer by Ralph Lauren, it's a retired scent so you have to go to sent matching websites. For deodorant, I go to Le'Occitane and pick up their liquid deodorant, it comes in a glass tube with a roller. It smells like what I imagine a French man would smell like.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:45 AM
1

I'm currently going through the post about core TRP books, and I've got The Rationale Male lined up. I've read quite a few of his posts, so I was a little loathe to read through them all again. But you're post excited me a little, so thanks for that.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:36 AM
1

There was a post a while back mentioning frames specifically. He was saying, if you've got a round face get boxy glasses, and if you have a square jaw get more oval glasses.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:34 AM
1

I picked up these Nike frames (the second style, 228) a week ago. Got them Friday afternoon and over the next three days I got seven numbers, all from day game. As well, if you've got a square jaw get more oval frames, and if you have an oval/round face get more squared frames.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:32 AM
1

If you're in a LTR with a girl really worthy of it
/r/askTRP30/08/15 08:37 PM
5

It is, and will always be, a power struggle.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:04 AM
1

Date younger chicks. Don't tell people you're going to be a doctor. Be mysterious about where you get your money. And of course, be ripped. I've learned that having a good looking body mentally puts me above those chicks near the wall, where they're not on my radar anyways. At the end of the day, keep messing with the formula and find what works for you.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 09:02 AM
2

I volunteer. That gets me out of my head, helping and being around other people. As well, shit man. Plenty of people on here have proper relations with proper women, they just apply TRP concepts. Try it out, worst case it doesn't work and you ditch, best case you find something you didn't know you like.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 08:58 AM
1

Yo, quick question. I'm all about this, letting them talk. I went on a date today, and she was asking me questions left and right. It felt weird doing as much talking as I did, and if I threw too many back her way it felt like a back and forth interview. I ain't gonna lose sleep over it, but what would you read out of that?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 05:14 AM
3

On multiple occasions in the past, I've had to correct people on this. Like you mentioned, it is the top item the sidebar. What this tells me is not enough of these newer people (and I am new) are reading the sidebar, where the real meat is. Sure, reading posts are a great way to stay in the know, but unless you read the sidebar material you won't have the frame of reference needed to stay relevant.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 04:54 AM
1

Wait for her to hit you back up.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 06:24 PM
1

Bingo. Historically, and in the bigger picture sense that is why I'm all behind it. Personally, it serves as a moral compass that has more or less proved itself self-sufficient for thousands of years. That's something I'm comfortable getting behind, however I will make my own educated beliefs within it, ie TRP.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 06:34 AM
1

Seeing as many/most people come in here with limited to no experience, the lines blur real fast. I'm guilty, and I came in here really comfortable around women.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 06:30 AM
2

I bought a shirt for my workouts, they look fly as fuck.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 06:20 AM
3

His last plug was the last half of a sentence of the first paragraph stated halfway jokingly. My only comment in the thread was that I'm pumped to get my shirt, bam, downvoted. Its a cool ass shirt.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 06:18 AM
2

There definitely is a difference in community between the two.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 06:16 AM
-9

I am so fucking excited for my shirt to come in the mail.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 02:15 AM
3

Reiterating things serves a purpose of instilling the minds of those doing the writing. Like asking out girls over and over and getting better, so goes typing out theory over and over. You refine your skill.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 02:13 AM
1

See, I am religious, but I wholly look at "religion" for what it was created for. A method of control that was necessary for us to move on from tribes to civilizations. It served as the backbone for man to have order on a massive scale.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 02:00 AM
4

It might have to do with this. What I'm about to explain was a huge revelation for me. I've been called gay on numerous occasions, by people in different places. My style through high school and up until now (I'm 22) was playfully cute. Tight pants, longer hair, skinny. I realized my style was creating an image that would evoke a motherly response from women, rather than a masculine one. This was so I would get that unconditional, motherly love I wanted as a beta. Sometimes it worked, but it lef…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 08:02 PM
1

We live in an idealized society where elders must be respected 100%. But the reality is they were led astray, and believed the lies fed to them. They're not infallible, nor should they be treated as such. Follow your morals. In ten years, what kind of story do you want to be able to tell?
/r/askTRP28/08/15 07:52 PM
1

You know, until recently I wasn't really sure where I fit in with TRP, but after finding out about ABs I seem to have found my goal.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 07:47 PM
1

Nah, it's a nature park. Big one, miles and miles of hiking though. Honestly, and this has to be the pill talking, I'm just gonna pull out kino whenever I see opportunities for it as a learning experience. If it's weird and uncalled for, I know a little more. I really have no expectations going into this. I figure by the end of this I'll have her slammed up against a tree, making out.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 04:16 AM
2

I'll confirm, I've got BPD and it is a mental illness that is manageable. It just takes work.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 02:40 AM
1

What industry?
/r/askTRP28/08/15 02:38 AM
7

Exactly, this is straight out of the PUA farm that we deviated from.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 07:59 PM
1

I'm am addict, been clean and sober almost two years. I don't tell all girls, but those that I have told, about half are okay with it. I present it from the stance of: this is what I went through, and it's made me an incredibly strong person. I'm not a victim, I'm a force of goodwill to humanity.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 07:57 PM
4

You're missing the point. If she's saying "who is this" and can see your picture, she's definitely saying screw off.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 02:13 AM
2

I've saved the post. I'm in reasonable shape, but in another 5-10 pounds I'll be ready for that caliber. I appreciate the replies.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:45 AM
1

I do enjoy the amount of confidence it conveys. I'll try it out, I really don't feel like I have anything to lose if I find out it doesn't work.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 02:04 AM
2

What is the reasoning for this? As in, does it let their hamster run, shows high value by demonstrating a lack of neediness....
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:53 AM
1

Yes, I am one who was glad you commented.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:28 PM
1

I replied the last couple days to another comment, you are entirely right though. The two people I heard nothing back from were people I had under ten minutes of rapport with. The others I had at least a half with, so I'm more comfortable I'll hear back from them.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 11:18 PM
1

I'll also add, I've been reading a lot lately of that one post of the basic readings necessary for TRP. What Every Body is Saying, Models, The Charisma Myth, How to Win Friends. I've been on TRP for maybe three months now.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 11:02 PM
1

For the last three, over a half hour of rapport. Two were at the same time, friends. At a different volunteer thing I do, chatted them up after. They live in Vancouver BC, where I might go to college. This was more for practice getting numbers, and if/when I go up there. Half hour of this and that, getting them laughing and talking. Haven't texted them yet. Last one, met her an hour ago in the park. She was hula hopping and I walked up to her, asked her how long she had been doing that for. That…
/r/askTRP23/08/15 11:00 PM
1

Again, breaking these up because I'm on mobile. Another girl at a coffee shop, was telling her that I volunteered and she said she wanted to do it. Under five minutes rapport, got her number, left. Texted her Saturday (the next day) saying Monday or Wednesday would be good to go over the details. No reply.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 10:57 PM
1

I'm breaking this up because I'm on mobile and don't want to lose the long message to an app crash. The second was at a strip club that night, flirting with our waitress. My friend wanted a beer and she hadn't come back in a bit, so I got up to find her. Found her, ordered the beer, the said that was a delicious type and gave me a sexy look. She then told me she worked at a kindergarten for some reason, and I took that as her proving that she wasn't like other girls her. So I teased her about th…
/r/askTRP23/08/15 10:55 PM
1

