3 Beginner Mistakes You Unconsciously Make With Women

SavvyVolley6 · 2020-05-25T21:32:54+00:00

1st mistake: chasing them instead of making them chase you. It’s not as hard as it sounds, just keep striving to be the best version of yourself that you can be in all facets and you’ll pull them into your orbit like you’re a shark and they’re remoras just looking for a solid beast to latch onto.

XdoseoffreedomX · 2020-05-25T18:55:35+00:00

You know what I mean. When you’re talking to a cute girl, and she’s not giving you as much eye contact as you may want...

Or she’s not smiling at you...

Laughing at your jokes...

Talking more than she “should”...

This is a very dangerous mindset to be in, and it’s called “reactionary game.”

Many guys expect women to be a certain way when they approach her, and if they don’t, their fragile ego crumbles and feel scared.

This is what happens when you expect anything from a girl.

Put yourself in her shoes for a second. She’s a random girl walking doing her thing, maybe she’s in a rush to be there for a friend who isn’t doing well.

Then you, some random guy pops up outta nowhere (probably uncalibrated) and says “hey you looked cute had to say hi”

She will USUALLY not expect that and be taken back, you’re a random STRANGER, of course she won’t immediately drop to her knees and suck you off, smile like a baby in a candy store etc.

If a random person came up to you, are you gonna do that? Think about those salesmen who come up to you in the middle of the street to get you to sign something, you’re not gonna stop happily that easy.

Would YOU like being approached by you?

There are times girls will stop for you and it’s easy yes but you need to show empathy.

You gotta not approach her super close and give some space, and tell her you know it’s random.

Smile, don’t try to be this fake alpha persona. Don’t be goofy, but smile.

And focus on your actions instead of her REactions.

Don’t get in your head assuming she hates you thinks you’re weird etc, that’s negative fantasizing.

Stay in the present and don’t take it too seriously.

Focus on giving her fun and good emotions, and she will reciprocate.

Enjoy the vid!

Title	3 Beginner Mistakes You Unconsciously Make With Women
Author	XdoseoffreedomX
Upvotes	17
Comments	5
Date	May 25, 2020 6:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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