My girlfriend is trying to guilt me into driving to her place tonight. I just got done working a 12 hour shift and don’t feel like it. How should I handle this?

2020-04-09T00:29:59+00:00

Why do you have to ask us man. It’s not going to be the end of the world if you don’t go. Tell her she can come over but you’re tired from working all day and just want to chill. You’ll go tomorrow...

devuhhknee · 2020-04-09T00:58:40+00:00

Just explain how tired you are. Be very open and honest about it. If she really wants to see you, she'll come to you. If you're both too tired then it can wait for another day

2020-04-09T03:39:02+00:00

If you go over there she will lose respect for you in the long run. Don't be a beta cuck. Do what the fuck you want to do.

TangoZulu · 2020-04-09T05:26:50+00:00

How about tell her you’re not getting together because we are in the middle of A FUCKING DEADLY PANDEMIC. Stay home and stop spreading shit around, dummy.

TrackinThots · 2020-04-09T00:29:26+00:00

Don’t do it. Once she gets one yes it’s over. Set the bar to keep control and respect.

arachnid_nope · 2020-04-09T03:00:51+00:00

Just explain what's going on, that you just got off a 12 hour shift & you're really tired. It's nbd, there's always tomorrow

TrackinThots · 2020-04-09T03:22:45+00:00

There’s no rules on Reddit

ifthesewoescouldtalk · 2020-04-09T05:20:55+00:00

Is there anything (besides guilt) that she can do to make you wanna come over? Maybe something cute. Like, "hey I'm really tired too. I just finished 12 hours. But if you (do something) then I'll make an exception and come over"

If she can't sacrifice anything for u then she has no ground to stand on for making you sacrifice how tired you are.

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