It was definitely not enough rapport, after reading a few comments. Both of the numbers that went cold had under ten minutes of interaction, one under five. Seven numbers in the last three days, all day game. Of that, one was underage, two were under ten minutes of rapport. Of those two, I'll explain. One was after volunteering at a school all morning, cleaning up debris and spreading mulch. Maybe 80 people total, so I think I saw her once. After, by the bikes, I chatted her up for maybe five mi…
/r/askTRP23/08/15 10:51 PM
1

What is Stallion? I've never heard of that before.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 04:49 AM
1

Yea, that's what I was thinking. Somewhere between a comfort test, but it doesn't matter anymore. She was fifteen, and looked much older. Nexted as soon as I found out.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 01:35 AM
1

Turns out she's fifteen, so that quite literally could be an option. Insta-next.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 01:35 AM
1

I do not think she's legal to drink, plus I don't drink either. Good try though.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 11:38 PM
1

I think I'm abnormal, coffee affects me greatly. I would drink half a cup at 7-9a and have a harder time falling asleep at night. I'm normally a very high energy person though.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 11:33 PM
1

Nah man, just a prospect. I'll swing through more often then, catch her another time.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 11:32 PM
1

I just cut out coffee, Sunday. Since, I've also been waking up a couple hours earlier and going to the gym. It's funny, I don't get tired when I wake up. I get tired at the time of day I would drink coffee, 3-4 hours after I wake up. But after a couple days, it goes away. Just gotta shake it. I feel no difference now, almost a week later.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 11:12 PM
2

That was my reasoning. I sent a "Yea, no problem" and I won't be following it up at all, unless she reinitiates.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:05 AM
1

Yea, being new I'm still learning my style. That is not what I would consider my style.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 04:01 PM
2

Yea, that was my thinking. With being new and hearing all these different viewpoints, I'm still learning what works best for me. I like your approach the most.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 04:00 PM
1

Yours seems great, for being late. In Roosh's BANG, he says to be ten minutes late just to get their hamster running. What do you think of this approach?
/r/askTRP19/08/15 02:22 PM
1

I'm alright on dates, comfortable wise, but haven't closed in a long while. I've got one tonight though. What you're talking about, her doing most of the leading, should I really just sit there and wait for her to start the conversation 2/3rds of the time? This seems like it (for her) might get awkward, and that it would seem boring. I'm also a really charismatic person, so this seems counterintuitive.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 02:19 PM
1

I hate that there isn't a save function on mu mobile app.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 10:04 PM
1

Hey, I bought all the products you mentioned. I felt like I could use the boost. Question though, for how long should I use the pore refining toner? A week, then wait a bit? I'm about to use it now for my first time.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 12:08 AM
1

In Roosh's BANG he says to remove her clothes first, so just in case you don't end up naked and not having sex. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP10/08/15 07:41 PM
6

One of the coolest chicks I ever dated happened to be overweight. After the couple months of having a good time, we were having sex and I was just repulsed. I couldn't get over her body, and had to end it.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 12:25 PM
1

Yea, there's an open mic I go to on Sundays I'll ask her out to. Either way, I'll have a great time.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 10:15 AM
2

Them hamstering, that you should be crawling after them like the pedestal they think they are. From what I've gotten on here, you should be making your SMV so high that girls will be jumping through your hoops. They'll do what you say.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 08:26 AM
2

That's hamstering.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 07:31 AM
1

Ah, lesson learned. That makes sense. Definite abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 07:31 AM
1

For sure. Any direction in how to say it?
/r/askTRP08/08/15 07:01 AM
1

It was last Sunday, too late? I haven't fretted at all over it, which I'm considering progress.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 03:50 AM
1

Meditating is the shit for falling asleep. Every night I do ten minutes, and I'm asleep in fifteen.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 11:23 PM
8

Nah man, they're real. It's that smell you get off a woman when you know she's hot, where you can feel it coming off them.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 09:05 AM
1

Yea, thinking about it, I've "broken" many "rules" in the past and its worked out. Chemistry and abundance mentality, for sure.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:49 PM
2

I can live with that. And abundance mentality isn't a problem of mine, even though I'm not necessarily gaming plenty of women all the time. I'll hit her up tomorrow, with logistics. Very enthusiastic response earlier from her, it'll be a sweep.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 05:23 AM
1

Slick.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 05:02 AM
6

Reading is super cheap. What I'll do to spice it up, is find a public place to do it. I feel really complex and sophisticated when I read in public, and that gives me a boost.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 04:57 AM
1

My high school had a lady who could prescribe medications, because we had a program for young mothers on campus. I was eighteen, and within two visits had a prescription for Adderall. Amazing, this system we have set up.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 05:42 AM
3

I'll delete the post.
/r/askTRP01/08/15 11:22 AM
1

"Where are you from?" I just posted this to /r asktrp, with what I think is enough ambiguity to keep our ranks private. Feel free to critique.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 09:50 AM
1

I love music, so I got into guitar. It's a way to express a passion I have.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 05:39 AM
1

Not just, that's a symptom. Paranoia, lack of socialization, "everyones out to get me," feelings I felt thoroughly for a period of time. I'm not diagnosing you. And as seen in my experience, a diagnosis isn't the end of the world. Just a break from normal life for a bit to work on yourself. The ramble seemed like one thing fed into another, but incoherent to the point of sounding like a mental breakdown. Conversations happening, but afterwards dismissed. And I'm not dismissing you. What you've g…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 05:37 AM
1

You don't have to isolate. Part of going monk mode is putting yourself out there, and going to public events. Do this often. There are tons of amazing people out there who want more friends, find them.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 05:30 AM
3

Oh man, Zen Habits. I remember when this guy went live, it was about the time I was learning how to improve in life. Amazing to see him following through.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 07:25 AM
1

Get it straight, girls will climb mountains for the alpha. You do not have to play their game. Stay in your frame.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 10:08 AM
1

Try to keep text conversations to logistics of meeting up only. I've made this mistake before, there's just more room to mess up.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 01:34 AM
1

I've used the r/ fitness FAQ, and have lost twenty pounds in six months. Still going strong. What it says there, is most funky diets are really a method of calorie control, while forcing you to eat more healthy foods. My diet this whole time has consisted mainly.of white rice, chicken, peanut butter, and kale. I got used to getting the right calories, then started to play around with adding different foods in. For lifts, the first five months I was doing the big five, with a twenty minute warm u…
/r/askTRP25/07/15 01:24 AM
1

Find new people to be around. No one is forcing you to be with these people, even your family isn't exempt from this.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 01:18 AM
2

I've been diagnosed with schizoaffective and have since been through therapy, psychiatry, medication for over a year. I'm currently reducing my medication, actually, I'm doing so well. But what OP is saying, where things line up in a surreal way all the time, it just reminds me of when I was at my worst. I hope he looks into help, if only to rule that out.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 01:15 AM
6

If you'll see people out tonight that you know, and you do have a problem riding solo, spend the night with those people?
/r/askTRP24/07/15 10:44 PM
-2

Could've been comfort tests. I have no idea though.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 02:54 AM
3

Ex-smoker here, I read Allen Carr's Easyway. Getting off cigarettes was easy, enjoyable, and I didn't get anxious or overeat. There were literally no downsides to getting off cigarettes, and the book walks you through the whole process.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 09:03 PM
1

Oh that sounds tight.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:43 PM
1

What's the difference?
/r/askTRP20/07/15 06:53 PM
2

r /personalfinance is also a good one.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 06:48 PM
0

