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How to make the most of the COVID19 quarantine

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April 10, 2020

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Title	How to make the most of the COVID19 quarantine
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	April 10, 2020 1:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]MinCad 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Working on game right now borders on autism.

You're not actually practicing game because none of these girls believe there's a possibility of meeting you. You're effectively entertaining them, not gaming them.

If anything, they're gaming you by stealing your attention and offering fuck-all-nothing in return.

Focus on raising your SMV instead.

If you are dead set on doing game, then occasionally ping girls you already know to keep them interested.

Otherwise, if there's no possibility of meeting them this week, give them minimal attention [one word replies, occasional and very delayed responses, etc - basically what hot girls always do with chodey guys].

If a random girl doesn't want to meet you because you didn't text her for two weeks, she was really never into you at all. [Don't believe me? Reverse the roles. If a girl you have a crush on didn't message you for a few weeks but then suddenly reappeared and messeged u, would you refuse to speak to her or pass up the chance to meet her. Probably not lol]

[–]kuhlimoo 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]MinCad 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sexual Market Value

In men, it's a combination of looks, fitness, style, hygiene, lifestyle, confidence (self image), race, height, and frame.

Some things that determine SMV are hard or impossible to change (i.e., race, height, baldness). There are things you can do to ameliorate deficiencies like these. For example, don't be the negative stereotype of your race (unless youre Black, don't ask me why). If you're balding, for example, it's often better to shave your head (or cut it down to clipper size 0) rather having bald spots.

Other things are changeable (i.e., income, fitness, inner beliefs, skills, style). These are the things you really want to focus on since you can radically alter them.

Generally, you don't want to be on either extreme of focus.

A lot of guys think game is all that matters. They literally think fat, ugly, smelly guys can pull hot chicks if their game is good enough.

Other guys think smv is all that matters. These guys are often defeatist. They blame all their problems in dating on some external factor ("girls only date rich handsome guys" blah blah cry cry)

In truth, both game and smv are important.

But since you can't do traditional game right now, you might as well take the time to get your diet, fitness, mindset sorted or learn a skill that you can leverage for dating later.