Really confused about a girl and my weight loss progress

jmaman · 2020-04-04T22:28:29+00:00

It sounds like she’s interested, at least remotely. You can try pushing things in that direction without putting too much effort into it, and see what happens.

On a different note, I wouldn’t be so worried about the ‘condescending’ remarks you mentioned about your weight. Being fat is a part of your past, and what matters is what they think about you now. If someone says something slightly mean about how you’ve lost weight, you can turn it into a joke/flirt by saying “yeah, I’m pretty sexy now that I’m not fat anymore huh”. Demonstrates a lot of confidence in yourself.

Edit: to address the ‘princess in disguise’ thing, yeah it does kind of seem like it. She was clearly willing to cheat on her bf and uses tinder for hookups, so you know she’s a bit of a slut. Doesn’t mean you can’t have fun with her.

quinnmcd · 2020-04-04T22:59:47+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to Ask Seddit (/r/askseddit), not to be confused with Ask Reddit.

Title	Really confused about a girl and my weight loss progress
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Date	April 4, 2020 10:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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