And as for feeling bad, cutting him out might just prick him into figuring our his behavior isn't respected.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 06:46 PM
2

Gotcha.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 10:19 PM
2

Huh, its crazy to learn how their adaptation has affected them outside of the sexual arena. I did read that post though, so it makes sense to always keep a level of distance in there. To a certain degree, in meetings when I'm sharing I have/need/want to be completely honest about where I'm at and what I'm going through, even with women present. But I'm learning that in one on one situations with women in the context of recovery, you need to have that guard up.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 05:00 PM
2

Yea, that's definitely the feeling I was getting. Shit sucks, guess that's why they say guys stick with guys and girls stick with girls. I'll let 'em do their own thing. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 04:46 PM
1

When I first got into this, I totally misread it and thought everything a girl.would say was a shit test. Took me a bit to unlearn that.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:31 PM
2

Its a process. This sort of information would also be more valuable on the main subreddit, this one is more for feedback. Comment there to get enough karma to post your next field report, when it happens.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 10:50 PM
2

Throw a [FR] tag in these kinds of posts and I think they'll fly better. Great work though, I enjoyed the read.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 09:11 PM
1

I've got the SMV to get strong IOIs from HB8+'s, but for me its all head game at this point. The last couple days I had to figure what exactly I'm going for, and because I'm Christian I've figured out celibacy is the path for me. Very against the grain, but its what is true to my values. It also allows me to pursue dates, with no exclusivity, with multiple women, clear headed.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:44 PM
1

I'm just not crazy about the idea that I have to shoot for below me, in the same way girls date up. Makes me want to raise myself way up there.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 03:57 PM
1

The fitter I get, the fitter I like them.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 01:59 PM
1

Honestly, that's about where I would draw the line. I'm at around 14%, and I'm down 6%. I definitely feel like I have enough fat on me to not be considered skinny.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 01:58 PM
1

From The Red Pill sidebar: "Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men."
/r/askTRP14/07/15 02:17 AM
1

Mmhmm, that sounds about right.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 01:54 AM
1

Obvious, really. I had to ask though, just wasn't quite sure.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 01:54 AM
0

This is a forum for sexuality. That seems like enough context. I've heard it told on here not to date fat chicks.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:32 AM
1

In Iowa, maybe. Its like one big city where everyone is friendly, I imagine. Not like New York.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 11:22 PM
2

What makes her a slut, right off the bat? Curious, not being defensive of her.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 11:04 PM
1

Why is that?
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:46 PM
1

You know, its funny. I've been trying to get laid, and it just hasn't worked out. Shoot myself in the foot usually, because my game isn't that great. But I don't sweat over it. I've got abundance mentality down, so I don't feel pressured or let down when it doesn't work out. I just keep working on myself.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:46 PM
3

She isn't throwing herself at you. Work harder on yourself, and look for other girls.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:44 PM
1

This is really interesting, I'm excited to try it. I've been on cold showers for over six months now, and doing things that are on the pain scale are considerably easier though. But on the pleasure scale, I'm much more inclined to falter. I am going to try this out and see what results I get.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 10:49 PM
2

Truth is, there's no money behind it. That's what passes laws.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 04:05 AM
5

It was too deceiving of a law.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 11:29 PM
1

After all this reading, I've walked that road. Basically ignored girls that were into me because I thought I "wasn't supposed to ask questions." Silly shit, but of course that's half of having a conversation.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 11:31 PM
1

Her. This question isn't for you to add to then.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 05:20 PM
1

Asked a different girl again though.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 04:50 AM
1

Yea, I asked again. Definite SMV drop. Never doing that again, lesson learned. Hard lesson learned.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 04:49 AM
3

Rejection feels better than regret. So fail, be bad at something. Get bad at interacting with antisocial people. This way, when you get to the point in life where you're around people who aren't like that, you'll be chill. You're young. Really young. You've got not only a long way to go, but a lot of time in front of you to make something of it. Fifty year olds turn their lives around. Lift, improve SMV, start conversations with strangers, join social communities.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 11:35 AM
3

Soft next, I can hear a sense of oneitis going on. If she reinitiates, go for it.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 11:31 AM
1

I know, I'm saying a Brad Pitt SMV amount of attraction. Where they'll no matter what figure out a way to be around me. I mean, I'm all game for that, and my SMV isn't bad, but that still seems so far off.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:33 AM
1

I mean, I will. But basically, I have to have a Brad Pitt level of attraction from every girl I talk to?
/r/askTRP03/07/15 09:16 PM
1

Yea, I kinda broke that rule with someone else yesterday. I felt like an ass. Soooo, should be pretty easy to follow from here on out.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 07:39 PM
3

Once or twice a week. I'm in the same age boat as you. Closer to once a week, or less. At this point I'm very dedicated to improving myself, and that's what I spend most of my time doing.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 08:44 AM
8

Roger that, will do.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 07:16 AM
1

Hands, I'm comfortable with. Should I got for her top or bottom lip? Does it matter?Personally, I'd go for the bottom to get that big juicy bite, but that's just me. Wouldn't give her much lip to grab onto, but that whole my needs over hers is kinda thing here.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 10:03 PM
1

I mean if you're doing it for the skills, sell knives. Find your local office, call em up, and start doing in home demos. You are forced to interact face to face with customers, help them with what they want, and leave them with a smile on their face. Its impossible to do well at that job and not improve your interpersonal skills.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 07:58 AM
6

Nope.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 07:54 AM
2

Heh, that does sound true.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 04:06 AM
1

Since I've got a whole slew of mental/emotional shit in my past, I've found a way to have it come out with dominance. In the past, I went through some rough times. (insert x, y, z reason) But through it I've grown, learned about myself, and am now able to give my experiences back to people going through the same stuff.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 11:27 PM
2

"Remember what you are doing it for." Some people are doing it for actualization, for charity, and some for money.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 11:20 PM
1

When I started reading your post, I was damn. I hope he's not sitting in that shit. Right on, coming full circle.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 05:01 AM
1

It is, while not full blown I can feel shades of it. I feel like she could be really cool, but every time I'm around her I'm reminded why I should just get over her. Throughout the week she'll pop in my head, just the positives, which keeps me in that headspace of "that would be nice." Her friend was there last week, and I'd actually be interested in that. That'd sure create a fun dynamic for me to wade through, but her friend seems like much less of a hassle.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 12:27 AM
1

I guess it goes back to, how much shit testing do I wanna put up with? I gotta draw my line somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 06:10 PM
0

Yea, I'm choosing not to pursue it. Which helped me out pulling the trigger on this other chick, super cute, but she has temper tantrums all the time. Just not something I wanna put up with.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 06:10 PM
-7

Ugh, there's a red-haired hambeast I'm supposed to be going on a date with tomorrow. She's got a wicked sexy face, and she kinks which would be fun. But I dunno man. I'm not sure I can go through with it. I figure we'll grab coffee, if she's atrocious I'll turn her down. I kinda just wanna not text her though.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 06:19 AM
1

Yea. There's other girls there I'll be gaming. I'll stick with that though, seems to make more sense than any jumble I've got in my head.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 01:37 AM
1

I'm in that same fast paced life, and I love what you have to say on it. Makes so much sense.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 11:51 PM
3

