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[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Focusing on one girl at a time is very difficult to do well. Most guys only get good at flirting and dating when they try to chase many women. In fact you should try to chase ALL women that you find attractive.
Even if you have good game, concentrating on one woman at a time is difficult and seldom successful. Women can tell (with their intuition) that you don't have other dating options. And unless they also decide that you're "the one" (they want you as a boyfriend or husband), they find obsessed guys to be a turn-off.
You screwed it up because you put too much pressure on yourself to be successful with this girl. You felt pressure because you thought that sleeping with her was your only chance. The girl felt your nervous vibe and it scared her off.
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
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