Accept it. It's who you were, due to the irresponsibly strong cultural winds we all deal with. Don't be a victim of your past, be an architect for your future. Me, I'm a drug addict. This isn't something that is socially known as a good thing, but through recovery it has allowed me the opportunity to see the weak and destitute with greater compassion, and be a helping hand to those reaching out. Maybe try that, by going through the BP life you did you'll be able to connect more easily with those…
/r/askTRP18/06/15 11:09 PM
1

Gotcha. It seems like I've heard back and forth about it being good/bad, it all depends on how you play it.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 05:50 PM
1

Damn RPmatrix, blowing it up. I suppose this also lends back towards a need for constant self improvement. If you're not changing, you're not growing. So if you're the same old same old with a girl after a while, she can lend that to believe you're not doing anything to improve yourself.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 05:50 PM
2

Entirely sarcastic. This is usually how I approach any shit test, give em an "are you serious" look and then a witty/youve gotta be kidding me remark. It's definitely damage control, though. I'll work on that.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 03:06 PM
1

Makes sense, my best friend and his gf have been together for like five years (we're twenty two) and they still fuck like rabbits.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 03:04 PM
1

Read the other comments, its a pretty common motif.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 03:04 PM
2

You spoke to what I was talking about, I think that adds clarity. Especially that I don't need to follow up. There's this guy at works who's great at shit talking, but after everything he follows it up with "I'm only kidding though." Really kills the flow of where he was going with it.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 02:33 AM
1

Sounds fun, I'm in.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 02:10 AM
1

I finally lost my oneitis when I realized that perfect love I am looking for from someone else, I can give that to myself. Fall in love with all the little things I do, and the ways I go out of my way for other people. It's incredibly satisfying.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 11:27 PM
1

There's a couple periods in history I'm infatuated with, they give me a deeper understanding of the world and the way it works. There is so much to learn online for free. I play music, and while I understand you won't be able to afford to buy an instrument, you can spend time learning theory. It's a useful way to apply all that math you learned in school to real life. I'd suggest this if saving up for an instrument (guitar or keyboard would be best) sounds appealing to you. Find some local thing…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 11:24 PM
2

The Red Pill is a discussion on the male sexual strategy. In swallowing the red pill, you become accustomed to raising your SMV. Work on raising your SMV, I think this is the advice you are looking for.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 11:03 PM
2

It does. This is probably the gist of the response I will use.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 01:03 PM
1

This is exactly why I favor Krav Maga over jiu jitsu.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 01:01 AM
3

I could manage $60 a month, but that's pushing it. I'll definitely sit in to get the right feel for the place.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 01:01 AM
1

There's a place in town I'm going to look into today, of all the types out there Krav Maga definitely interests me the most. My only holdup would be price. How much do you pay per month?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 10:56 PM
1

Yea man. Between getting invited to the VIP area because of my dance moves, having a chick on either arm, seeing one of the most famous DJs, and dancing my ass off in the best nightclub in America. I had a blast. Not to mention, I felt like an AMOG the whole night. 10/10 would do again.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 03:38 PM
1

Haha, right? I was the there with you! Being a prince, always saving the day and bending over backward. I mean, I knew I was doing something wrong I could just never pin it down. I'm very lucky I made it through then.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 01:57 PM
2

Wait, are you talking about the club? Two nights ago, but I didn't end up with close. Great experience though, I can feel the up in game. Last night, I flew back home. Picked up some street tacos for the flight!
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 01:55 PM
3

What're the benefits of Krav Maga? There's a place by my house, maybe I should look into that as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:57 AM
12

Must've, I never really got angry. I sort of came right into this out of a TRP-independent monk mode, and I'm younger, so I didn't have too many preconceived notions I was shattering. Plus, I halfway knew I was doing something wrong with girls haha. When you start to get it, everything just kind of falls into place.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:31 AM
1

Pressure washing. Buddy of mind just started doing that, been at it for a couple months now. Makes $30-60 an hour.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 06:51 AM
-4

I may be alone in this, but I picked up TRP fairly quickly. The first two weeks all I did was read, and now I can hold frame, place myself in an abundance mentality, and keep in mind I am the prize. I can only hope this progression has happened just as fast for the rest of my brothers out there.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 06:36 AM
2

No, not at all. Weight lifting is incredibly important. This is part of the reason why you see it suggested so often. Zealot away!
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:49 AM
6

As in, lifting is a good launching point for getting and holding attention. This inner moral game, confidence per say, is a fine tuning of your personality and requires shifting how you think about yourself. This is often more difficult for people than throwing up some weight.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 11:00 PM
2

I'm in Vegas right now, and just posed this exact situation you are in. RPmatrix, a solid guy, gave me a response that shifted my understanding of clubgame. Check my post history, because my comment with the link in it got auto-deleted. The comment that starts with "I just finished No More...."
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 12:19 PM
1

Haha. That's why I posted that I was charging my phone. I had to sit in the lobby until it was good, because my cousin lives off strip and he was picking me up. I figured if I'm gonna be sitting there, I'll be reading and improving. Half that, half people watching.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 12:16 PM
12

Not to mention so many people out there are only interested in the physical. By lifting, which is a very easy thing to get started in, you're setting your SMV that high already. The moral game we are talking about is much more complex, a higher level of personal change than simply picking up some iron.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 12:07 PM
2

Very solid. I think asktrp is a training ground for TRP, as well. It lets me chime into situations that I have seen direct immediate results with, as well as get comfortable with the verbiage and tone we use on these subreddits.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 11:59 AM
1

This must just be where TRP has evolved. On the /r/TheRedPill sidebar it says "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." TRP came from /r/seduction, masculating our sexual strategy that was being trampled on by "political correctness." From then, due to it's innate truism morphed into the bedrock for manhood we see today.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 11:47 AM
1

Ahh, that's what I'm missing. I am shit for that right now. I can get attention, approach, hold it, but I fall flat at kino. Yesterday I got a drink with this chick and used some light kino, and it blew me away how comfortable she was with it. This will be the next gate I go through.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 11:41 AM
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This method makes perfect sense. The abundance, the dread, the prize mentality. And I can pull it off. After getting invited into the tabled area by two 9s (where I hung out for a second), I left and walked straight out, got the attention of two chicks and had them on either arm, walking towards the dance floor. They bailed, but I've got the frame to keep that up all night. I just can't wait to take all this knowledge home, as shitty game as I was playing in that club I was light years ahead of …
/r/askTRP14/06/15 11:38 AM
1

Yes, yes, yes. Had fun, didn't get laid. Still had fun.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 11:26 AM
1

Sure thing man.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 08:08 AM
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Have SMART goals for this monk mode then, since you've already got a timetable. Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, Timetable. It'll make the process that much clearer, and rewarding, for you.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 07:05 AM
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I just finished No More Mr. Nice Guy this week, so I'll put those next on my list. I love learning this stuff because it's so broadly applicable. I'm in Vegas right now, and the house we are staying at has no cold water! I miss them. Easily the worst part of the trip. Speaking of Vegas though, right now I'm charging my phone outside the number one club in the US five years in a row. Game man. It is stupid how well it works. I'm brand new to this shit, and simply holding frame puts me above half …
/r/askTRP14/06/15 07:04 AM
1

If you have a l'Occitane near you, they have an amazing summer deodorant scent. It's in a small cylinder, smells like a French millionaire.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 04:14 AM
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I found this site that makes colognes that have since gone under. Perfect for this old blend I found that my older brother used, I'm pretty sure they use the original recipes too.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 04:13 AM
1

Original Old Spice makes feel like an all-American man.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 04:11 AM
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I read this book at a young age, and have thusly internalized many of his tenets. Today, I'm able to make friends with just about anyone.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 04:09 AM
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Fuckin-a, man. You don't see this comradery on just any subreddit.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 04:08 AM
3

Please, for the love of God, use paragraphs.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 04:02 AM
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I can relate, I currently live at home with my parents. I was on monk mode for a year or so, while living at home. Whatever reason it didn't work, feel that. Use it as a motivator. Most likely, it isn't salvageable. But you want a girl that is as good as she was, fuck that. Get better, and get someone better. Monk mode is great. It's even easier when you live at home, but don't let that be an excuse. You can game while living at home, just take it back to their house.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 03:37 AM
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I just had that thought yesterday. Up until now, I've done things for the sake of doing them. This has gotten me pretty far. Considering how powerful sex is, and me being new to TRP, I figured out to use that as a motivator. Not all of my motivation, but as a new source. By improving myself, I'm upping my game and potential pool. I'm capable of pulling alright girls, but that can be so much better. I'm game for that.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 03:28 AM
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You don't need to turn into a dick overnight. Treat people the way you want to be treated, in a TRP way. If that means doing small shut for family, no biggie, do it. Besides, TRP is a sexual method for men. It doesn't need to be applied directly to how you treat your family members. You can apply tenets, but it doesn't have to be so cut and dry.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 03:23 AM
1

Very fair. I could have done without posting the link.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 02:28 AM
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Further cementing and conviction is what I need, thanks man.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 02:27 AM
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She's not a plate yet. That's the answer I was looking for though, just not giving a fuck that's she's posting stuff like that.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 02:26 AM
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There are two types of love that women are capable of. The love they have for children, and the love they have for men. The love they have for children is unconditional, this is the love your mother has/had/should have had for you. The love they have for men is conditional, ie hypergamous. Men are the source of love. It flows from men, to women, to children, to puppies. You have to be the source of the love you desire. Only then will you be capable of accepting the love they are giving. You must…
/r/askTRP13/06/15 10:46 PM
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I still don't see how you can make that jump. You're either needy or you cheat, no in between. This seems like an extreme form of dread game, but I don't see how a girl could actually be attracted to knowing that you cheat.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 10:24 PM
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I'm saying, how can you back that statement up? Is that your personal experience? This is not something I have ever come across.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 06:03 PM
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I think the reason we have such a large concentration here is because so many are converted blue pillers. So for so many, it is difficult to believe that people could come to these conclusions outside of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:58 AM
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Yes, definitely spot on for dates going too long. That's something I've come across.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 11:54 PM
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Haha, day game is my primary since I tend to look awful in darkly lit clubs.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 11:51 PM
1

How can you justify many women want a guy who is willing to cheat?
/r/askTRP12/06/15 11:39 PM
1

Honestly this is how I've gotten to the 30+ days I'm at now. First a couple days at a time, relapses, then a couple weeks at a time, relapses, now months aren't so daunting.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 11:27 PM
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That is not the reason we have hobbies. We have hobbies to be true to ourselves, our desires, and get used to this feeling. We have hobbies partly to raise our SMV. You can bullshit with a girl all night, and have nothing in common with her. Just amuse her about what you can, and talk about the things you know. But do it in a funny way, and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 07:08 PM
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http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/
/r/askTRP11/06/15 07:04 PM
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When I first read the dread game article, I was pretty opposed to it. Then the first I used it was accidental, and I had instant results. That stuff works too well.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:54 PM
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I'm going to be using this on two girls I've got lined up when I get home. I love how in getting into this, every girl I play wrong doesn't feel like a failure. I genuinely feel like I'm learning at every turn.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:47 AM
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Gotcha, I'll know that it's kind of a play by play basis.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:16 AM
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Gotcha, I'll move to more of that. What's the purpose of that? And I won't be hitting up the bigger chick tonight, standards.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:56 AM
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"Hey where you at" when I've heard not to ask questions. State your intents.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:55 AM
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Also, with this post. When are questions alright? I think I can ask questions and be in my frame, I'm not really sure how that works.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:11 AM
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"You can guess all night, and I'll tell you in the morning." Sent this hours ago. I think this message might have started her logical brain off. Sent this next message about a half hour ago, don't expect to hear anything back. The boorishness of it came off a little scary to me, what do you think? "But we'll start out with drinks, see how the night goes. Text me where you'll be in an hour or so, we'll meet on your side of town."
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:05 AM
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My body is ready. I'll post an update on how the night went though, and if I have any more questions I'll ask.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:45 AM
1

I evaded game all through class, and at the end off to the side got her number.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:38 AM
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I'll be waiting another hour before sending this. The more I text, the more I get of that feeling. This is the farthest I've gotten, so I know I was bound to make a few mistakes. The more I texted, the more I felt that, but I honestly wasn't sure how to respond when she flat out asked me questions. I'll probably send this last reply, hopefully ignore anything after, and wait til tonight to connect for the meetup. I'm still not sure how I am going to make that transition hah.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:37 AM
1

How about "You can guess all night, and I'll tell you in the morning."?
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:22 AM
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She just texted me twice, I mentioned her not smoking and looking young. She said, "What does smoking have to do with anything?" I'll probably ignore this. She then texted me how old am I, and I'm not sure how to pass this test. "Old enough to keep you guessing, and young enough to keep you on your toes." I'm not sure if this is breaking frame, really how I should go about this.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 11:57 PM
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The logistics aren't there for both, I'm staying out of town and bigger chick has a hotel room with her mom and brother. Texting cute chick though, and she's into me. Talking about tomorrow morning, but I'm curtailing texting. I'll let bigger chick know I'll most likely be busy, if I free up I'll hit her up. I.E. if it doesn't work out with cute chick, I'll split a cheap motel with her. It's good to gave standards, but you gotta love a girl that wants it.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 11:08 PM
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Got both of their numbers. I'm gonna swing for a double tonight, but that's hopeful. Bigger girl said she might go out on the town alone tonight, I said I might hit her up. Cuter girl said she's going to a show tonight, and I should hit her up after. How can I do that and stay in my frame? Should I look up what time it ends, and tell her a time a little after? She texted me right away, smiley faces. I asked her a question, should not have, so I'm gonna play that tighter. I figure drinks on her s…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 10:10 PM
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Will do.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 07:43 PM
1

Same, now that I'm consistently losing body fat I'm gonna shoot for sub 10%. Get low, the muscles are there under it. I don't know about keto, but after reading the FAQ on /r/Fitness it's really all about calories in. That will decide your weight.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 07:15 PM
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Hey! I just hit 15% body fat for the first time in my life, feels great. Keep truckin' man, it's right around the corner.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 06:32 PM
1

Sweet Jesus, I can be a confident fucker. But a wink sounds insane, like at that moment it is crystal clear I want to fuck. I love it.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 06:32 AM
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I'm on vacation right now and the showers suck, but I'll be getting back into it when I get home.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 06:30 AM
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Gotcha. Would that include not sitting next to her? The lady running the class picked up on it yesterday, and I could tell right after she got a little uncomfortable. I figure that shit happens, but I kept business business. Not staying at the same hotel, hell I've been getting rides to and from the classroom so I'll most likely have to pay expensive cabs to get around since I'm pretty far out of town. After class, how about "How much longer are you in town for?" "What part of town are you stayi…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:42 AM
1

Haha, yea after hearing more about I'm pretty it's more of an amused mastery than anything.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:38 AM
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Do you want to fuck her? If you want to fuck her and are seeing her frequently, and not fucking her, it is most likely out of the question. Since your terminology is off, I'm not sure if you mean something different by "seeing" and "talking." If you are getting IoI's, make damn sure you say it in a sexy way. Don't just "drop" it in front of her, you want to make sure you are saying it with the intent to make something of it. The fact that you find her attractive should turn her on. Don't bore he…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:23 AM
3

Read anything online as anecdotal, especially anything written from the feminist sphere.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:03 AM
1

I can relate. Since I've started, other situations where I've broke frame I stayed in a place of IDGAF. To me, this was still holding my frame, just through instances of beta-ness. Girls didn't seem to mind, but granted it never got me anywhere. This is why I asked the question. I'm very close to IDGAF, and will hold onto that as a method. Thanks.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 03:39 AM
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Well. What you are talking about doesn't sound it like would be a plate. And if you have been talking to her for months and not gotten what you wanted, you should seriously consider moving on. That being said, "I like your body." comes off better than "You have a nice body." because it states your desire. It doesn't come from a faceless place.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 03:26 AM
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http://therationalmale.com/category/the-feminine-imperative/
/r/askTRP10/06/15 01:34 AM
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Ups your game like mad. They're not in the mode to instantly turn people down. They're flattered they're getting attention when not all dolled up.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:14 AM
2

Great story. What's the benefit of cold after hot, as opposed to full cold?
/r/askTRP10/06/15 12:39 AM
1

What's the benefit of this, over a normal full time cold shower?
/r/askTRP10/06/15 12:37 AM
2

The best cold shower I ever had was in Whistler, Canada in the dead of winter. Colder the better.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 12:34 AM
1

How old are you fnord?
/r/askTRP10/06/15 12:31 AM
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All three of those require an insane amount of skill to make money with. Try out what the guy above you mentioned.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 12:29 AM
1

Abseiler?
/r/askTRP10/06/15 12:28 AM
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They're funny lol. Don't look at what they say, look at how they say it. Body language, posturing, inflections.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 11:27 PM
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On second thought, it sounds a lot like amused mastery. I'll read up on that topic more.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 11:25 PM
1

Most definitely. I was saying I'm on mobile and can't look it up right now. I would when I get home, if you didn't have that information.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 10:09 PM
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I looked at your link. I was talking to this post, if there was any info/a link on male/female obesity rate ratios.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 09:53 PM
2

On the typing, perfect practice makes perfect. Be sure to use the home keys with all four fingers, and get used to using your pinky.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 09:48 PM
1

I'm on mobile, what regions are those?
/r/askTRP09/06/15 09:40 PM
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Do you charge for your Skype consultations?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 05:10 PM
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What're some of the risks? I'm not doubting that a lot of it came from our past, we ended on good enough terms.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:25 PM
1

Makes sense.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:44 AM
1

The sidebar will give you valuable insights into the mindset of TRP. This is where you will start to get your own moral compass for what is right, for you.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 12:14 AM
1

How do you generally handle comfort tests? I'm thinking agree and amplify wouldn't really be the correct way, since that would come off a little too mocking. I may be wrong though.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 10:06 PM
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"I pity you." "I don't think about you at all."
/r/askTRP08/06/15 08:55 PM
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How Can Mirrors Be Real If Our Eyes Aren't Real?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:45 PM
2

I have a couple times, but I won't anymore. What's the big deal with mentioning TRP? And how vague can I be about it? Like if I am reading something online, and someone asks, should I flat out lie? I've been telling friends I've been reading up on masculinity in the 21st century.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:29 PM
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Gotcha. Knowing this chick, I could see it going either way. I'm comfortable riding the wave.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 03:08 AM
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Gotcha, this is the reason why I'm choosing to pursue it. Even failure produces experience. Another reason why I think she's into it, her responses were all under a couple minutes, mine were all over ten minutes. I'm gonna do some reading up on plate securing, but if there are any noteworthy readings you know of I would appreciate it.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 11:59 PM
1

I will. Does this also mean that if she were to text me on a given day, I should just not reply?
/r/askTRP07/06/15 11:47 PM
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It started with me feeling my stomach empty one night when I was falling asleep. I started tracking it as it went through my intestines. Then, I moved into meditating while feeling my blood flow through the veins in my arms. I started tracking the blood as it moved through me. Into the heart, out of the heart, down the spine, through the legs, to my toes, up my toes, legs, back to the heart. You'd think you can't feel it since there are no receptors in there but, while still, they still make mov…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:32 PM
1

I'm pretty in tune with my body, and I can tell if my levels are high or low. I'll hear a change in my voice, how assertive I am feeling, if I'm in cuddle mode (oxytocin) or fuck mode (testosterone). This could all be bullshit, but when I was feeling myself in testosterone mode I felt the front middle of my brain pulsing. Turns out, it was pulsing right where my hypothalamus and pituitary gland are. I can sense all sorts of bodily changes though, digestion, different vaults of the heart beating,…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:04 PM
1

My experience has been around the 7th day I can feel a peak in testosterone, then it levels out to higher than when I am binging.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 10:54 PM
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The first day you start lifting, is the first day you look small. Your confidence will go up the better you look, but don't let your confidence be dependent on how you look. Let your confidence be built upon the actions it took to achieve that body.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 10:47 PM
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Damn. I was excited I had another potential plate. I'm still gonna follow it through when I get home, and use it as another learning experience. Besides, she put thought to it when I brought up our past. And when I suggested drinks, she was into it. But I'll keep my guard extra high, and be very aware of what my intent is.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 08:28 PM
1

I just finished it. You might read the post I just made, I did it entirely because of what I read in the book. Desires.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:21 PM
1

With the way you worded that question, it's my upbringing that makes me think that way. I'm currently in the middle of No More Mr. Nice Guy and its revealing a lot about me I didn't know.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 05:15 PM
1

High SMV that I'm not used to. Smooth, confident talker. I feel like with these traits chicks just assume I'm banging five chicks right now (which I now know isn't a bad thing, blue pill conditioning).
/r/askTRP07/06/15 04:35 PM
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There are a couple other girls there I'm going to move in on, but again I'm a little weary because the environment is so small. I don't want to make half the people that go there bitter at me.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 04:33 PM
2

I cam relate.immensely with you and your father. Born poor, family of fourteen, made it out on his own and now owns a very successful business. However, he wasn't there for me when I was a child. I work for him, and am a sort of apprentice. How can I find the line between humility and the strength of being a man? I am twenty two years old.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 06:10 AM
1

I'm not looking for someone who loves me unconditionally, it has been said here that men are the source of love. Men > women > children > puppies. I do, however, believe that it is possible in a lifetime to find someone who is capable of understanding life to the level that I want to be able to one day. I do believe AWALT, but to me it is as much a spectrum as men are blue/purple/red. I'm aware of the tremendous social pressures being put on women though, and how it is extremely unlikely I'll fi…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 03:44 AM
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I'm in a drug rehabilitation program, so.i am incredibly comfortable sharing my feelings and emotions. This has been something that I have had to see for what it is, a skill. But I have had to learn that this skill.is reserved, not something I will be showing to any lady that walks in front of me. It's great because it reinforces the investment.i make.into myself. Typos because.mobile.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 02:24 AM
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If you could reply I'd really appreciate it. Newer here and I've got a similar situation. Met girl, went to open mic with her, guys are all over her the second time I go so I sit back. She was dying for my attention all night. Asked her out, didn't work out schedule wise for the time being. When I go back, how do I hold myself? It'll be a usual thing for me, but I don't want to fawn over her when I go. I'd like to keep her on the table as a potential plate, but her text game tells me she is only…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 02:13 AM
1

I'm holding out for a unicorn, but I'll spin some plates in between now and then so that I'M the type of person ready and comfortable to be with that caliber.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 02:03 AM
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Reminds me of the cigarette story a few days ago, the betas turned first on the guy then on the girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 01:56 AM
1

Met her at a parade today, we walked in it. She was talking about how she never comes down to the city. I invited to take her out for a night on the town and for her number, she obliged. Do I go for the clubbing scene right away or do drinks? Should I lead that right into her place, being our first time going out, or feel it out? What would lead me to believe I shouldn't escalate it that night? I'm throwing myself out there with you guys as the rope. This community is amazing.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 01:15 AM
0

Game, set, match.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 07:15 PM
1

Are you talking online marketing or more of an entrepreneurial approach?
/r/askTRP06/06/15 06:09 PM
1

Nothing vocal, I'd pass that. It's the looks I get.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 06:06 PM
1

Exactly. I feel like with this girl I may not have given her enough attention, played the cool and reserved too much. But on the other hand I'm thinking she was only interested in the validation, so that's how it goes. AWALT.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 06:05 PM
1

Very likely, I'm just beginning to recognize them so I'm sure some are getting past me.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 03:11 PM
1

This exactly. I'm brand new the red pill, and it worked so well it felt downright wrong.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 01:50 PM
6

Increase your SMV.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 05:50 AM
2

Boom.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 05:49 AM
-1

This guy gets it.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 05:30 AM
0

Blue pill conditioning. I'll accept the red pill reality of this aspect of me.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 04:53 AM
1

Blue pill conditioning. I'll accept the red pill reality of this aspect of me.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 04:40 AM
1

Last update. I walked in, and dear god the hamster ran. It almost made me feel bad, the putty she became. Little dread game, and she was eyeballing me through the group of guys sitting at her table. I second guessed myself a little near the end, but I should be alright. I just think it is ridiculous how this stuff works. I then played a couple songs, then this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1IdKeZU8hs and the room goo'd.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 06:00 AM
1

Alright man, tomorrow I'll be going back and I'm a little nervous. Not a lot though, I've been reading up and maintaining frame throughout the week, staying away from oneitis, but I want a little pep talk. Also the 31 year old bailed, no biggie. I'm straight if she isn't into me, I've played that scenario and I'm cool. If this week had her hamster running and she gives me the eyes, I have no idea how to play it. I've never made it this far into the game before. Do I go after it? Would that be br…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 05:23 AM
0

Hahaha, the beta smokescreen. A coy trick up the alpha's sleeve.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 05:14 AM
5

Take the more difficult, high road and become aware of your beta-ness. Attach yourself to humility of where you are right now, and how you are continually.improving. In No More Mr. Nice Guy he says a fully attuned man is one who is instep with his weaknesses. Humility can be a tool, a lens through which you look at your weaknesses and look up to those greater than you for encouragement.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 11:14 PM
1

Yea, I don't think I entirely have that problem. Or at least that I don't reek of desperation and validation. My view, my life is full of amazing shit all the time. This isn't a highlight reel, this is how I live.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 09:01 PM
1

Ah, I think that was my problem. I had an amazing cold encounter the other day but in trying to have her not do all the talking, I gave away a lot of information about myself. There was a post relating girl sexual sluts to guy "emotional" sluts, and I think that's where my mistakes started. That, and no kino. It's a process.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 06:43 PM
2

This is the exact situation as was mentioned earlier somewhere, berating a woman. Using sex as something to barter with is disingenuous. Imagine if she were to give you a list of things to do, and only then you were allowed to have sex. Fuck that.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 04:33 AM
3

Fuck, dude. I just actually listened to the words to that song, for the first time. Shit sounds like me. No pity party though, I'm aware of my limitations. I work on my weaknesses. I am getting better.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 02:05 AM
2

I believe you, and if you won't I will, but do you have the sources for this infographic?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:01 AM
1

Gotcha. I won't be messaging her, I'll most likely see her on Thursday and feel it out from there. I'm pretty past it, abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:28 PM
2

Get this. Last night I met another chick, 31, 8.5. She's into music and is great at singing, and is super down for going next week. I couldn't have thought of this, it's some fuckin' magic. Scha-wing.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 12:05 AM
3

Talk to people about little shit. Have small conversations with strangers for the sake of making someone smile. As much as there is to gain in the world, there is just as much to give.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 09:23 AM
1

I followed all of that. I won't be hitting her up. What do you mean by your hint though? Like I should have initiated more, or what I did was right?
/r/askTRP30/05/15 04:50 AM
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That's what I mean. I'm still not sure where the line between shit test and nexting is. It's not a very big venue, there were maybe thirty people there, with less than ten our age. So I'm gonna have to be on my A-game to maintain face. I'm on the fence though about a three day re-initiate. It's like I can feel the BP in me wanting to do it, but I was really unimpressed by how she acted.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:10 AM
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What do you mean by too much push, not enough pull? There was a point where I got a little bitter, but I actively resisted that feeling. I was there, I love music, and I was having a good time.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:07 AM
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That's all the reassurance I needed. I'm going to call her Sunday (as per Roosh's BANG) and set up a time to meet for coffee over the week. Either way, I'll be going back to the place and being friendly with the people there. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 11:17 PM
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Keep lifting, keep reading, keep improving. Baby steps, bro.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:36 PM
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Be sure to lift! Having some muscle helps you look better, feel more confident, and attract better looking women. You're extremely lucky you've gotten into this as young as you have. If anything, any situation you are in, be grateful that you don't have to be taken advantage of anymore. This was my first revelation from TRP. Be comfortable with approach, and rejection. Abundance mentality, especially in a college setting will work wonders. Don't orbit. Find friends who are guys. I've got a coupl…
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:23 PM
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I did this once the other day and it worked really well. Why is it that removing questions works so well?
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:17 PM
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I enjoy dancing and EDM. I can groove pretty well to it, and that turns chicks on. I've had chicks (two at one time even) come onto me purely because of how I was dancing, because I have a great time moving my body. I go there primarily to dance though, but if I see somethings that catches my eye I'll pursue it.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:13 PM
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Keep doing it. Keeping doing it because you enjoy it. Keep doing it until it clicks. What else have you got to do?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:46 AM
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I'm new here, but I'm listening and I'm learning. I had little experience with girls, so my scope is limited. But the last paragraph, and most AWALT topics still get me cross. Maybe it's my blue pill mindset, but generalizing any group as a whole doesn't seem coherent. Can someone chime in on this for me?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:45 AM
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I love how when I read the maxims of Rollo they just make sense, like you don't have to be convinced of them. I'm starting to get a grasp on my frame and staying in it, but I can tell from this my game is whack. I'll be doing more digging around for sure. As a last though (and this may be BP mentality, but it seems AF), I'm not going to text her. But in a month I've gotta go in to buy some shirts for the promotion I'm moving into at work, and I'll have just gotten back from Vegas on business. I …
/r/askTRP27/05/15 12:27 AM
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Oh shit, I broke into her house last night on accident. What can I do to salvage the situation? /s because that's hilarious to add
/r/askTRP26/05/15 06:51 PM
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I remembered I'll be needing a couple more button ups as I got a promotion at work, in a month or so. So when I go back I'll go on a Sunday and feel it out.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 06:50 PM
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Huh, I use Speedie Readie. It's a Chrome app and works off of the webpage, same principle but more fluid. Works like a charm.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 05:34 PM
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Abundance mentality, I can do that. Seems weird to me, and I don't really want to, but I messed up and it totally felt like that for both of us.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 04:01 PM
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Gotcha. Should I text her at all, today, a couple days then? For real though, this is helping me. I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 01:16 PM
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So I shoulda just waited the two weeks?
/r/askTRP26/05/15 01:05 PM
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Calling someone a cunt right away isn't chill.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 05:20 AM
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Seven years is a LONG time to a horny eighteen year old, but I want OP to see the validity of your post.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 05:18 AM
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Like the other guy said, if you wanted to respect the couple for getting you a spot to the show, you didn't fuck up. If you wanted to get laid, you dun goofed. Coulda paid the couple back. Wait a couple days, text her about meeting up. Tell her you had a good time with her and wanted to get to know her better. If she's into it, great, if not, pass.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 05:10 AM
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I was on monk mode for a solid year. Initially, you have to commit to an undetermined amount of time. You don't know how long it will take to get where you want to be. But commit to the mindset, and you'll feel yourself connect to your frame in an unbelievable way. Monk mode can be intimidating, but it really is just an alternate path for the gains you want. Stay in that mindset. MGTOW is completely pulling out of the game.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 05:05 AM
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Look up Paul Yamazaki, his books are spot on. 21 Laws of Leadership also. A lot of what you will be looking for are books on leadership, strengthening yourself as a person to be a more valuable asset to your company.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 04:55 AM
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Read the books, it sounds like you've got quite a bit more time on your hands now. No More Mr. Nice Guy, there's a couple others. Immerse yourself in the literature to change your frame.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 04:50 AM
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Fuck the money, it's a mindset.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 04:47 AM
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Spot on with the sidebar. I feel that is an incredibly underutilized tool.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 12:22 AM
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It seems like going back to smiling would be the way to go. When I worked with females I was the happiest guy around, and I also seemed to get a ton of attention because of it. Stoicism can be combined with happiness, it just means you don't change when confronted with stimuli that would change a weaker man.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 11:12 AM
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The first paragraph states, "In psych terms, frame is an often subconscious, mutually acknowledged personal narrative under which auspices people will be influenced. One’s capacity for personal decisions, choices for well-being, emotional investments, religious beliefs and political persuasions (amongst many others) are all influenced and biased by the psychological narrative ‘framework’ under which we are most apt to accept as normalcy."
/r/askTRP21/05/15 06:56 PM
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I've been surprised with the level of maturity I've found in AskTRP. Regurgitated theory is still theory being talked about and dwelt on.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 02:30 AM
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/r/askTRP18/05/15 09:22 PM
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For sure man, it's always nice connecting with people who have gone through the same things. I'm right there with you though! Down nine pounds as of today. We're on an amazingly lucky path, very few people who have gone through what we have gone through and were able to climb out.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 06:47 PM
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It's in my post history and I occasionally post in their subreddits. I have been diagnosed with bipolar and schizoaffective. I've been on medication for both for over a year, and have eliminated 90%+ of my symptoms. I'm in the process of reducing my schizoaffective medication and I'm incredibly happy about that.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 06:41 PM
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Basically achieve for myself the life of the guy in Don Jon. Muscles, car, apartment, (own a business) and a girl. I've got most other aspects down lock. I've overcome drug addiction, mental illness, smoking cigarettes, and I'm in the middle of losing twenty pounds. So these next ones are the next hurdle for me.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 01:56 PM
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Have you read the sidebar yet? Also, start lifting if you don't already.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 01:52 PM
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When I first got here, the first thing I did was read the sidebar. This is the first subreddit I ever did that with. I'm not gonna call out others for not doing that, but only reiterate that it is important to read this material. In doing so, you elevate yourself to the level of knowledge that is needed to sustain a high-functioning subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 10:39 PM
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I'm gonna leave this for a bit to see if it doesn't get auto-deleted. I'm not sure how long I have to wait.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 10:26 PM
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First off, make sure to wait as long as you need to to maintain/get your frame back. I don't know all the details to the situation, so don't necessarily follow this verbatim. "Hey, it's a shame it didn't work out the other day. I've got some free time Sunday around 2p, would that work for you?"
/r/askTRP15/05/15 04:09 PM
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This nails it on the head for me. I'm an Alpha, it's in my blood. But every time I get into a relationship, I instantly fall into the pedestal trap, and become beta. It's the sad experience for a man to go through. I'm reading, though. I'll get there, one day at a time.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 03:11 AM
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Don't forget that a lot of what we talk about here is principle, in the real world it's a shimmer. There is a long way between principle and reality.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 02:54 AM
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A caveman knows it's better to sleep under shelter than in the rain. Progress evolved through comfort.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 02:53 AM
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I just read the dread game article and it was called a deviant tactic. But reading here, it seems to be something employed with tact. What gives?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 02:09 AM
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Hallelujah!
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:48 AM
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All valid points.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:48 AM
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I'm starting to learn that, and having an immense amount of respect for. I think TRP is the first place on Reddit I've mentioned I'm a Christian and not been flamed, but embraced, for it.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:04 AM
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Beautiful. I was talking to a friend last night who was trying to dissuade me from TRP, as it would "add an irreversible negativity" to my life. The thing is, he treats his girlfriend in a very red pill manner and he doesn't see/know it. I was raised blue pill, so it just isn't instinctual in me. I feel like your post is something every father should say to his son.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 11:18 PM
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Fuck that, take it for what it is. Make the plan.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 06:41 PM
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Just flicking some shit brah.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 03:31 PM
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Fuck, dude. I just read your post and that was some serious frame. The last chick I was talking to bailed on me hard, and I thought I broke frame. But after reading your post, I realized I held my frame quite well and possibly the sheer honesty of it drove her off.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 06:34 AM
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I wonder why it was traumatic for him, why do you think?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 06:26 AM
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So wait, did you guys go back to making out after she sucked your dick?
/r/askTRP14/05/15 05:20 AM
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I can relate to this answer the most, I'll be looking back over it with time to get a better understanding of it. I'm in a drug rehabilitation program where being able to express your emotions vocally (and work through them) is a highly valued skill, so I'm trying to see where this fits in with TRP.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 10:08 PM
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What is amused mastery? In a nutshell, I just started reading the literature and I'm sure I'll come across it eventually.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 06:59 PM
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I think I do a number of "beta" actions, but I've got an entirely red pill mindset about it. To others, I come off personable but assertive.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 02:50 AM
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This man knows.
/r/seduction20/07/13 07:40 PM
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I've never been into the whole hooking up game, but I love the advice people give about overcoming certain one-dimensional characteristics of boy-girl relationships, especially in the beginning stage. I'm confident, decently attractive, and comfortable around girls but it seems because of that there's always the lingering "I can tell she feels like I should make a move but I'm not into it," and I was wondering what I can say or do to get around that. I wouldn't consider it being friendzoned beca…
/r/seduction09/07/13 06:44 AM
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Makes me think of a Beautiful Mind and his rendition of this. I don't remember his solution, but that was brilliant how he flayed it out. Maybe check it out
/r/seduction10/05/13 04:25 AM
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